Why are we bottoms?

[gbottoms69]

I've only had one gay experience and it was years ago. It just turned out that I was the bottom. Not something i planned on but I loved it. Got married and have only been with my wife. Lately some old feelings have started up again and my ass is craving some action.

 

[Escierto]

I've only had one gay experience and it was years ago. It just turned out that I was the bottom. Not something i planned on but I loved it. Got married and have only been with my wife. Lately some old feelings have started up again and my ass is craving some action.

So your experience was just luck but clearly you liked it. Why do you think you ended up being a bottom back then?

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

Because that's what the wife wanted to see....

 

[Escierto]

Because that's what the wife wanted to see....

Interesting. Would she like to see you bottom again?

 

[Hitchiker69]

I never knew anal sex was 'a thing' that gay men did until I fucked a guy myself.
That's how naive I was when I started having sex with men. After several experiences with men I got
curious, and had to try it myself. First sucking and 69'ing. Eventually kissing
and finally letting a man fuck me.

I enjoyed every bit of it. It's as simple as that. I never felt submissive, since I choose to
do it.

I don't over think it, I just enjoy it. Looking forward to a lot more

 

[Escierto]

My girlfriend and I are both over thinkers. It’s not a good thing but here we are.

 

[OpenMouth]

There are a number of factors for me... The taboo of 'taking it up the arse like a woman' is a strong one, plus I'm not attracted to men so I could never fuck one.

Plus, I love to dress like a slut and do the things slutty girls (which I adore) do. And we all know the type of things I'm talking about.

 

[Escierto]

There are a number of factors for me... The taboo of 'taking it up the arse like a woman' is a strong one, plus I'm not attracted to men so I could never fuck one.

Plus, I love to dress like a slut and do the things slutty girls (which I adore) do. And we all know the type of things I'm talking about.

So do men fuck you? Transgender women?

 

[OpenMouth]

Yes and yes

 

[Escierto]

Yes and yes

Good for you. I am not attracted to men at all so I have zero interest in that. However I find many transgender women very attractive especially if they are tops! I just don’t understand why being a bottom appeals to me so much? A guy asked me if my girlfriend and I 69. I said no, she doesn’t want to suck me or have anything to do with my cock. So basically my job is to serve her sexually - which I love. I am like her personal sex slave using my holes to satisfy her.

 

[MGTG]

I didn’t wait.

I had been with 6 guys before my first girl. They were all my friends growing up, 2 were older brother’s of my friend. They took turns fucking my mouth during a sleep over at my friends house. So that was 3 in one night, the other 3 were neighbors one lived behind me Duwayne was his name, we took turns sucking each other for a while in my bed but one one came and it never happened again. Victor my next door neighbor who was 3 years older than me taught me all about jacking off and he always had dirty magazines. He eventually had me sucking his cock almost every day, for about a year straight.

Then there was Johnny, my very first top. We fooled around during sleepovers, we would take turns humping each other, then slowly it was just him doing all the humping. And we kept getting closer and closer to penetration. We started off covered with blankets and soon we were down to underwear. We took a long break but the last time we fooled around Johnny came all over my ass. I never forgot that night and I wanted to go further all the way, and so did he because one day a few years later we were hanging out at his house and we went into his room. His room was super dark, and he said he was gonna lay down for a min cause he was tired. I said ok, I quickly said I am too. We both knew exactly what we were going to do, pick up where we left off. I wanted it so bad but we needed to work out the kinks.

I was wearing pants that day as I laid down next to Johnny, he waiting for a min then he felt for my ass and soon he climbed on me tried to rip them down around my ass he finally unbutton then and pulled them down past my ass and underwear next. He spread my ass and was only able to put his cock between my cheeks and hump me like that for a while then he jumped off and came on the side wear he was lying. This happened a few more times till finally Johnny said for me to “go home and change into some shorts and then let’s take a nap” I said ok and I came back in my drawstring shorts and flip flops. I was so anxious as we laid down on his bed, I heard Johnny taking off his clothes and he didn’t even lay down next to me he immediately started pulling off my shorts and my underwear came off with them. He climbed on me and spread my legs open and my ass and shoved his cock in, of course it didn’t go right in he had to try to find my hole and he eventually did but it wasn’t going all in, but it was still so hot. We were both about to cum and he slipped out of me again and came in my ass crack, he filled it and then bingo! All of a sudden his cock slammed inside my ass all the way, his cum lubed me up. I lost my breathe and the cried out softly ooooh. Johnny was able to give me a couple of hard strokes but he was going soft. He whispered in my ear “your all mine now”.

