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SpicyBean99 said:
Alright you wonderful, delightful and distracting enablersā€¦thank you for being so kind & engaging. Unfortunately, I must now do the responsible (Urghhhh) thing and disappear into the academic abyss to finish this freaking assignment.

I am profoundly tired and operating entirely on coffee and sheer spite to complete this TODAY so
if you could please wish me luck, pray to whatever higher power you believe in (or donā€™t), and manifest me having ZERO emotional meltdowns with minimal tearsā€¦ I would be eternally grateful.

Thankyouuu šŸ«”
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Good luck! Youā€™ve got this, don't over do it or be hard on yourself, try not too push yourself when you're tired, try and take it one step at a time. You know what you're doing x
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Alright you wonderful, delightful and distracting enablersā€¦thank you for being so kind & engaging. Unfortunately, I must now do the responsible (Urghhhh) thing and disappear into the academic abyss to finish this freaking assignment.

I am profoundly tired and operating entirely on coffee and sheer spite to complete this TODAY so
if you could please wish me luck, pray to whatever higher power you believe in (or donā€™t), and manifest me having ZERO emotional meltdowns with minimal tearsā€¦ I would be eternally grateful.

Thankyouuu šŸ«”
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ur smashing it im sure šŸ‘ šŸ‘šŸ‘

& doing wildlife photography on the side lol šŸ˜œ at least u can multi task
 
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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I agree. I think toys are just added benefits for both parties involved.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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Hands up the first time you're confronted with the reality that you're not the be all and end all it can be a little disconcerting but once you realize that your partner is comfortable enough to do something that allows her to share an orgasm with you it is absolutely a turn on that she trusts you enough to share.

And what guy on the planet hasn't been tipped over the edge by feeling their partner reach a climax, that vibrator might be for you but we can definitely notice what it's doing to you too
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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Using a vibe on a partner is fun šŸ˜

Ive made use of Bluetooth functional ones when distance was an issue and had control
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Iā€™ll have to bear you in mind the next time I need someone to scour my assignment for grammar and spelling errors šŸ„° it can be so time consuming and brain washing re reading pages of words youā€™ve written to the point you no longer see any mistakes šŸ™ƒ oh the joys.

And yes haha as much as the jacket is a look the one piece is definitely more ā€œsexyā€.

Is that tongue still on offer orā€¦ šŸ˜
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Definitely still on offer šŸ˜œ

Just a quick check in. 2315 and up for work at 0530!
Great nails and ink work btw.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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I am trying to do better, At one point I did feel inept, but the most important thing is getting your partner off. Guys reap the rewards generally! Now iā€™d love to help with the toy.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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I mean if it's ultimately going to give her more pleasure I'm totally okay with it. I do get off on giving pleasure, so maybe I'm a little different than some?
 
SpicyBean99 said:
:p...BEAN WOULD LIKE TO KNOW....
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There are NO wrong answers, this is just a super silly, fun and easy list of questions that anyone lurking, stalking, or actively participating can take part in. I have done similar games/quizzes here before but this one is SUPER light hearted and perfect for a Sunday evening! Some questions are stupid, some are a little more introspective and some are more exciting, as always, answer 1, answer all! I know we can all be a little nosey at times and THIS will be the perfect way for us to get to know one and other a tiny bit better... Who's in? (At least one or two of you, I hope....) ;)
I'll go first...duh. <3
  1. What does an average weekday morning look like for you? Wake up...groggily...sometimes a walk (mostly in the summer) a strong coffee, music on and a shower. ​
  2. What is your default "I cannot be asked to cook" meal? Noodles, fried egg....soup and a toastie...chicken rice bowl...(I love to cook so this one is a lil harder for me to answer.) ​
  3. Whatā€™s a small habit you donā€™t think about, but would notice if it was gone? Listening to music as I get ready in the morning. Well...It's either a playlist or a podcast and I feel this sets me up for the day...without my music/coffee rotation I would be a grumpy mess for the majority of the day. Oh and my daily afternoon walk. THIS I could NOT go without...cheaper than therapy and more things to look at so its a win win ;)​
  4. Is there a food you don't eat/never order, no matter how popular it is? Mmmm....probably fish and chips? I mean, I have eaten it many times but its never EVER the first thing to come to mind...that and KFC or Burger King, I don't eat either of those. Maccies all the way IF I am going for fast food. ​
  5. Do you prefer a quiet night in? Or an evening out? A quiet night in...with wine and good snacks. (Contrary to the belief of others I assume haha) ​
  6. Cats or dogs? (answer this one...very carefully ;) ) For me its both but my cats are my furry four legged humans....​
  7. Whatā€™s the last thing you cooked or made that you were super proud of? (Bonus points if you share pics) Red wine and caramelised onion sausages with mash and greens. Unfortunately this got DEVOURED, no pics...bonus points lost.) ​
  8. Whatā€™s one thing people often get wrong about you at first? First? That I am a loud, extroverted weirdo with a FANTASTIC taste in music..okay maybe not the last part BUT....I come across quiet shy and reserved because I don't tend to trust people and open up easily...BUT...once you get to know me god DAMN does the weird come out. ;)​
  9. Whatā€™s a very small thing that can ruin your mood disproportionately? (The sillier the answer the better.) People standing to close to be in a queue...Loud chewing and swallowing, followed closely by knives and forks scraping on plates/teeth... EW eat carefully please...Drinking from a cup at someone else's house that tastes like soap or dust (RINSING EXISTS...), Bin bags ripping when you try to carefully open the first one in a roll....​
  10. Whatā€™s something you refuse to buy the cheap version of? Butter, olive oil and perfume. ​
  11. Whatā€™s a sound you either love or absolutely hate? LOVE brown noise. ​
  12. Whatā€™s a small thing that instantly improves your mood? A debrief with friends. TEA. ​
  13. Favourite current tv show/book/movie Well I would say Stranger things but that is ALL over now. Reading: Alchemised and the Secret Life of Addie Larue side by side. ​
  14. What is a compliment you love receiving?Urgh, You know me, I love all compliments...but the best are those that I can tell are thoughtful, not generic and tailored just to me <3 ​
  15. What are you most proud of currently? The work and commitment I have to my degree for sure! ​
NO pressure to answer them all...But I do hope you have fun with at least a few of them! Looking forward to seeing your responses!
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Iā€™ll bite. I thought our bean had retired. So glad for the Wit and Nipples:
  1. What does an average weekday morning look like for you? Wake up...Foggy rather Groggy (Thanks Phish) Hot coffee and then work.
  2. What is your default "I cannot be asked to cook" meal? Well dis is Chickago so Pizzaā€¦ if itā€™s here, probably Nachos/tacos.
  3. Whatā€™s a small habit you donā€™t think about, but would notice if it was gone? Evening walk. It sucks mostly now being dark and cold, but my dogs act out more without, and it recenters me.
  4. Is there a food you don't eat/never order, no matter how popular it is? Seafood, i have a shellfish allergy and just donā€™t love it.
  5. Do you prefer a quiet night in? Or an evening out? A quiet night in, but I need a night with my boys for trivia and smoking a fat J while they have cigs.
  6. Cats or dogs? (answer this one...very carefully ;) ) Two doggos one cat. Iā€™m a dog guy, but the cat sleeps on my shins.
  7. Whatā€™s the last thing you cooked or made that you were super proud of? Ramen, scratch, real, broth, meat, shiitake mushrooms, noodles, etc. I think I have a pic.
  8. Whatā€™s one thing people often get wrong about you at first? I think sometimes my extroversion can overwhelm, but iā€™m an only child and it was survival from boredom.
  9. Whatā€™s a very small thing that can ruin your mood disproportionately? (The sillier the answer the better.) Dirtiness? Littering, shoes off on the airplane, lack of sanitation and hand washing.
  10. Whatā€™s something you refuse to buy the cheap version of? GANGA
  11. Whatā€™s a sound you either love or absolutely hate? LOVE brown noise. Same
  12. Whatā€™s a small thing that instantly improves your mood? A joint
  13. Favourite current tv show/book/movie Wake Up Dead Man was great
  14. What is a compliment you love receiving? Handsome probably more, Nice cock in the right company.
  15. What are you most proud of currently? Iā€™m making headway on this remodeling project in a bathroom putting it back together.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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I view it as a helpful tool that enhances her pleasure, and therefore enhances mine
 
