jackstud
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Nude, I am not that big. Wow
Why are you a bottom?
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Nude, I am not that big. Wow
StrayKat
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What about service top?
TheLM
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Because of this:
My fantasy is a very well-put-together older man who is both eloquent and intelligent... The setting is irrelevant. Circumstances could involve power play, but eventually I want it to come down to this:
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1109686&d=1325600112
(photo credit to Namaste; the best looking male on lit!)
I want to dress me in the sluttiest panties possible. I want the tiny amounts of fabric to accentuate my curved, supple ass but not to cover it in any obscuring fashion. He needs to see what is his.
......mmmm... And that is only the beginning!
none2_none2
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tops perspective...
There does seem to be many on this thread that relate bottom to submissive. I suppose there is an element of dominance to topping for many tops. I don't dwell on it. Physically, I have always had a physical attraction to masculine, hairy, muscular, Caucasian guys who are neither to young, too old, too skinny, too obese, etc. I never obsessed with penises -- how big, small, hard, soft, etc. I figured they simply cum with the territory on m2m sex. When I see a large penis, I may wish that mine was that way, but I don't crave to hold it, or put it in my mouth or in my ass at all. There is no yuck factor as you find with straight guys (or non-straight guys in denial), but neither is there an itch. I do appreciate it when a guy gets hard from my manipulations, but that is because it is a sign of arousal, that is a guide to make me think I'm doing something right.
The same is not true for other parts of the body of a guy who turns me on. I love rubbing my body against my hairy partner's skin. I love a game I have of finding how far I can get with my partner's ass with my finger without him waking up. I also love cupping his rather large balls while he sleeps as being infertile, I guess I associate big balls with fertility and more hormones although I know ball size has little to do with it...
To receive oral is pleasant, but I cannot recall the last time I had an orgasm that way. If I did, it must have been like 25 plus years ago. I just do not remember. On the other hand, there is something so profound about being inside a guy who turns you on who wants ME to fuck him because it is ME.
Bottom anal sex is considered so taboo for guys in so many ways. It is considered emasculating. It is considered nasty because the potential for being dirty. It is considered diseased because of HIV another other regular STD's. It is considered also making yourself vulnerable as the lining of the ass is more delicate than a mouth, a hand, your cock skin, or even a woman's vagina.
Despite those things, there is no person I'd rather be with than with a man who sets all those taboo's aside and doesn't mind myself being inside him. I'm fortunate in that I have had the same guy now for about 10 years. It isn't about just putting a penis in a hole. I have to be attracted to them, and I have to admit if the guy is bottom because he craves any thing there, or is too effeminate, then it is hard to stay engaged. Likewise, I never particularly cared for someone that needs it really rough because I always wanted to fuck a guy for a lifetime -- not until he was messed up and had to give it up.
I suppose some may consider it emasculating for me to say, that I dream of impregnating a guy. Not to make him into a woman, or grow boobs. Rather, when I'm attracted and care about a guy, I wish I could mate with him and thus have offspring that forever united our families. I think a lot about breeding because being gay and infertile, it is the biggest disappointment in my life. My line ends with me.
I was never every bottoms dream top. I'm just average in penis size. I'd rather be connected for twice the time than race to the finish line like a jack rabbit. I LOVE orgasm, but emotionally, the time I'm connected to another man is more precious than orgasm. During the connection to me it is almost like the merger of two universes, and if you can throw kissing into the mix all the more so.
I would add that the guy who mentioned performance problem concerns has a point. From that standpoint, he is very right. However, one cannot change their nature. If my partner was to die tomorrow, and I was out on the prowl, I would still be a top despite my problems. (I cannot take Viagra again as the last time (just this Jan) it induced hearing loss and tinnitus. I cannot risk that again as my hearing is important to me.) So even if I was so lonely for companionship, I still could not see myself bottoming... When I first did gay sex, I was given the wrong idea from men that love to lie to get their way that you had to be hung to be a top. Thus I bottomed for about two years before I even got to top for the first time. That was such a confusing time for me as I wondered if I must be straight as I was so dis-satisfied with gay sex. I thought perhaps I just wanted a father figure. Finally, one guy let me fuck him, and it was like Christmas, the 4th of July, Easter, etc all happening in a one time 20 minute period. From that point on I knew myself. There was no amount of training that would have made me a bottom or for that matter flexible. For me, life at its finest is an attractive man wanting to hold and kiss you while he desires your cock in him as much as you desire being inside him.
For me the fact that there are bottom men in the world that are so by choice and not by coercion, or need of money/influence, makes me feel like there is a higher power in this universe that wants even perverts to find some happiness in this world. Luckily, I've found mine.
There does seem to be many on this thread that relate bottom to submissive. I suppose there is an element of dominance to topping for many tops. I don't dwell on it. Physically, I have always had a physical attraction to masculine, hairy, muscular, Caucasian guys who are neither to young, too old, too skinny, too obese, etc. I never obsessed with penises -- how big, small, hard, soft, etc. I figured they simply cum with the territory on m2m sex. When I see a large penis, I may wish that mine was that way, but I don't crave to hold it, or put it in my mouth or in my ass at all. There is no yuck factor as you find with straight guys (or non-straight guys in denial), but neither is there an itch. I do appreciate it when a guy gets hard from my manipulations, but that is because it is a sign of arousal, that is a guide to make me think I'm doing something right.
