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Nellie60 said:
Is this a fantasy or had it happened? The other man may want to that but part of the pleasure is watching your wife finish him. I guess it turns me on to see her reactions and facial expressions.
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Its a fantasy of mine that I'd enjoy in reality
 
kinked_a_bit said:
This is a very big decision to be left to chance or to be discussed in “pillow talk.

Odds are that either she thinks it’s just a fun fantasy that won’t ever happen… OR you are both thinking well ahead and don’t quite know how to tell the other.

I’d recommend a real conversation, in a normal non-sexual situation, to find out, and disclose, what both of you are thinking.

Bringing in other people is a risky maneuver for the relationship and it can be a very slippery slope that can move fast to places neither of you expected.

So have the serious talk and if it turns out to be something you are both ready for… have a blast!
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I think its definitely risky if you shared her with someone else without giving some clear guidelines, as its quite likely she will become unfaithful in the future once she tried it or on the other hand if you are not so emotional about it and just went with flow it may well be pretty exciting but guidelines on how far etc still applies.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
The issue a lot of people overlook or gloss over in their early excitement is that once she starts enjoying other lovers, even just handjob lovers, she might not be willing to stop if you ask her to. She might soon find “guidelines” too restrictive and want to abandon them.

My own wife has total freedom to do as she pleases with whoever she pleases. I travel a lot for work and her lovers keep her warm and ready for me when I get home.

Seeing threads on here got me curious, so I asked if she would stop if I wanted her to. Her answer was, “Absolutely not. I would talk to you to find out what had changed to make you want me to stop and then I would get your mind back where it was before.”

This was, in my opinion, the best possible answer because I love being married to a slut and never want to change that. Something really would have to be wrong for me to ask her to change what she’s always been, and what attracted me to her in the first place.

Still, not everyone is like us… and some people are going to want to go back. This should be carefully considered before taking the first step.
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Agree you are fortunate that your wife likes the choice and lifestyle but more importantly you agree and it turns you on. But there are plenty of people out there where the relationship has been destroyed cause the guidelines were not adhered. So how do you adhere to rules when you are in the heat of passion and excitement. Probably depends on the lady. The other issue is even if you agree and she follows the rules you got emotional issues during and later and the other party pursuing her. For me I would love to watch my girl give a handjob to another but probably no more.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
The issue a lot of people overlook or gloss over in their early excitement is that once she starts enjoying other lovers, even just handjob lovers, she might not be willing to stop if you ask her to. She might soon find “guidelines” too restrictive and want to abandon them.

My own wife has total freedom to do as she pleases with whoever she pleases. I travel a lot for work and her lovers keep her warm and ready for me when I get home.

Seeing threads on here got me curious, so I asked if she would stop if I wanted her to. Her answer was, “Absolutely not. I would talk to you to find out what had changed to make you want me to stop and then I would get your mind back where it was before.”

This was, in my opinion, the best possible answer because I love being married to a slut and never want to change that. Something really would have to be wrong for me to ask her to change what she’s always been, and what attracted me to her in the first place.

Still, not everyone is like us… and some people are going to want to go back. This should be carefully considered before taking the first step.
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Further its worth mentioning this most important point..what happens if your emotional connection changes after she been with other men and you fall out of love?
 
I can not imagine getting as far as a handjob and the stopping. I did some when I was young as I was worried about pregnancy but at 64, I just can not imagine stopping there. We got into the lifestyle about 4 years ago and both of us have enjoyed it. I probably have gotten more enjoyment than he has due to his health issues. If he wanted me to stop, we would talk about it but I can not imagine giving it up at this point. It certainly is not something you should get into if you have any doubts about your relationship because putting that genie back in the bottle would be tough
 
Nellie60 said:
Further its worth mentioning this most important point..what happens if your emotional connection changes after she been with other men and you fall out of love?
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We got into this in our 60's and in some ways I think that is a good age to pursue this type of activity. Your relationship has matured and you are no longer in the star struck stage of life. It is very easy to understand the difference with the relationship with my husband as opposed to sex with a friend. And of course pregnancy issues are no longer a concern.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
Couldn’t agree more. We started a bit sooner, but pregnancy was no longer an issue and the kids were adults. There’s just so much less to worry about.

It’s also better when you’ve reached a level of maturity that you can even enjoy the emotional connection that’s going to happen if you see the same person for a while… without losing your mind and thinking you need to upend your life.
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I can certainly imagine a lot of problems with this lifestyle while trying to raise kids. I really like your point about emotional connection with recurring partner. There almost has to be some emotional attachment when you are having sex with someone on an ongoing basis. We started with me taking a hiking buddy as a lover and this was an ongoing thing for almost two years. Along with the sex, I was also providing advice on his issues and life in general. Obviously we were bonding a bit but it was certainly not love and my husband did not feel threatened by it.
 
maxlow999 said:
So the wife and I have been discussing the possibility of adding a third. It's been mostly pillow talk for the last year or so, however I think that it is time to start a change for her.
Without going overboard and expecting her to fuck someone right away, I would love to see her take a step in that direction.
I am considering asking her if she would like to take that step by giving a guy a handjob.
Whether it is a stranger or a friend, I'm not sure which might be better. I'm kinda picturing her giving a handy to a guy hidden by a table or maybe in a parking lot.
I think that I would like to watch for the erotic pleasure and her safety. If not possible, then at least get the details later.

Who has tried this and enjoyed it?
Also, did it help in accelerating your sex life or the opposite?
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maxlow999 said:
So the wife and I have been discussing the possibility of adding a third. It's been mostly pillow talk for the last year or so, however I think that it is time to start a change for her.
Without going overboard and expecting her to fuck someone right away, I would love to see her take a step in that direction.
I am considering asking her if she would like to take that step by giving a guy a handjob.
Whether it is a stranger or a friend, I'm not sure which might be better. I'm kinda picturing her giving a handy to a guy hidden by a table or maybe in a parking lot.
I think that I would like to watch for the erotic pleasure and her safety. If not possible, then at least get the details later.

Who has tried this and enjoyed it?
Also, did it help in accelerating your sex life or the opposite?
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Like I said in other post if there is clear guide lines at this start and you can stomach the emotional jealous aspect then go for it. If yourself will get enough erotic pleasure out of watching ( preferred scenario as opposed to hearing the juicy details later ) then thats definitely part of the reason for doing this.

However I have found women who are enthusiatically into handjobs will get really off on pleasuring a man will probably be more likely to be faithful afterwards. And they will be turned on telling you the details later:) So if your wife is that kinda girl absolutely perfect!
 
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