Why are you a bottom?

[onemadvagabond]

Two reasons really.
One, I am quite submissive. I prefer to please someone.
Two, every time a finger, dildo, cock enters me, I am hard as a rock and cum so very easily. That right there is like fate telling me who I am supposed to be.

 

[jackstud]

Two reasons really.
One, I am quite submissive. I prefer to please someone.
Two, every time a finger, dildo, cock enters me, I am hard as a rock and cum so very easily. That right there is like fate telling me who I am supposed to be.

That is beautiful

 

[Samuelx]

That is beautiful

Masculine bisexual guy out here. I like to ride girls strapons so yeah, I'm a bottom. Lol.

 

[October46]

I love watching the woman enjoying the sensation; it is a great part of the pleasure of making love.

 

[44special]

Telling others what to do and how to do it at work is such a drag.
It's peaceful to submit and accept what another has to give.

 

[Cumsluttanya]

It is quite pleasurable for me to please others...

 

[isabellepain]

Simple really...its where he wants me to be

 

[nudeguy76]

I think it's a lot more complicated that simply saying that the bottom is submissive, and the top is dominant. I am a really exceptional athlete, strong and wiry, but I'm slender, so I don't appear to be super macho. The odd thing is that mano a mano I can defeat in a bare-hands fight men who are inches taller and 30-40-50 pounds heavier, but, sexually I enjoy the feeling of being dominated by someone who is bigger, heavier, stronger than I am.

Psychologically, I'm not sure whether my need to seek and enjoy penetration of my mouth and rectum is a symptom that the struggle to be macho in the real world is exhausting, or whether I may be taking the strength of big, muscular men by accepting their manhood into me, and draining it of its power.

I have a transvestite friend who is very choosy about whom she will fuck, but will, in her own words, suck every cock she can. The reason, she feels that when she is sucking cock she is in control of the situation, whereas when she is being fucked she is not.
I love to suck cock and i am a bottom. I can be the aggressive /dominant guy even as a bottom. Sometimes i love to straddle my guy, sitting on top of him. Riding his cock! Im in control...the dominant one. But other times i just like to lay on my back and spread my legs for a guy (or guys!)cock. To offer my hole up to him....to be fucked hard! That is submissive. Especially letting a few men fuck me. So as a bottom guy, i can be both!

 

[Seamen]

Two reasons really.
One, I am quite submissive. I prefer to please someone.
Two, every time a finger, dildo, cock enters me, I am hard as a rock and cum so very easily. That right there is like fate telling me who I am supposed to be.

Lovely! Well put! Same here

Plus I like to think that it's not just about labels. I for one didn't look it up first, and then decided that okay, this is what I'm going to be. Rather, I was a bottom before I even knew there was a label for it. Personally, I have no interest in penetrating someone. I love getting penetrated, and having someone dominate me. I also like "playing" with other bottoms, making them cum, having them make me cum, sucking and jerking each other off, putting fingers and stuff in each other's bum, but it's really that I have never felt that need to do what a top does. But of course, I've always had that need to have the top do it to me

 

[chrisb2282]

Lovely! Well put! Same here

Plus I like to think that it's not just about labels. I for one didn't look it up first, and then decided that okay, this is what I'm going to be. Rather, I was a bottom before I even knew there was a label for it. Personally, I have no interest in penetrating someone. I love getting penetrated, and having someone dominate me. I also like "playing" with other bottoms, making them cum, having them make me cum, sucking and jerking each other off, putting fingers and stuff in each other's bum, but it's really that I have never felt that need to do what a top does. But of course, I've always had that need to have the top do it to me

Well put yourself. I didn't know what a bottom was at first, but I've always been one. Even with women, I prefer any partner to be dominant. Just the way I'm programmed.

 

[onemadvagabond]

Lovely! Well put! Same here

Plus I like to think that it's not just about labels. I for one didn't look it up first, and then decided that okay, this is what I'm going to be. Rather, I was a bottom before I even knew there was a label for it. Personally, I have no interest in penetrating someone. I love getting penetrated, and having someone dominate me. I also like "playing" with other bottoms, making them cum, having them make me cum, sucking and jerking each other off, putting fingers and stuff in each other's bum, but it's really that I have never felt that need to do what a top does. But of course, I've always had that need to have the top do it to me

That's right. I am one because it's what I enjoy most. There was no deciding I think I want to be a bottom vice being a top. I just enjoy it because I like it better that way. Playing with another bottom in the way you describe sounds lovely as well.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'd be a bottom (I haven't been YET) because I can top whenever I want with women. When I'm dressed up as Lexi, I want to be used; I want to be taken; I want to be penetrated and be someone's slut. If I wanted to top, I'd find a woman and do it.

