Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[FreckledSprite]

Absolutely agree. And two orgasms already today sounds delicious.

Three. I played with one twice

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I agree...the more I chat the hornier I get as well!

I feel the same way, sooo arousing talking to others with similar interests, or even those with new interesting ones.

 

[SmokingFap]

We joined recently and enjoyed the talks

Welcome to the party!

 

[Sienna62]

There’s a reminiscing aspect. I came for two different guys today. I have a bit to process about it and I can’t exactly write it in my journal

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Sex is fun, and for me, jerking off is the best thing ever! Obviously my right hand is my best friend, always there, and always in the mood.

Jerking off isn't the best thing ever, but, right now it's the best that I've got. But, it's my Left Hand that is "Always in the Mood", I have no complaints whatsoever about my Friend With Benefits. I also occasionally catch my cock cheating with my right hand - it's kinda like sex with a stranger.

 

[Desii_Couple]

Welcome to the party!

Thank you

 

[Lexie24]

I think it’s so exciting because yes there’s anonymity but also the ability to be yourself completely and open about your sexuality without being judged is awesome

 

[talk67m]

I agree....i love to masturbate and it's fun to share it with like minded non- judgmental people.

 

[kyblue12]

I think it’s so exciting because yes there’s anonymity but also the ability to be yourself completely and open about your sexuality without being judged is awesome

I think that's exactly it.... you can get that exhibitionistic rush and know your in a space where it will be well met. It is very awesome.

 

[Sarge9mm]

I think it’s so exciting because yes there’s anonymity but also the ability to be yourself completely and open about your sexuality without being judged is awesome

Alot are like minded here where there might be nobody with your thoughts around where you are

 

[Mommysboy84]

I agree...the more I chat the hornier I get as well!

I'm at the point where I crave chatting and listening. My wife has no idea, but it's become....my thing I guess.

 

[Celticlight]

I think it’s so exciting because yes there’s anonymity but also the ability to be yourself completely and open about your sexuality without being judged is awesome

I completely agree with this. Far from being judged it's an enabling space where, if anything, it is much more expected, embraced and encouraged that people will indulge and be open about their tastes, desires, particular kinks.

Even with people you're incredibly close with in real life, that isn't always going to be the case, so there's a freedom to give voice to your mind and your desires that you may not actually get anywhere else

 

[Sarge9mm]

I'm at the point where I crave chatting and listening. My wife has no idea, but it's become....my thing I guess.

Everyone enjoys something different. Need something of your own

 

[StirlingMorty13]

I think its being able to be totally open and honest about sex & fantasies.
I chat with both sexs in ways I could never do in real life

Would you like to chat about "taking" my wife perhaps.... she looks hot as fuck in stockings and heels

 

[MaleMid50sUK]

Would you like to chat about "taking" my wife perhaps.... she looks hot as fuck in stockings and heels

That would certainly be of interest

 

[johnnyampleed]

It's exciting as we can admit and discuss even with anonymity to something that we know most do and find pleasurable.

We can be honest to ourselves and others ... and that brings a sense of freedom and satisfying authenticity.

 

[van_delay]

We can be honest to ourselves and others ... and that brings a sense of freedom and satisfying authenticity.

Agree. Definitely removes any inhibition

 

[bbwAlexa]

No judgement. The ability to easily find people with same sexual tastes. It can be addictive. When I say that to others I usually find most people go on a binge purge cycle.

 

[davion2308]

It's fun because you're finding acceptance 95% of the time. I don't share some things I'm into with my wife, for example, because she might judge me or she might judge herself (like she's not enough if she declines trying a fantasy) or she'd be hurt or feel rejected. Negative emotions are powerful and are tied into the conversations.

Here I can say I'm into such-and-such and the people who aren't into it move on. They don't stop and comment that they don't like that; they simply don't say anything. The folks who do enjoy it start talking and we share ideas and fantasies and sexy thoughts.

It's low risk, high reward, and maybe I'll hear a new element of the things I like. You can be free to be yourself in the anonymity of the interwebz and it makes things that much sexier.

 

[LordMorningwood]

A fantasy shared is a fantasy doubled, particularly in real time chat. I love the wild improvisation that happens when you ‘click’ with someone, feeling out their hot spots. I’ve had some unexpected moments of tenderness too, just a chat partner telling me they were there for me.

 

[RainyWetDayGuy]

Maybe it's just the openness to say and share things online that offline are hard (not double meaning intended) to chat about?

 

[caughtstrokin]

Maybe its because its something that isn’t easy to do in real life?

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

I love playing with my cock. Looking at him, seeing different changes in him. I'm sure he is thicker than he use to be.
I enjoy it most when I can let him fully erupt. Catching it on video and watching reruns is amazing. The way the cut erupts the first few spurts then oozes out in great globules, slowing down then as he slowly withers back to normal.
It's even hotter when it's shared with another.
And they tell you honestly how it makes them feel watching it.
And then watching her. Or doing it together.

 

[wankerholic42]

I just find it really horny discussing masturbation with others, solo or mutual, particularly privately in Conversations. But then I have a fetish for cum and love giving a guy a handjob and watching him spurt.

 

[Octavian]

I have never experienced this but I can certainly see the attraction.