The very next day we did it again and this time I brought the game changer, Vaseline. I greased my ass up before I left my house and brought the jar with me. And this time I took off my shorts and underwear before I laid down. I also handed him the Vaseline. I watched him grease his cock and I was spread eagle waiting for him, Johnny got on top of me and easily enter my ass. I tensed up and as felt him like never before. I felt his balls touch my asshole and then Johnny held me tight and gave me hard thrusting strokes, I could tell he didn’t want to slip out of me. He started breathing hard and thrusting faster and the he cried out...ahhhh ahhhh, I felt my insides warm up and I even felt cum finding its way down my ass. I came too, and Johnny said inside me till he went limp. Wow!!! My bottom story had officially begun!
I thought I would just tell me beginning story to answer the question, “why are we bottoms”

 

[nostuff]

It's all about whether I want to penetrate or be penetrated.

When I want to be penetrated, another man is the obvious choice, whether in my mouth or in my ass. That's what cocks are for, simple as that.

But when it comes to penetrating somebody else, I don't want a man. I've tried it, and I just don't find the male body appealing. But a beautiful woman, that's entirely different.

So I'm a bottom when I'm feeling gay; a top when I'm hetero. Unless, of course, I find a woman who's willing to "force" me to be gay. If that ever happens, I'm happy to bottom for everybody.

 

[Escierto]

It's all about whether I want to penetrate or be penetrated.

When I want to be penetrated, another man is the obvious choice, whether in my mouth or in my ass. That's what cocks are for, simple as that.

But when it comes to penetrating somebody else, I don't want a man. I've tried it, and I just don't find the male body appealing. But a beautiful woman, that's entirely different.

So I'm a bottom when I'm feeling gay; a top when I'm hetero. Unless, of course, I find a woman who's willing to "force" me to be gay. If that ever happens, I'm happy to bottom for everybody.

If you were being fucked by a beautiful transgender woman, would that be gay or heterosexual?

 

[Sunnyade]

I'm fairly new to being penetrated, up until a few months ago I had always been top. I enjoy the sensation and feelings of submission. Nice to just lie back and let him use my ass.

 

[Escierto]

I'm fairly new to being penetrated, up until a few months ago I had always been top. I enjoy the sensation and feelings of submission. Nice to just lie back and let him use my ass.

What made you switch? Do you see yourself as versatile now? Or still a top?

 

[little cletus]

Physically...because it feels good. It feels good to receive anal sex. It always feels good to satisfy a partner.

Mentally, I'm sure it has something to do with challenging traditional gender roles, but I've been wearing panties since before I understood what any of that meant. I was sneaking my mother and sisters' underwear and bras since before I could get an erection. I never felt like I wanted to be a woman. I just loved how the fabrics felt on my skin and looked on me. But I understood that I was always a boy/man underneath. And for most of the time I thought of myself as strictly hetero. It wasn't until way later that I started even thinking about sex with men, which has never happened and only lives in fantasies.

But those bi/gay fantasies are almost exclusively feature me as a bottom. I want to receive anal and give oral/manual.

 

[Escierto]

Physically...because it feels good. It feels good to receive anal sex. It always feels good to satisfy a partner.

Mentally, I'm sure it has something to do with challenging traditional gender roles, but I've been wearing panties since before I understood what any of that meant. I was sneaking my mother and sisters' underwear and bras since before I could get an erection. I never felt like I wanted to be a woman. I just loved how the fabrics felt on my skin and looked on me. But I understood that I was always a boy/man underneath. And for most of the time I thought of myself as strictly hetero. It wasn't until way later that I started even thinking about sex with men, which has never happened and only lives in fantasies.

