Wit & Nipples šŸ’

did the tequila get to you? it sounded like you were having a good day and out enjoying yourself.
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
Aww Bean... I'm so sorry.. You deserved none of that.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
šŸ«‚ im so sorry to hear that. the shock when its unexpected like that can be numbing and disorienting. i know you have a lot of friends and people to reach out to, but if you need someone to talk to privately you can always message me. just know you arent alone. im sure more people care and want to help than you know.
 
I am a floating digital head, so you can take this for all the weight it carries.

Spend time grieving, but I would not let that person back into your life ever again. That was a power play, and he may be circling around soon to suggest forgiveness but intending to ask for something more.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
So sorry to hear about all this , hope you're doing ok.
 
I'm really sorry to hear about what has happened. Take as much time as you need for yourself. That is a difficult situation to be in. Sending you lots of hugs and support šŸ«‚.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.

Sounds like you’re better off: The nasty boy trashed you in public and then did a dickhead "power move" by suddenly packing his things and leaving because you called him on his behavior??? Sounds manipulative.

Also:

You’ve demonstrated that you’re quite a capable, intelligent woman.

Focus on maintaining your own health & well being.

Independence can be empowering & liberating.

Keep it real.

šŸ‘
 
Good afternoon litsters!

It seems after a few days of some pretty crazy revelations that finally ā€œthatā€ account has disappeared. I hope everyone… well… the two or three of you who I know assumed I was lying/stirring has now been proven wrong. 🄰

And happy Friday!!

How are we all doing? šŸ˜

Whilst I take some time to get back to you all…

Would you rather see me wearing:

Booty, gym shorts.

OR

A thong?

Also, it’s gonna be a good weekend. I can feel it in my BONES! Let’s have some fun 🄰
Both flaunt your nice ass!!!
 
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Thankyou for noticing them 🤩 I mean… okay I guess it’s kinda hard to not spot them since they’re usually very talon like ;) (or I’m in between appointments so they’re half on half off) šŸ˜…

I always look to Pinterest for inspiration but then the moment I’m in the shop I change my mind… the pressure/anxiety of being in there makes me just go for ā€œblackā€ or ā€œredā€ most of the time. So I get you!

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Here are some of the ones I’ve had over the last year or two! 🄰 enjoy!

As you can tell I do take pride in having them done as much as I can! (To anyone male who is wondering: 1) yes I can still masturbate. 2) Yes I can still clean (I use marigold gloves), 3) Yes I can open cans/draws/use pens/ 4) No they’re not unhygienic…I wash my hands and use a scrubber to clean beneath them.) šŸ˜†

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The post that confirmed you were real btw šŸ’—

A stunning baddie with baddie nails šŸ’…šŸ¼ šŸ’—
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
I’m so sorry SpicyBean. I’m sure this is very difficult for you.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
I'm sorry this happened. Maybe something's going on with him in his personal life that's causing him to act out. Maybe he's just turning into an asshole. He's shown you who he currently is and I think it's wise to believe him.

Let yourself mourn the friendship you had. Do something ridiculous that makes you smile this weekend. (I would suggest buying harnesses and leashes for your cats, taking them on a walk, and seeing how many weird looks you get.) Let yourself be sad for a while, then let yourself be happy for a while.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
šŸ«‚
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
Sorry to hear about this Bean!

My advice would be to surround yourself with friends where possible. Arrange a night out, invite some over, get into nature. You’ll have a decent support network and they will help you see that a nasty guy, albeit your guy, is not worth your energy.

If you ever need to chat, just reach out. Went through something similar a few years back, but without the nastiness. Things get easier, no matter how hard it is right now.
 
Unfortunately not anymore :(

I won’t share everything but I’ll explain it a little….

After a loss in my family last year my ex moved back in with me. I didn’t share any of that here because I like having my private fun life here and what with reality being as hard as it is sometimes, this can be a really great escape.

My ex and I are platonically in love but we haven’t slept together in over two years. He’s my person just not physically.

His moving back was platonic and to make sure I was okay. I was weak and feeling vulnerable so I needed it.

He’s also (as of late). become nasty. I’m no good in arguments and tend to break down and cry… mostly… and well…. Today he caused a big scene when we were out … didn’t understand why calling me names and poking digs at me isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a nice time…

Anyway. Fast forward to right now and I’m back home… he’s packed all his things and left.

I… feel kinda weird airing this all out but I’m… heartbroken. I was going to be surprising him with tickets to the stranger things theatre show next week and now… everything’s come crashing down and I feel lost. It’s all happened so
Quickly I haven’t had a chance to take it in… and now I’m doing a typical bean thing of taking my dirty underwear and airing it out in public.

Anyway.

Umm…. Im just really really fucking sad.
Sending hugs your way. I’m sorry that happened, especially the way it did in public. Take your time, take care of yourself. Your fans and friends will be here for you when you need us or when you return. šŸ«‚šŸ«‚
 
I'm sorry this happened. Maybe something's going on with him in his personal life that's causing him to act out. Maybe he's just turning into an asshole. He's shown you who he currently is and I think it's wise to believe him.

Let yourself mourn the friendship you had. Do something ridiculous that makes you smile this weekend. (I would suggest buying harnesses and leashes for your cats, taking them on a walk, and seeing how many weird looks you get.) Let yourself be sad for a while, then let yourself be happy for a while.
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Thankyou (everyone) and you for your lovely messages. I decided it was best to not stay online yesterday after feeling so sad but I’ve slept on it and feel a little better hehehe.

Oh and…I am already that crazy cat lady šŸ˜‚ my neighbours all love seeing the boys when I take them around the village 🄰
 
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