Why I hate bi-curious men.

From when I was a teenager I've known I was bi (revised to pan now). And I found that getting your hands (or mouth) on a cock is about the easiest thing on earth to do, so much easier than finding a willing woman at short notice.

On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?

A lot of the time it feels like it's just a box some guys feel they have to tick, or they're looking to play with a couple and think it might be an extra enticement, but when it comes down to it a lot of guys are just like "You can suck my cock, I guess, maybe, but I'm not sucking yours".

Come on guys, overcome that curiosity and get the fuck out of that closet.
I am no longer curious. One meeting with a connection made on SilverDaddies changed that. However, I have a wife to protect so I will be in the closet for the foreseeable future.

I dropped the bi part of bi-curious quickly. It took a bit longer to announce that I am a bottom, a cocksucker and would love to be a Tops bitch. I know now that I am a submissive bottom but I have not found the limits to my submission yet.
 
I am no longer curious. One meeting with a connection made on SilverDaddies changed that. However, I have a wife to protect so I will be in the closet for the foreseeable future.

I dropped the bi part of bi-curious quickly. It took a bit longer to announce that I am a bottom, a cocksucker and would love to be a Tops bitch. I know now that I am a submissive bottom but I have not found the limits to my submission yet.
'Attaboy!
 
From when I was a teenager I've known I was bi (revised to pan now). And I found that getting your hands (or mouth) on a cock is about the easiest thing on earth to do, so much easier than finding a willing woman at short notice.

On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?

A lot of the time it feels like it's just a box some guys feel they have to tick, or they're looking to play with a couple and think it might be an extra enticement, but when it comes down to it a lot of guys are just like "You can suck my cock, I guess, maybe, but I'm not sucking yours".

Come on guys, overcome that curiosity and get the fuck out of that closet.
Honestly? To me, "bi-curious" means I want to find out what I enjoy doing with another man's cock.
 
I can understand how people have difficulty reconciling their sexual desires with how they see their own sexual orientations.

I, myself, used a Get Out of Gay Jail free card by claiming that the cock I was sucking and fucking was on a trans woman and therefore it didn't count. So much denial.
I think you’re in a perfect situation.
 
An early, non-consensual, encounter opened the door to my being curious. A much later consensual encounter confirmed in my mind that I am bisexual. It was a journey..lol. I have no problem connecting with a guy who says they are curious. If they want to have some fun exploring, that’s great. I have enough experience to identify the guys who just want to be serviced…which isn’t the same as exploring their curiosity. LOL
 
From when I was a teenager I've known I was bi (revised to pan now). And I found that getting your hands (or mouth) on a cock is about the easiest thing on earth to do, so much easier than finding a willing woman at short notice.

On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?

A lot of the time it feels like it's just a box some guys feel they have to tick, or they're looking to play with a couple and think it might be an extra enticement, but when it comes down to it a lot of guys are just like "You can suck my cock, I guess, maybe, but I'm not sucking yours".

Come on guys, overcome that curiosity and get the fuck out of that closet.
I was curious until my first cock and then I was 100% sure I was bi.
 
I got out of that curiosity closet at age 46. Wished i would have tried it at a much earlier age. I missed A LOT of hot cocks im sure. Ive never looked back and not ashamed at all to say I love sucking cock
 
I got out of that curiosity closet at age 46. Wished i would have tried it at a much earlier age. I missed A LOT of hot cocks im sure. Ive never looked back and not ashamed at all to say I love sucking cock
I agree. The only thing I regret about my "curious" phase was not exploring it sooner. I have missed out on a lot of fun and pleasurable times that I could have had.
 
I find myself to be cock curious, possibly Bi-curious.
I look forward to sucking my first cock, I would like to try anal. Just will not kiss a guy
I do fantasize myself wearing lingerie and laying on my back, and a CD or sissy
fucks me in the ass balls deep missionary. My legs on their shoulders I get pounded
and I'll pinch y nipples.
Even a spit roast in missionary position would be possible
 
I find myself to be cock curious, possibly Bi-curious.
I look forward to sucking my first cock, I would like to try anal. Just will not kiss a guy
I do fantasize myself wearing lingerie and laying on my back, and a CD or sissy
fucks me in the ass balls deep missionary. My legs on their shoulders I get pounded
and I'll pinch y nipples.
Even a spit roast in missionary position would be possible


LOL. I like how kissing is the one lewd thing you won’t do.
 
I find myself to be cock curious, possibly Bi-curious.
I look forward to sucking my first cock, I would like to try anal. Just will not kiss a guy
I do fantasize myself wearing lingerie and laying on my back, and a CD or sissy
fucks me in the ass balls deep missionary. My legs on their shoulders I get pounded
and I'll pinch y nipples.
Even a spit roast in missionary position would be possible
Ive CD some and sucked a lot of cock. But lately ive had these same fantasies of being in this position and being split roasted
 
I was in the habit of identifying as straight even though I had an affair with an older man. These little lies we say in the name of self-preservation. I remember being on all fours with a sweating man holding me by the hips .. the very moment I thought I might actually be gay
 
I was in the habit of identifying as straight even though I had an affair with an older man. These little lies we say in the name of self-preservation. I remember being on all fours with a sweating man holding me by the hips .. the very moment I thought I might actually be gay

Well, if you still enjoy having sex with women, you’d be bi, right?

But yeah, you’re probably not straight if you keep volunteering to have sex with men. There’s only so many times you can do it as an “experiment.”
 
Well, if you still enjoy having sex with women, you’d be bi, right?

But yeah, you’re probably not straight if you keep volunteering to have sex with men. There’s only so many times you can do it as an “experiment.”
There were a few times early on when I tried justifying my forbidden predicament. I felt worse about the dishonesty to my wife than the dishonesty to myself
 
On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?
I don't know how hipster gen swingers roll nowadays, but Bi-Curious back in the 1990's was a tagging that you could use that wouldn't scare off het couples or het bulls. If you used the term Bisexual that meant you expected queer sexual interactions and therefore you would only get replies from gay men or the rare couples into full on bisexual stuff.

I did swinging as a bi-curious single male looking to have threesomes with couples.

The bi-curious tag simply meant I was cautious and flexible boundaries - that I was willing to simply service the wife as a heterosexual bull with no inappropriate male on male touching or I could indulge in bisexual activities with the husband too.

Later, as a bisexual husband I was into sharing my "hot wife" with other men who were often straight or bi-curious, in the sense they were willing to allow me to fellate them with my wife, but perhaps not return the favor.
 
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