But those bi/gay fantasies are almost exclusively feature me as a bottom. I want to receive anal and give oral/manual.

Have you been able to make your fantasy a reality?

 

[little cletus]

Have you been able to make your fantasy a reality?

Nope. Marriage and kids got in the way. Wife used to peg me a few times, but she wont anymore. She doesn't care that I have my own lingerie drawer and a dildo for my ass, but she doesn't want to get involved. She doesn't like seeing me as a bottom.

 

[nostuff]

If you were being fucked by a beautiful transgender woman, would that be gay or heterosexual?

I imagine it would be a mite confusing.

Truth is, I don't understand transgender. Not that I'm averse; it's simply beyond my experience. But given the opportunity, I doubt I would turn it down. It's still a cock after all.

 

[MidTownBob]

In my case, I developed ED and, while I could still cum, found that most guys weren’t interested. However, I eventually realized that my preference was toward pleasing other men. In the end, I find myself satisfied by the thrill of knowing that I brought someone to orgasm.

 

[Escierto]

I imagine it would be a mite confusing.

Truth is, I don't understand transgender. Not that I'm averse; it's simply beyond my experience. But given the opportunity, I doubt I would turn it down. It's still a cock after all.

What do you not understand about it? My girlfriend says that as long as she can remember she said she was a girl, grew her hair long, wore girl’s clothing and played with dolls etc. Even her body rebelled at being masculine. She has a feminine voice, no Adam’s Apple and a small delicate body. When I see her naked, I literally can’t believe how she has that big cock between her legs.

https://i.imgur.com/T9GWWCq.jpg

 

[nostuff]

What do you not understand about it?

https://i.imgur.com/T9GWWCq.jpg

I don't know what I don't understand. Like I said, I have no experience with transgender people. If I've ever met somebody who was trans, I wasn't aware of it. And until I've met that person, I doubt I can understand their thoughts and feelings.

Until then, at least when it comes to questions of gay vs. hetero, it's best to be honest and admit that I don't know what I'm talking about, because I have no experience.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

I like bottoming because being pegged gave me the greatest and most intense pleasure of my life. nothing compares to it. i'm more than happy to develop this further, with men or women.

I'm not so interested in being a top, but that's because being a bottom has now become such an intense focus of my desires....

 

[sterculius]

The first person with whom I ever did anything of a sexual nature was my best friend Larry. One day, we decided to jerk off together. Before this, I had never seen anyone else's erection, and was amazed by the size of his cock. It was MUCH bigger than mine was!!! I was mesmerized by it. I wanted to touch it. At my instigation, we went from jerking off to exchanging hand jobs and ultimately blowjobs. I would always volunteer to blow him first, and after he came, he was naturally reluctant to return the favor. Eventually, after it became obvious that I would rather suck his cock than receive a blowjob from him, it became mutually understood that by virtue of his much bigger cock, he was my sexual superior and I willingly embraced the Beta role to his Alpha. I agreed to become his personal cocksucker. I'm not gay. I feel none of the emotional attraction toward men as I do for women, but I do love letting men "use" me orally.

 

[Crios]

The first person with whom I ever did anything of a sexual nature was my best friend Larry. One day, we decided to jerk off together. Before this, I had never seen anyone else's erection, and was amazed by the size of his cock. It was MUCH bigger than mine was!!! I was mesmerized by it. I wanted to touch it. At my instigation, we went from jerking off to exchanging hand jobs and ultimately blowjobs. I would always volunteer to blow him first, and after he came, he was naturally reluctant to return the favor. Eventually, after it became obvious that I would rather suck his cock than receive a blowjob from him, it became mutually understood that by virtue of his much bigger cock, he was my sexual superior and I willingly embraced the Beta role to his Alpha. I agreed to become his personal cocksucker. I'm not gay. I feel none of the emotional attraction toward men as I do for women, but I do love letting men "use" me orally.

For a scientific discussion about that question...
https://jezebel.com/born-to-bottom-researchers-report-biological-correlati-1794233584

Long article but the charts show interesting correlations