There is no real question, or choice involved in 'why'. You are what you are. You do what you do. There can be no real explanation for your tastes or your needs. I suck cock. That's what turns me on. That's what I do. Usually it's with an older controlling friend, which relieves me of the necessity of making decisions, or being assertive, or taking the initiative. I am obedient to his desire. I am naked, which is the only true honesty, an erection tells no lies, and in that way he can clearly see by my aching hard-on just how much I'm getting off on serving him. I am grateful for his indulgence. If I'm with a guy my own age I like to sixty-nine, that's pretty-much heaven, that's always been favorite. But no-one understands the inner workings of their own sex-drive. That's what makes it so wonderful.

 

[onemadvagabond]

There is no real question, or choice involved in 'why'. You are what you are. You do what you do. There can be no real explanation for your tastes or your needs. I suck cock. That's what turns me on. That's what I do. Usually it's with an older controlling guy, which relieves me of the necessity of making decisions, or being assertive, or taking the initiative. I am obedient to his desire. I am naked, which is the only true honesty. I am grateful for his indulgence. If I'm with a guy my own age I like to sixty-nine, that's pretty-much heaven, that's always been favorite. But no-one understands the inner workings of their own sex-drive. That's what makes it so wonderful.

Nicely put.

 

[msmooth331]

Because in my straight life I'm a dominant top in just about everything I do. I like being seduced into giving up my ass and mouth to start with. There's a freedom and relaxation of not being in charge for once.

Having someone aggressively grab my crotch and ass instead of expecting me to take the first step. The firm grip and probing fingers lubing me up. The hand on the shoulder and nudge of a cock against my lips. The manhandling me into position and the blunt head against my hole. The luxury of passivity as you feel the pressure and insertion. The press and later smack of flesh against my ass. It's a temporary freedom from responsibility, the opportunity to be a slut, and chance to be lusted over.

I haven't experienced it yet, but you've explained perfectly why it interests me so much.

 

[obiwan9962]

i just enjoy it
no other reason other than it feels great
any one in ontario, canada hit me up

 

[Boishorti]

Love feeling a man behind me sliding his cock into my boi pussy. Being submissive n his lil fuck toy. Knowing his cum will be in me n dripping into my panties is a major turn on n I've cum without even having to touch myself or him do anything except fuck me

 

[bi golly]

I haven't bottomed yet, but the idea of a man's warm cock in place of the silicone dildos I have used thus far really gets me off. Feeling his warm body on mine, his cock finding my prostate, fucking me.

That is why I want to bottom.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

my ex bf was bi .paired and dated me for social pressure.treated me as a bottom boy. that's it.

 

[obiwan9962]

my ex bf was bi .paired and dated me for social pressure.treated me as a bottom boy. that's it.

my ex bf is gay. i am bi. i bottomed for him because i wanted to

 

[turnofthepaige]

Bottom and sub

In my case being bottom and submissive all goes together. I love the feeling of knowing someone is turned on from me and wants to use me for their pleasure. Knowing we are both getting hotter as he prepares me for his cock and then fills me with it is just pure bliss. And then feeling it pump into me whether it is slow and sensual or hard and punishing makes me feel so sexy and feminine knowing I am making him happy. And then when I feel myself fill with cum just tops it off

 

[gk6h]

so hot...nice

 

[StrayKat]

I am dominant bottom.
Because I like to be lazy attention getting bitch.

 

[jackstud]

Stray Cat

I need a Stray Cat in heat. Sissss dont scratch ok to dig your nails in

 

[nudeguy76]

to feel this

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AQOUUTLwp...B8dU/s1600/tumblr_n1jm9huOoZ1t231szo2_400.gif

 

[obiwan9962]

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AQOUUTLwp...B8dU/s1600/tumblr_n1jm9huOoZ1t231szo2_400.gif

that would rip me a part
i like a nice 6-7 inches
got a buddy with an 8 i might try one day