oldbutstillatit
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- Jun 28, 2025
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Interesting topic. Not sure about the main stream media part but I can talk from experience's with my wife of 42 years. And I can only give my perspective as she is no longer with us. I'm not huge nor small and she never complained.
After about twenty years of marriage and plenty of sex and porn I decided to introduce some toys. I didn't ask and bought a simple vibrator. While going down on her I snuck it into play. Funny how I remember this so vividly. She didn't say no and she had an impressive orgasm. I always got off seeing her cum.
As we moved along I purchased many sex toys for her. She never once went to the toy store with me or asked for anything special so It was all from my thinking. I wondered if a "big cock" would make her have an even bigger O. I would say from my experience that she did enjoy bigger sometimes and others not so much. She would stop things if it wasn't pleasurable.
I would also say that she most definitely enjoyed the fat ones better than the long ones! The first time I used the really thick one was an experience. She came really hard and that fat dildo was covered in her cream. Never got those results with any others.
All that being said he favorite was the rabbit type vibes. The Lelo being her favorite. That was my last purchase.
In conclusion, after having sex with the same person for over 42+ years I can say that there were times she enjoyed a big one, always enjoyed being stretched more than deep, could get off the hardest with a vibe and sometimes just plain old me was enough! It's a choice, should I have chicken or steak or fish for dinner? Eating the same meal all the time gets boring so we have many different choices. We never had the courage to open up our marriage but as I look back, that was a good thing.
OBSAI
After about twenty years of marriage and plenty of sex and porn I decided to introduce some toys. I didn't ask and bought a simple vibrator. While going down on her I snuck it into play. Funny how I remember this so vividly. She didn't say no and she had an impressive orgasm. I always got off seeing her cum.
As we moved along I purchased many sex toys for her. She never once went to the toy store with me or asked for anything special so It was all from my thinking. I wondered if a "big cock" would make her have an even bigger O. I would say from my experience that she did enjoy bigger sometimes and others not so much. She would stop things if it wasn't pleasurable.
I would also say that she most definitely enjoyed the fat ones better than the long ones! The first time I used the really thick one was an experience. She came really hard and that fat dildo was covered in her cream. Never got those results with any others.
All that being said he favorite was the rabbit type vibes. The Lelo being her favorite. That was my last purchase.
In conclusion, after having sex with the same person for over 42+ years I can say that there were times she enjoyed a big one, always enjoyed being stretched more than deep, could get off the hardest with a vibe and sometimes just plain old me was enough! It's a choice, should I have chicken or steak or fish for dinner? Eating the same meal all the time gets boring so we have many different choices. We never had the courage to open up our marriage but as I look back, that was a good thing.
OBSAI
