Why does this turn me on so much?

[sr71plt]

I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else.

In both many of my stories and in RL I have explained how it made me feel to be dominated and taken by a stronger, more muscled, big-cocked man (not "beat em up sex, but strongly controlled sex). It's the thought of being able to drive their desire and need. Actually controlling them and the knowledge of being wanted by them to the extent that they had to overpower and take me. Never went in for the violent (other than vigorous sex) or humiliation bit, though.

 

[sterculius]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

I can strongly relate to this. As a teenager, I used to enjoy sucking my best friend Larry's cock. What began as a mutual exchange where we would take turns giving each other blowjobs, evolved, at my instigation, into me always blowing him. I would volunteer to blow him first, knowing that after he came, he'd be reluctant to reciprocate and the next time we met, I'd again offer to blow him. It didn't take long before it was mutually understood that it would always be only me blowing him. I didn't mind. In fact I liked the way this made me feel! I liked being "the cocksucker"! What I found to be especially exciting was the sense of subjugation and objectification that I experienced as I was down on my knees, sucking and slobbering on his cock, looking forward to the moment when I would feel his cock explode in my mouth, filling it with warm, creamy cum. Although he was shorter and smaller than I was. in addition to being almost a year younger than me, his cock was huge! It was MUCH bigger than mine was! While I liked sucking his cock in all the various positions and often taking the active role, my preference was to be on my knees with him standing. And to encourage him to become more aggressive, I would passively hold his cock in my mouth without providing much stimulation, encouraging him to grasp my head in exasperation, vigorously thrusting his cock deep in my mouth, slamming it to the back and eventually forcing it all the way down into my throat. At that point, in his frenzy, he became oblivious to my comfort or safety, using my throat simply as a warm, wet and tight hole to provide pleasure to his cock and as a convenient receptacle to deposit his cum into. I reveled in this anonymous surrender of ego and I ceased to be regarded by him as a "who", becoming merely an "it" to be used for his erotic convenience and sexual gratification. I loved the way this made me feel!! I still do.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I think I am in this group. I started wanting a woman to order me to kneel before her husband. I never look at a man on the street and think there is a cock I want to serve but women I visualize being with all the time. I guess I am waiting for the right guy to come pick me up on his M.C. then it will happen as it should