Why Wont He Punish Me?

[slavemelanie]

I hope by "mean' you actually are referring to discipline for negative actions. Being "mean" for no reason is abusive. (maybe you're just a really really good girl!) Bit in all seriousness it's always ok to ask or request something from a Dom. Communication is key, wants and needs can change. Maybe there's a reason for His actions? I also sense that you desire a great level of control and demanding actions, remind Him of this if its not happening. Its also a mistake to try and manipulate the situation, just come out and ask respectfully.

 

[AchtungNight]

I quote the movie “Roadhouse”. Or I would if I were into not being nice. Honestly, being nice is more of a challenge for me and the people I fool around with- thus seeing it is a bigger turn on for me than the opposite.

For those who don’t get the reference- the central character of Roadhouse is a bouncer who tells his friends “be nice until you know the time not to be nice. What is that time? You’ll know.”

Roadhouse!

 

[kinky_jat]

What do you do when your Dom won't be mean to you anymore? He threatens to punish and spank but he's too nice now.
We've been together a while and it was so good and part of what attracted me to him was his sadistic streak and his firm hand. Now he says I'm too much of a good girl to be mean to. What the hell??

I haven't changed. Why has he?

Maybe He has actually fallen for you Miss