Wife Wants a Boob Job... Thoughts?

[LadySue]

I have had an enlargement about 6 yrs ago. I am happy with the choice I made. I had wanted it but was afraid so I did lots of research. Then went for a consult.
Yes, it is expensive, but it also made me feel better and more confident about myself.
I went from a B cup to a D cup and for me the pain wasn't that bad. Mine are under the muscle and my scares are under the arm pits. So the worst part of it all was not being able to lift the arms up over my head for a few days. However each day I felt better and was able to move easier.
I do have pictures of before and after somewhere.
I have an office job and missed about 3 or 4 days of work. Also there was a band I had to wear for about a month and it was just to hold them down in place. I was not able to wear a bra for about a month either. Since I had an office job and bras are required, I just did jackets over my shirts and you couldn't even tell I wasn't wearing a bra. No UNDERWIRES after the surgery. You really won't need them anyway.
Hope this helps and if you have anymore questions, I would be happy to answer them.
Oh Hubby does say they still feel natural.

 

[Somehowyou]

I -A lot of surgeons either have their own surgical facility or use outside ones, and IME they tend to be better than hospitals and end up costing less (in part, because hospitals do so much cost shifting onto paying patients), I found them to be a lot more comfortable and from what I hear, also less likely to get th kind of infections common in hospitals ....make sure the facility is certified, but it is an option to think about.

It is cheaper for the patient to go to a surgical suite. This way the patient will not have the overhead of a hospital. However, you run the risk of a Pulmonary embolism everytime you go under. If this happens in a surgical suite I have been told you are as good as dead. There could be other complications that could make the confines of a hospital quite comforting. Boob jobs are pretty straight forward, however.

 

[njlauren]

It is cheaper for the patient to go to a surgical suite. This way the patient will not have the overhead of a hospital. However, you run the risk of a Pulmonary embolism everytime you go under. If this happens in a surgical suite I have been told you are as good as dead. There could be other complications that could make the confines of a hospital quite comforting. Boob jobs are pretty straight forward, however.

Depends on the facility, and from the research I did your chances of dying at a surgical facility are pretty much the same as at a hospital. To be certified surgical facilities have certain standards they need to meet and part of that is in emergency care if something goes wrong, which includes the ability to treat issues like MI's and such, plus a lot of surgical facilities are located close to hospitals in case something goes wrong, deliberately. Serious surgery generally doesn't happen in these kinds of places, it usually is relatively straightforward things like plastic surgery. I had facial and nasal surgery done at facilities and I never felt like I was taking any more risk then in a hospital. I also would be careful, hospital associations have been doing a major pr campaign against surgical facilities, and not surprisingly, hospitals tend to get a lot of revenue from things like plastic surgery done on their premises, they charge stiff fees and they don't have to worry about insurance denying them their cut of the pie, and the surgeon doesn't care since the hospital bills the patient.....

 

[Goey]

I have no idea what "type" she had but a woman who joined me and the fella in the bedroom a few times had fake breasts and they felt pretty awful. If you enjoy the feel of natural boobs I'd give this one a pass.

 

[RuReal]

Just because society says something is correct does not mean that it really is. I find it funny that boob jobs have become acceptable and can make someone a real woman. What does that say about our society. I wonder if there is such acceptance of penile enhancement.

I think helping people with their self esteem and learning how to think better of themselves would be better money spent.

 

[bharman4102]

To give a really well thought out answer, this thread needs some "before" and "after" pictures!

 

[Goey]

Just because society says something is correct does not mean that it really is. I find it funny that boob jobs have become acceptable and can make someone a real woman. What does that say about our society. I wonder if there is such acceptance of penile enhancement.

I think helping people with their self esteem and learning how to think better of themselves would be better money spent.

If penis enlargement wasn't so risky I think nearly every man would have it done.

 

[Jessica_29]

I recently went through this debate as well-
boob job or no?

Tough decision.
(I decided against, with some very kind help from Litsters)

 

[NippleMuncher]

I think helping people with their self esteem and learning how to think better of themselves would be better money spent.

Would you say the same thing if you didn't have any balls? More than likely, you would feel self conscious and less of a "man" without something filling out your nut sack. Why would it be any different for a woman to want larger breasts to feel better or more attractive?

As long as the woman is making the decision for herself, from a centered and balanced perspective, then who cares. Those who seek nothing more than to be an attention whore would do better to follow your advice of seeking help with their issues.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Just because society says something is correct does not mean that it really is. I find it funny that boob jobs have become acceptable and can make someone a real woman. What does that say about our society. I wonder if there is such acceptance of penile enhancement.

I think helping people with their self esteem and learning how to think better of themselves would be better money spent.

