Hornybicurguy
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I second that motion with a resounding, "Hear, Hear!"!
Why is it so complicated to find other Bi men
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Wow, maybe I should go back to church!
I know what you mean having the same issue.
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WerdNerd
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Good advice and a great visual.
I’m no longer looking around due to a number of circumstances. From 2001 until my wife’s retirement in 2015 I did a fair bit of searching. Started on Craigslist, then a couple of other places until someone pointed me in the direction of Silverdaddies. The time spent on Craigslist was mostly a waste of time, so no big loss when that venue disappeared. I met a number of guys from Silverdaddies, and although not all of them worked out, there were about ten or so that I had some most excellent adventures with. SD provided a free site where I could get into a bit of discussion prior to committing to a face to face meeting...and some face to cock meatings. Other sites that I checked out have been named by others in this thread, but to this old boy, those sites really seemed to focus on “let’s meet tonight and get it on.” Which is okay because it’s obviously different strokes for different folks!
Happy hunting, y’all!
Having watched this thread since you first posted, I keep myself asking a couple of questions.
The first is whether you are actually limiting yourself to bi men, or would you also welcome encounters with somebody who is gay? I can't imagine why you would restrict yourself, though that, of course, is your decision. But if you're open to men who are strictly gay, I would think that really expands your pool of possible hookups.
I also wonder where you're looking. I realize we rely on the internet for lots of stuff these days, but depending on where you live, there are plenty of places where gay men are known to hang out. I'm thinking of bars and bathhouses, though bars are much more common.
Why not visit one? If you happen to make a pass at a straight guy in a gay bar or bathhouse, he can't possibly have much reason to take offense. And though it won't be as anonymous as a web site or app, you will ultimately have to give up some degree of anonymity anyway in order to get fucked.
Perhaps like me, you're stymied by covid. Well, that's a problem, and we'll have to be patient while waiting for our vaccines.
My best guess is that your problem is caused by your own limitations. I understand, because I have imposed limitations of my own. But if you just want to get fucked, I'm sure you can make it happen.
Dellacd33
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Love this video, so sexy, if anyone feels similarly, then pm me xx
I like the idea of finding a cruising place in the woods. I need to find some in my area.
AlexanderBly
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When I was looking for m2m action, I'd go to a hotel bar; usually a convention hotel where I would quite often meet someone interested in a "conversation." Another option is the local gym, where locker room play is common. Then, there's the adult cinema, but that's a bit risky on many levels, not least of which being discretion. It's tough. But damn it is hot when you do meet someone - even for an hour or two...yum.
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"I read it and yes several have said it, it is not complicated unless you are being wise and safe. If you are throwing caution to the wind, my husband can get all the guys he wants going just about anywhere. They pick up on it, no joke. I have noticed as he has opened up the more the radar is on him. He gets hit on more than I do now. As for specific ways to attract them, many have posted great suggestions. If we were just going for it, we’d hit libraries, adult stores, there are adult parks and pick up places all over, going to public areas where skimpy clothing is allowed – ex. Last beach trip we wanted to see what would happen if he wore a sexy bathing suit, I almost had to pimp him out (there as sooooo many horny men out there that will do most anything). The reason I saw almost had to pimp him out is that some of the guys were getting a bit aggressive, we had to leave. It was our own fault. Point is, where there is a will there is always a way." from my wife.
My wife can bribe me into some nutty things but she has right, it is not difficult to find guys who will do most anything. Kinda scary. I don't know, has it always been like this or is it getting crazier? Just stay alert, pay attention, there are many signs.
My wife can bribe me into some nutty things but she has right, it is not difficult to find guys who will do most anything. Kinda scary. I don't know, has it always been like this or is it getting crazier? Just stay alert, pay attention, there are many signs.
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Analsexlover
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Me too! The woods sounds fun.
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I look for willing men near me in public all the time. Most men avoid eye contact completely, as if they think giving any eye contact will get them beaten up.
I'm not sure if that makes it easier to spot the willing ones, or more difficult.
I also look twice at any guy I see in a park or in the outdoors.
A man can hope...
I'm not sure if that makes it easier to spot the willing ones, or more difficult.
I also look twice at any guy I see in a park or in the outdoors.
A man can hope...
ChrissyCD64
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It's not that hard. Just go out dressed in a way that shows that you are obviously bi yourself and they will pick up on it. Myself I go out as a slutty gal, but then I don't dress male any more.
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JudyCD
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Nice fantasy to be hiking in the woods and encounter a group of men…..ending up on my knees for them.
I suggested a sign. Put your middle and ring fingers in you pocket with and index finger and little finger out side your pocket. If you get the same sign back, you can proceed.
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Have you had proof that it works?
CuriousGuyVa
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... or wear a sign "guys, for a good time call..."
We could rent sandwich boards!... or wear a sign "guys, for a good time call..."
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that's thinking outside the box now....
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It’s probably because most of the bi guys are bottoms and can’t host. So maybe host and get a male x male adaptor, rim each other’s holes, or at least swap blow jobs even if you don’t really want to receive one. Bottoms unite.
AlexBailey
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There are so many ways of being ‘bi’… you can’t just assume that two bi guys will be sexually compatible even if their outward personalities fit
Some are only tops, others only bottoms.
Some are oral only, of those some only receive while others only want to give.
Some just want a jerk buddy.
Some are into femmes, others aren’t.
Some are into bears, others aren’t.
Some are into a quick nutting, others want romance. Some want relationships, others want to fuck-em an chuck-em.
Some aren’t into kissing, others need it.
All of these possibilities are on the table until you get to know something more about each other. I think a lot of guys will communicate until they find they aren’t compatible then ghost. If they do ghost you, it’s no fault of yours, you just haven’t found your boo yet.
Some are only tops, others only bottoms.
Some are oral only, of those some only receive while others only want to give.
Some just want a jerk buddy.
Some are into femmes, others aren’t.
Some are into bears, others aren’t.
Some are into a quick nutting, others want romance. Some want relationships, others want to fuck-em an chuck-em.
Some aren’t into kissing, others need it.
All of these possibilities are on the table until you get to know something more about each other. I think a lot of guys will communicate until they find they aren’t compatible then ghost. If they do ghost you, it’s no fault of yours, you just haven’t found your boo yet.
I had some success on fet. I don't know if it makes a difference but I'm a cross dresser and had several offers from men that wanted me to suck them.
onceuponatimex
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The trouble I have with fetish stuff is that I don't know anything about it. I think I might be too "vanilla" for anyone who's into leather, chains, clamps and stuff.
Whatever happened to good old fashioned sex?
I completely understand and agree with you.The trouble I have with fetish stuff is that I don't know anything about it. I think I might be too "vanilla" for anyone who's into leather, chains, clamps and stuff.
Whatever happened to good old fashioned sex?
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