SpicyBean99 said:
SUPER random thought whilst I peruse lit for a min or two...

For the guys...

How do vibrators/toys affect how you experience foreplay with a partner? For example if a woman struggles to orgasm with a vibe? Do you ever feel emasculated? or do you see them as a tool that enhances both of your pleasure?

I ask this because over on another thread when asked:

In general, with or without a partner, are you somewhere on the scale of...

a) More likely to actually need to use a vibrator to orgasm

OR

b) Less likely to don't need to use a vibrator to orgasm

I answered: A (and it got me to thinking how men view it!)

I think I stand with the majority of women when I say vibrators have only ever heightened orgasms both at home and with partners. For example, I struggle achieving orgasm with someone using their fingers/tongue (with edging it is different if my sexual partner knows what I like and is at least a little skilled) but once I introduced a toy it took away that mental pressure of "omg I can't relax enough to cum." or "He's slowing down to much or going to fast at the wrong times" and now we can both enjoy each others pleasure at peace! I know some men (that I have met) claim that it somewhat emasculates them when they learn that the woman they are sleeping with finds it easier/more intense to cum with a toy...but I say strip down that ego and GO JOIN HER šŸ’¦So a) for definite as an aid to a beautifully, mutually beneficial "end" in the bedroom, and also alone :)
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I almost always need mental stimulation, I know it ā€¦ so teasing is often a must by myself, my partner ( male or female) hopefully does not intimately touch me other than kisses and maybe dancing .
 
ShaneoD said:
Hands up the first time you're confronted with the reality that you're not the be all and end all it can be a little disconcerting but once you realize that your partner is comfortable enough to do something that allows her to share an orgasm with you it is absolutely a turn on that she trusts you enough to share.

And what guy on the planet hasn't been tipped over the edge by feeling their partner reach a climax, that vibrator might be for you but we can definitely notice what it's doing to you too
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Iā€™m gonna be honest, I think men who are confident enough to use toys on women are fucking sexy. I can imagine that maybe in the moment it can be a lil disconcertingā€¦ I mean Iā€™m trying to imagine a guy saying heā€™d rather use a flesh light to cum andā€¦ wow I didnā€™t enjoy that image šŸ˜…šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø (thoughā€¦ on second thoughts I wouldnā€™t mind using it on a guy just for funā€¦ okay Iā€™m rambling now.)

BUT the best thing is a toy doesnā€™t take anything away from the experience and itā€™s definitely not a reflection of how ā€œgoodā€ a guy is in bed, itā€™s literally just how some womenā€™s bodies work I guess! Iā€™m just incredibly sorry that youā€™ll never experience a clitoral orgasm or multiple in a rowā€¦ Iā€™ll leave that there ;)
 
hope u got your paper done šŸ‘ and I hope ur sexy ass gets a gd sleep. im up in 4 hrs so that wont be happening for me 2 nite lol! (ive been busy šŸ˜œšŸ˜œDont let the bed bugs bite ms bean šŸ’¤
 
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