Women in Sexless Marriages

[Norfolkguy49]

how do you deal with being sexless?

Wank a lot

 

[Norfolkguy49]

how do you deal with being sexless?

Are you in a sexless marriage then

 

[Deadfreak]

Wank a lot

The empty chair at King Arthur's round table. Sir Wanksalot

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Not to step on the ladies' toes with this thread but it's almost comedic that my drought with my wife preceded my 13 year old twins because they were conceived via IVF. So I got to just jack off to a magazine, I still remember the picture of the lady with sexy glasses, she was fucking hot so it only took a couple of minutes.

I guess at the time I sure wasn't expecting a decade + long drought was coming. I never cheated on her as much as I wanted to. It wasn't just the lack of sex, she flat out treated me like shit and didn't do a god damn thing except stare at her phone for 6 hours each night.

Been 5 years since we split and starting a new relationship while taking care of 3 kids at age 50 doesn't put me in high demand. I don't dare say anything of the sexless marriage or that's an instant dump.

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

I am in a sexless marriage. It's been 3 years since my hubby last fucked me. He lost his juice. I on the other hand have a very large libido. I fuck around a lot. I cheat on my hubby almost daily

 

[Bisexguy70]

I am in a sexless marriage. It's been 3 years since my hubby last fucked me. He lost his juice. I on the other hand have a very large libido. I fuck around a lot. I cheat on my hubby almost daily

Im in the opposite. My wife has no drive and im the one with the large libido. One of the reasons I started exploring my bi side. Doesnt seem im able to find a woman like you around so that we can take care of each others sexual needs.

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

There are lots of sluts like me out there. Some just prefer small circle. I prefer very large ones though

 

[LookN2Talk]

Dont think there are very many women in need... Not like us guys in a sexless marriage

Don't seem to be. Maybe it's just situation or something

I showed this thread to my wife. She said you might have very few wives posting on this thread because it is not as much of a concern for most wives. Kids, the home, family, community, work are more the focus even for her, not sex. After all the aforementioned, who has much energy left for thinking about sex? She has me for that. Lol - she told me I am her sex drive. I am to remind her about it, talk to her about it, work with her on it. Yes she does get into it but as we all have areas we best focus on, this one is mine. I am the instigator now for the most part. When she is well rested (also not overwhelmed with life's busyness), she definitely will initiate. She laughed stating, "Especially after you've done the dishes and vacuumed." A side note she included, most wives are not coming on a forum to post about it all if they have all of the above going on. They already have enough going on. On a very positive note, she is glad I post here. It has given us many good sexual and life topics to discuss. I agree.

I think so much of day's conversation is void of substance. I listened to politicians speaking the other day.

Great to have good conversation here!

 

[13Fantasies]

I showed this thread to my wife. She said you might have very few wives posting on this thread because it is not as much of a concern for most wives. Kids, the home, family, community, work are more the focus even for her, not sex. After all the aforementioned, who has much energy left for thinking about sex? She has me for that. Lol - she told me I am her sex drive. I am to remind her about it, talk to her about it, work with her on it. Yes she does get into it but as we all have areas we best focus on, this one is mine. I am the instigator now for the most part. When she is well rested (also not overwhelmed with life's busyness), she definitely will initiate. She laughed stating, "Especially after you've done the dishes and vacuumed." A side note she included, most wives are not coming on a forum to post about it all if they have all of the above going on. They already have enough going on. On a very positive note, she is glad I post here. It has given us many good sexual and life topics to discuss. I agree.

I think so much of day's conversation is void of substance. I listened to politicians speaking the other day.

Great to have good conversation here!

My wife is the same. Except she has no desire for me to initiate either

 

[alexgriffin74]

I am in a sexless marriage. It's been 3 years since my hubby last fucked me. He lost his juice. I on the other hand have a very large libido. I fuck around a lot. I cheat on my hubby almost daily

Daily? Very large libido indeed! I'm impressed.

It'll be 5 (sometimes very long) years in February. Yea, just in time for Valentine's Day.

Sigh.

 

[mark_j]

Sexless for years…doesn’t matter if I initiate, turned down cold. Frustrating because we are really good friends and other than no sex, life is great. I read on lit, have an active imagination, and toys.

That's just truly sad...

 

[PapaRomantic]

Sexless for years…doesn’t matter if I initiate, turned down cold. Frustrating because we are really good friends and other than no sex, life is great. I read on lit, have an active imagination, and toys.

So many other people here say the same thing. He/she is still my best friend, I love life with him/her. But the no sex part isn't just about the carnal pleasure of sex. Often it's about one person making a decision that affects both. I'm sorry you're going through this.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Sexless for years…doesn’t matter if I initiate, turned down cold. Frustrating because we are really good friends and other than no sex, life is great. I read on lit, have an active imagination, and toys.

Like many here...

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

Daily? Very large libido indeed! I'm impressed.

It'll be 5 (sometimes very long) years in February. Yea, just in time for Valentine's Day.

Sigh.

He's always travelling. More than enough time for me to fuck. I love fucking. I am more into gangbangs and dps.

 

[Shi_One81]

I wouldn’t call mine sexless per se I get it a few times a month. We have a 15 yr age gap and my drive is way higher than his which is one reason we have a hot wife dynamic. He loves to share me and hear about it later if I go without him or watch. I find men on apps to fuck.