Wife has questionable past

Didn't read all the other posts but my own opinion is, ya'll are married. No secrets. If she really didn't want you to know about that part of life, she would've gotten rid of the evidence. She doesn't have to go into detail. But as she is your wife and now that you have legit reasons to have questions, you'd be within your right as her husband to ask those questions.
 
Firstly you should look at what you want to achieve with your new found knowledge, if you want to open your marriage to a more liberal lifestyle then you have the perfect tool . If you donā€™t want to change anything then put them back where you found them and carry on loving your wife
 
Perhaps it is not wise to inquire about each other's past, as it can do no good to your relationship.
I respectfully disagree. My wife and I'd relationship really took off (after nearly 30 years) once we opened up about our pasts, desires, kinks etc. It was quite freeing. Anything she doesn't want to hear - she simply tells me. (I have yet to hear anything about her past that I didn't want to hear - but granted her's is a LOT more subdued than mine)
 
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