If it makes her feel better to have boobs, why not? I mean, people lose weight to look better. Everyone pats them on the back. Sure there are health benefits, but it's a confidence booster too. Same with boobs.

 

[RuReal]

If penis enlargement wasn't so risky I think nearly every man would have it done.

Not I not even remotely close. Is there something wrong with what I have?

Would you say the same thing if you didn't have any balls? More than likely, you would feel self conscious and less of a "man" without something filling out your nut sack. Why would it be any different for a woman to want larger breasts to feel better or more attractive?

As long as the woman is making the decision for herself, from a centered and balanced perspective, then who cares. Those who seek nothing more than to be an attention whore would do better to follow your advice of seeking help with their issues.

rofl ohh please I am sure the lady has breasts. If she has a condition that she has none that is a different story. If I had smaller balls would I care for larger balls no.

If it makes her feel better to have boobs, why not? I mean, people lose weight to look better. Everyone pats them on the back. Sure there are health benefits, but it's a confidence booster too. Same with boobs.

Comparing weight loss through normal means to invasive surgery is kind of funny. Who says that larger boobs makes someone look better. Why does society seem to think that?

Think about what you are saying and why you think that. Why did the person make the comment that it makes them more of a woman come on really?

 

[Somehowyou]

If penis enlargement wasn't so risky I think nearly every man would have it done.

I agree with you Goey. I love the feel of natural tits. I love your tits and I love Rureals tits. One is not better than the other. They are just different. But the soft feel of naturals can not be beat. So many bolt-ons feel hard over time. I wouldn't say this is a turn off but hard fake boobs is not a turn on like naturals.

I would love to have a 9" cock. But in this case I would like it to feel hard all the time.

Yes the OP needs to add some before and after shots. the Dr. will provide anonymous tits shots.

 

[bailadora]

I would love to have a 9" cock.

Being hung like a horse isn't all it's cracked up to be. Just ask this guy.

 

[NippleMuncher]

rofl ohh please I am sure the lady has breasts. If she has a condition that she has none that is a different story. If I had smaller balls would I care for larger balls no.

Uh, dude? An A or AA cup is barely a breast at all. In terms you could maybe identify with, that's like having a 1" pecker at full erection, sure you've got a pecker, but you sure as hell ain't filling out your trousers like the average man. Likewise with a small busted woman, she doesn't fill out her clothes as an average busted woman would. Nor does she look "normal" in the mirror when she looks at herself.

What the fuck harm is it to you or her or anyone else if she decides to get something more "normal" sized, as the OP is suggesting of his wife's desire? Going up to a B/C cup is not about someone who is fucked up in the head and wanting to be an attention whore, which is what you're suggesting.

Let's change the subject slightly and ask you this, when EXACTLY in your mind would it be ok for a woman to have augmentation? And on the same note, do you bitch and whine as badly if a woman chooses to go down a size or two?

I am not posing these questions to be a prick, I actually would like to know what criteria you are using to place judgment on whether or not a woman should be allowed to undergo enhancement or reduction procedures. Are you equally against reconstructions, and what if that reconstruction includes an enhancement from the OEM size?

 

[RuReal]

Uh, dude? An A or AA cup is barely a breast at all. In terms you could maybe identify with, that's like having a 1" pecker at full erection, sure you've got a pecker, but you sure as hell ain't filling out your trousers like the average man. Likewise with a small busted woman, she doesn't fill out her clothes as an average busted woman would. Nor does she look "normal" in the mirror when she looks at herself.

What the fuck harm is it to you or her or anyone else if she decides to get something more "normal" sized, as the OP is suggesting of his wife's desire? Going up to a B/C cup is not about someone who is fucked up in the head and wanting to be an attention whore, which is what you're suggesting.

Let's change the subject slightly and ask you this, when EXACTLY in your mind would it be ok for a woman to have augmentation? And on the same note, do you bitch and whine as badly if a woman chooses to go down a size or two?

I am not posing these questions to be a prick, I actually would like to know what criteria you are using to place judgment on whether or not a woman should be allowed to undergo enhancement or reduction procedures. Are you equally against reconstructions, and what if that reconstruction includes an enhancement from the OEM size?

I think you hit the nail on the head when you say augmentation. What is wrong with an A cup breast. I have run into a woman or two like that she was just as hot as the next great nipples. What makes this a bad thing?

Do you know why women get reductions I think not if you are posing them in this way. Look it up and then come back at it again and it is funny because there are a great many people who bitch at breast reductions, but they do not have an issue with augmentation.

Let me give you a hint one is done usually for health purposes the other is not.

To be fair I really don't care at the end of the day one way or another if I look at why I have spent time doing this it was to make people really look at this. Why is it right from what I have seen of the arguments here none of them even remotely make sense.