The same is not true for other parts of the body of a guy who turns me on. I love rubbing my body against my hairy partner's skin. I love a game I have of finding how far I can get with my partner's ass with my finger without him waking up. I also love cupping his rather large balls while he sleeps as being infertile, I guess I associate big balls with fertility and more hormones although I know ball size has little to do with it...
To receive oral is pleasant, but I cannot recall the last time I had an orgasm that way. If I did, it must have been like 25 plus years ago. I just do not remember. On the other hand, there is something so profound about being inside a guy who turns you on who wants ME to fuck him because it is ME.
Bottom anal sex is considered so taboo for guys in so many ways. It is considered emasculating. It is considered nasty because the potential for being dirty. It is considered diseased because of HIV another other regular STD's. It is considered also making yourself vulnerable as the lining of the ass is more delicate than a mouth, a hand, your cock skin, or even a woman's vagina.
Despite those things, there is no person I'd rather be with than with a man who sets all those taboo's aside and doesn't mind myself being inside him. I'm fortunate in that I have had the same guy now for about 10 years. It isn't about just putting a penis in a hole. I have to be attracted to them, and I have to admit if the guy is bottom because he craves any thing there, or is too effeminate, then it is hard to stay engaged. Likewise, I never particularly cared for someone that needs it really rough because I always wanted to fuck a guy for a lifetime -- not until he was messed up and had to give it up.
I suppose some may consider it emasculating for me to say, that I dream of impregnating a guy. Not to make him into a woman, or grow boobs. Rather, when I'm attracted and care about a guy, I wish I could mate with him and thus have offspring that forever united our families. I think a lot about breeding because being gay and infertile, it is the biggest disappointment in my life. My line ends with me.
I was never every bottoms dream top. I'm just average in penis size. I'd rather be connected for twice the time than race to the finish line like a jack rabbit. I LOVE orgasm, but emotionally, the time I'm connected to another man is more precious than orgasm. During the connection to me it is almost like the merger of two universes, and if you can throw kissing into the mix all the more so.
I would add that the guy who mentioned performance problem concerns has a point. From that standpoint, he is very right. However, one cannot change their nature. If my partner was to die tomorrow, and I was out on the prowl, I would still be a top despite my problems. (I cannot take Viagra again as the last time (just this Jan) it induced hearing loss and tinnitus. I cannot risk that again as my hearing is important to me.) So even if I was so lonely for companionship, I still could not see myself bottoming... When I first did gay sex, I was given the wrong idea from men that love to lie to get their way that you had to be hung to be a top. Thus I bottomed for about two years before I even got to top for the first time. That was such a confusing time for me as I wondered if I must be straight as I was so dis-satisfied with gay sex. I thought perhaps I just wanted a father figure. Finally, one guy let me fuck him, and it was like Christmas, the 4th of July, Easter, etc all happening in a one time 20 minute period. From that point on I knew myself. There was no amount of training that would have made me a bottom or for that matter flexible. For me, life at its finest is an attractive man wanting to hold and kiss you while he desires your cock in him as much as you desire being inside him.
For me the fact that there are bottom men in the world that are so by choice and not by coercion, or need of money/influence, makes me feel like there is a higher power in this universe that wants even perverts to find some happiness in this world. Luckily, I've found mine.
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Sasha69
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Well, Some "Gentleman" wil be very lucky ...
... because that's some FAB CANDY !
Good Luck, and Good Hunting I can see the "anticipation" in that photo. It's almost like it's that last moment before you feel the contact, heat, and Mmmmmmmmm ! Yeah, I'm feelin it! And now you know why I give up the candy! I also enjoy a nice piece of "candy" myself!
... because that's some FAB CANDY !
Good Luck, and Good Hunting I can see the "anticipation" in that photo. It's almost like it's that last moment before you feel the contact, heat, and Mmmmmmmmm ! Yeah, I'm feelin it! And now you know why I give up the candy! I also enjoy a nice piece of "candy" myself!
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Rckymtn110
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Because it feels so good. Does anyone else feel totally relaxed and relieved after either cumming with a dildo or the real thing?
fit2betied
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Have to agree, When I was more active with bi side I question that myself and always found I was more feminine and enjoyed being fucked, i like being used as a cum hole, just wish it could be more
SeriousDave
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I am vers. When I meet the right guy I will bottom. The best part about it to feel his hard cock pulsating before pumping his seed inside of me. There is no comparison to the feeling of being 'bred'!
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love how his leg buckles
TheLM
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... because that's some FAB CANDY !
haha, thanks!
SeriousDave
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I would definitely bottom him ), but I think both my legs would buckle
), but I think both my legs would buckle 
obiwan9962
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obiwan9962
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yea, i would agree but instead i am going to sleep alone
gk6h
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Yea...no that feeling
SeriousDave
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Would love to have him spray his cum deep inside me. Going to bed alone too, but will need to do something about my bulge
obiwan9962
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would love to help both of you chaps.... i can get alittle thirsty
gk6h
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Bottoms up lol
I can't even imagine how that monster would feel. ... but I'd sure like to find out.
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