Wives giving handjobs

I always have enjoyed giving men hand jobs since I started dating many years ago, and I still do. Getting a man off and seeing him shoot off from me stimulating him has always excited me for some reason. Fortunately my late husband liked sharing me with friends and others and I gave quite a few to friends who came over to visit. :D
I'm sure my wife will continue giving our friends hand jobs if I pass away, too. If she passes before me, I'll be the one to keep giving the hand jobs.
 
I'm sure my wife will continue giving our friends hand jobs if I pass away, too. If she passes before me, I'll be the one to keep giving the hand jobs.

Absolutely! Fred! And why not? It is enjoyable for all involved, plus so much fun to get a nice cock hard and squirting! :D
Whether you are a man or a woman the pleasure is the same. I am bi as I assume you are and I have never been a fan of labels other than trying to explain to others. I see sexuality as a menu. I feel I just have a more complete menu than others to choose from and enjoy. :D

Ps. BTW if that pic is you, you have a lot to be proud of. If you know what I mean. :D
 
Absolutely! Fred! And why not? It is enjoyable for all involved, plus so much fun to get a nice cock hard and squirting! :D
Whether you are a man or a woman the pleasure is the same. I am bi as I assume you are and I have never been a fan of labels other than trying to explain to others. I see sexuality as a menu. I feel I just have a more complete menu than others to choose from and enjoy. :D

Ps. BTW if that pic is you, you have a lot to be proud of. If you know what I mean. :D
It is and I was doing what I love! And doing what I have already done once today and hopefully will several more times before the day and night are over. My wife is also bi and like you we look at it as enjoying the full menu with all the options.
 
That is so cool! I wish more people understood this and felt the same way. Life would be easier and a whole lot more fun. :D I am glad you enjoy giving oral pleasures. I do too along with the hand jobs. LOL!
 
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I LOVE this scenario and use it to cum hard on a regular basis. I am one of the rare guys that enjoys the thought, but have no desire for my wife to fuck other guys. But hands, fingers, and possibly mouths would be crazy fun.
 
I LOVE this scenario and use it to cum hard on a regular basis. I am one of the rare guys that enjoys the thought, but have no desire for my wife to fuck other guys. But hands, fingers, and possibly mouths would be crazy fun.

Good luck, but remember, its a slippery slope!
 
Wow. Thanks for all of your replies. There are many interesting scenarios proposed. I'm going to talk to her and see if I can get her interested in trying it out. We are going to a Valentine's day party and may try to convince her to try it there.

Should I be concerned that she may go too far or enjoy it too much? What if she does ? Where do we go from there?
 
Wow. Thanks for all of your replies. There are many interesting scenarios proposed. I'm going to talk to her and see if I can get her interested in trying it out. We are going to a Valentine's day party and may try to convince her to try it there.

Should I be concerned that she may go too far or enjoy it too much? What if she does ? Where do we go from there?

Love the idea...but maybe after Valentine’s Day ....can be an important time!
 
Wow. Thanks for all of your replies. There are many interesting scenarios proposed. I'm going to talk to her and see if I can get her interested in trying it out. We are going to a Valentine's day party and may try to convince her to try it there.

Should I be concerned that she may go too far or enjoy it too much? What if she does ? Where do we go from there?

Ultimately it’s up to you but yeah like another poster mentioned Valentine’s Day might not be best choice. As far as her going further, that is always a possibility. You need to think about how you’d feel if she did like it and how you feel about her going further and talk to her about it. It would be good to be on the same page before going into things, get your concerns and desires out for both of you.
 
Wow. Thanks for all of your replies. There are many interesting scenarios proposed. I'm going to talk to her and see if I can get her interested in trying it out. We are going to a Valentine's day party and may try to convince her to try it there.

Should I be concerned that she may go too far or enjoy it too much? What if she does ? Where do we go from there?

It’ll be good for you to talk rules first, like how far you’re willing to let her go, that way no ones feelings get hurt. It’s important to know most men will push your wife as far as they can so its important she knows the limits. It’s pretty easy in the heat of the moment for things to get out of hand. I know, I’ve been there, with all intentions to limit activity to one act like and handjob and ended up sucking or fucking. Of course, I have permission for that (whether hubby allows it or not) but that’s just us, you need to define your rules first.
 
So the wife and I have been discussing the possibility of adding a third. It's been mostly pillow talk for the last year or so, however I think that it is time to start a change for her.
Without going overboard and expecting her to fuck someone right away, I would love to see her take a step in that direction.
I am considering asking her if she would like to take that step by giving a guy a handjob.
Whether it is a stranger or a friend, I'm not sure which might be better. I'm kinda picturing her giving a handy to a guy hidden by a table or maybe in a parking lot.
I think that I would like to watch for the erotic pleasure and her safety. If not possible, then at least get the details later.

Who has tried this and enjoyed it?
Also, did it help in accelerating your sex life or the opposite?

I don't think it has to go further. Just do variations on this.
 
I guess that an update is due here.
The night was exciting but turned out quite different than I had imagined.