 

[Goey]

Not I not even remotely close. Is there something wrong with what I have?

"Not I not even remotely close" Erm... is that even a sentence? Also all I said is that if penis enlargement was safer lots of men would do it - I didn't say I supported it or anything, just stating a fact. Most men want a bigger penis, it's just how it is.


If a woman is miserable because she hates having small breasts then it is HER choice if she wants them bigger. Personally I'm not a fan of fake breasts, and it's definitely skipping over some issues but it is her body and thus her choice.

I find it funny how people always do "don't do what people tell you to do" while telling them what to do... Breast enlargement is a huge gray issue - their is no right or wrong (in most everyday cases).

 

[RuReal]

She is not asking her husband is asking hell the fact that she is asking him is interesting as well then. Why would you take a surgical risk for vanity?

 

[Goey]

He said his wife wants one and he wants advice, he's not saying that he thinks his wife should get one.

People have surgery for vanity all the time, be is a face-lift or fact reduction. Breasts implants are really no different.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Comparing weight loss through normal means to invasive surgery is kind of funny. Who says that larger boobs makes someone look better. Why does society seem to think that?

Think about what you are saying and why you think that. Why did the person make the comment that it makes them more of a woman come on really?

Comparing weight loss through normal means versus surgical augmentation is not funny. If you have a way to naturally augment breasts, then feel free to tell us about it. But right now, boob jobs are the only real way to make them larger.

I don't give a donkey's dick about whether or not someone gets a boob job. I personally prefer larger, natural breasts. But I'm not the one carrying them around. So, if a girl wants to have big boobs and they will make her happier, then get them. Who is that hurting? If she weighs the risks and the benefits, what does it matter? Maybe to you small boobs look great. Mather to the poster's wife, bigger boobs look better.

Why is it just vanity? If someone has a big, ugly, yet harmless, mole on their face, no one would say boo about getting that removed. That's vanity. I mean, it's harmless. If you had a big nasty wart on the end of your nose, don't tell me you wouldn't get that thing removed. It's vanity, yet again.

People have surgery for vain reasons. As log as it doesn't become an addiction or something to cover up deeper issues, why should it matter? You just need to know the risks. If she's having implants because "society
thinks big tits are better", then it's probably a bad idea. If she's having implants because she thinks it will help her with confidence or fit better into clothes, then go for it.

 

[Luv_2_RP_Guy]

I feel the need to update this whole thread as things have changed in the past 2 and a half years.

A little more than a year ago we began seeing that the occurance of breast and ovarian cancer in my wives side of the family was significant. We had heard about the BRCA Genetic testing and decided to persue this. Her mother had a bout with breast cancer a few years before so she underwent the testing. Her results came back that she was a carrier of the gene. My wife and her sister took the test and her sister came back negative, while my wife came back positive. Essentially it meant that she would have an 87% lifetime risk for breast cancer and a 35% life time risk for ovarian cancer (potentially higher due to family history)

After lots of discussion and research she decided to have preventative surgery. She had a skin sparing, nipple sparing, double mastectomy. She also had a total hysterectomy.

She had three surgeries total and they were tough. She was a trooper through it all. I am humbled by her strength really. Sex is different post hysterectomy. She does not naturally get wet now, we use lube as we really dont want to reintroduce hormones into her body as they can be carcinogenic.

Her reward..... the fantastic boob job she always wanted. And to be honest, she looks fucking fantastic.

Was it worth it?... hardly. But we will take it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Sorry to hear about the medical complications.

However, it seems that you two have made it through the tough times. Congrats on that.

Also, congrats on the boob job as well. That's awesome to hear that you guys enjoy the new twins.

 

[Cathleen]

It's amazing how strong we can be, our bodies and spirit keep fighting, sometimes only one at a time but as long as there's breath...

All the best to you both.

 

[adventrkupl]

I feel the need to update this whole thread as things have changed in the past 2 and a half years.

Many compliments on the tough decision. My wife had a breast enhancement and is a cancer survivor. The items were not related but I can share some experiences anyway. The enhancement was to address a self esteem issue and was a purely personal decision by her and her alone. It made no difference to me, although I will admit to enjoying the results.

The cancer treatments (not breast cancer) were incredibly terrible and the risk assessment your wife considered had to be overwhelming. I can tell you she likely made the right decision from where I am sitting.

So enjoy your cancer free spouse with the nice rack. I'm enjoying mine. Your route to get there had to be better than one we took.

 

[Luv_2_RP_Guy]

She is still healing... but yeah looking pretty damn good!!!

 

[BoobLover78]

If she was my wife I'd be all for it! In fact, it would be my idea. I'd be happy as a clam and anticipating her new boobs.