We just returned from our VD weekend getaway. We booked a room at a nearby hotel that was hosting a Valentine's Day party on Saturday night. We arrived and checked in to the party. There was a dueling piano group playing. We got our drinks and sat close to the stage. There was just my wife and I sitting at our table. Each time that we needed to refill our drinks, we had to leave the room and go out into the hallway where the hotel had a bar set up.
At the table next to us, there was was curvy younger woman exposing a lot of cleavage. She had a skinny little boyfriend with her. She was carrying on and dancing in the aisle. She was definitely one of those girls that try too hard. She was certainly the dominant person in the relationship.
On my third trip out to the bar, I was standing in line with 2 other women in their mid 30s behind me. Then the curvy girl and her boyfriend were behind these two women. The curvy girl was carrying on ,bouncing her boobs up and down. I overheard one of the women behind me say "That guy doesn't know what he is in for tonight. " As I turned around and noticed was they were talking about I remarked to her " Behave yourself ", laughing as I said so.
We began to chat about the situation and what the guy might have gotten himself into. So each time that I went out to get more drinks, these 2 women seemed to follow me out, each time chatting as we stood in line.
Both women were pretty blondes with nice figures. Bella was the name of one and Emily was the other. Bella said "You must be having a good time. I was watching you and your wife during the show. "
The next time in line, Bella said "Are you going out to dance." I replied " I don't think that I had enough to drink yet" She said "Come on it will be fun."
When I returned to our table, my wife was eager to dance, so I obliged and led her to the dance floor. When we got to the floor, Bella and Emily were already there and I discovered that they had boyfriends/ husbands with them.
We were all slow dancing, when I noticed that Bella was directly behind my wife. With my hands on my wife's ass, Bella bumped into my hands. At first I wrote it off as a mistake, but then she did it again. So I turned my palm around and gave her ass cheek a bit of a squeeze. Bella turned around and smiled at me.
Either feeling bolder or more inebriated, I rubbed her ass a few more times before the song was over. The dance was soon over and the crowd began to clear out. My wife and I went to the hotel bar next door and ordered a drink. While standing near the stairs, Bella approached my wife and handed her a rose, introduced herself and they chatted for a moment. Bella and her boyfriend turned and left then.
I said to my wife "Awe, how cute. Mommy has a girlfriend. " She was glowing.
After we finished our drinks, we went up to our room. I asked my wife "Why didn't you invite your new girlfriend up?"
She said "You would have liked that, wouldn't you?"
I said "Absolutely "
My wife went crazy tearing off her clothes and jumped on the bed and said "Fuck me. Hard." I didn't let her down. She was an animal, asking for and trying all kinds of stuff. Occasionally bringing up Bella's name and adding her name to our fantasies, saying things like "What would Bella be doing as you are fucking me?, or what would you want to see me do with Bella?"
We fucked for more than 2 hours as my wife fed her lesbian/from fantasy.
Maybe the next time she will follow through with it.
 
So the wife and I have been discussing the possibility of adding a third. It's been mostly pillow talk for the last year or so, however I think that it is time to start a change for her.
Without going overboard and expecting her to fuck someone right away, I would love to see her take a step in that direction.
I am considering asking her if she would like to take that step by giving a guy a handjob.
Whether it is a stranger or a friend, I'm not sure which might be better. I'm kinda picturing her giving a handy to a guy hidden by a table or maybe in a parking lot.
I think that I would like to watch for the erotic pleasure and her safety. If not possible, then at least get the details later.

Who has tried this and enjoyed it?
Also, did it help in accelerating your sex life or the opposite?
If your wife is comfortable with the idea then I would like to watch the act unfold in a car perhaps due to its intimate surroundings. If she is kinda nervous as expected then watch from a far then let her tell you about the juicy details later especially when she is masturbating you right after. That will definitely heighten your pleasure. Just remember the guy may take things further with her if you know what i mean so you have to be emotionally tough. But personally think its such a turn on to watch your better half in such an intimate act especially if she lets herself go and enthusiastically finishes him
 
If your wife is comfortable with the idea then I would like to watch the act unfold in a car perhaps due to its intimate surroundings. If she is kinda nervous as expected then watch from a far then let her tell you about the juicy details later especially when she is masturbating you right after. That will definitely heighten your pleasure. Just remember the guy may take things further with her if you know what i mean so you have to be emotionally tough. But personally think its such a turn on to watch your better half in such an intimate act especially if she lets herself go and enthusiastically finishes him
You think he is still checking the thread almost 3 years after posting?
 
You think he is still checking the thread almost 3 years after posting?
That doesn't matter. All that matters is all the smoke blowers get to talk all about their wives doing things that odds are never happened anywhere but their fantasies.

These threads are all the same, other than the rare post of "does you wife want this or is this just you" most of it devolves into a circle jerk of "I want to be with your wife" and "Let me talk about my wife"

I guess all of this is good catharsis, but not any actual advice. The How to forum is better for that.
 
Wow. Thanks for all of your replies. There are many interesting scenarios proposed. I'm going to talk to her and see if I can get her interested in trying it out. We are going to a Valentine's day party and may try to convince her to try it there.

Should I be concerned that she may go too far or enjoy it too much? What if she does ? Where do we go from there?
Yep...she may just get so turned on. Firstly would you be upset, jealous if she really got into it. I speak from experience. My ex wife years back agreed to masturbate a another man while I watched and although extremely hot to watch, I became a little embarrassed and uneasy watching how enthusiastic she was. She even talked dirty to him and kissing him. I felt i lost a part of her......
 
As we always advice couples thinking of venturing into this, do not push your spouse into something they do not want to do. One way you can break the ice on this is porn (if the two of you watch porn). Pay close attention to how she reacts to scenes where more than one man is involved. (That's how my husband brought up the idea of another man in bed with us). Talk about it after sex as well. The heat of the moment is one thing. Having a frank , honest conversation in the afterglow is another. If you find she is receptive, proceed from there...
 
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