Women who fantasize about or want to watch their significant other with other people, and who would that other person/people be?

[Bigspurt]

Let's just say, "hey honey, let's try this next time". As she/they do something that is different from what you do together. Same for him. Having his input for something else. Why do you think it's called "strange?"

 

[Bigspurt]

My current is much older than myself…..he likes to watch me attract attention……enjoys the way I flirt….this summer I’ve been enjoying wearing rompers…..mid thigh or a little higher…..peek aboo upper thigh w cute panties….
bf gets rock hard real fast when someone is obviously interested….a touch of a hand has a big effect….I smile, touch back…..

I love rompers. especially shorts with a "Tap Pant" style to the shorts and a "V" neckline.

https://www.nordstrom.com/browse/women/clothing/jumpsuits-rompers?filterByColor=black

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/clothing/g39387030/best-rompers-for-women/

 

[Subsy]

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/smocked...psuits & Rompers&fashioncolor=Black&color=001

 

[whenagain]

This thread is great. How did I miss it?

 

[MadisonK]

I have an ongoing fantasy about my hubby fucking my boss. She is a big brassy blonde bitch. She'd have to be almost six foot tall. As tall as hubby anyway and and it's her way of the highway. So i play out this thing in my head while i listen to her during staff meetings and such. It usually goes a bit like we're in a meeting and i ring hubby and get him to barge in. Then i point at her and say, 'that one, fuck her hard'. And then i direct him how to face fuck her and tear off her blouse and push her down on the table in front of everyone and pound the living fuck out of her. When he's done, i tuck his cock back in for him, kiss him on the lips and thank him before promising to see him back at home later. Then i spit on the freshly fucked and dazed bitch spreadeagled on the table in front of my colleagues and offer everybody coffee like it's just nothing at all. It makes boring meetings listening to the big bitch go by a little quicker as i sit and run it through my head. I've told hubby about it and he cringed. He's not at all attracted to her and sometimes i tease him by pretending i really want him to do it. Hubby was at our staff christmas party last year and the big strumpet had a few too many wines and was kinda sleazing on the hubbies despite her poor hen pecked looking husband being there too. I waggled my eyebrows at hubby when she was hanging off him and gave him a nod. Poor man was horrified.

 

[Jordanjack]

Gets me going every time…fantasize about watching him with a big tit woman and seeing her tits jiggle as he pounds his cock into her wet pussy, hard hard hard. He finishes by fucking me as I suck and play with her tits.

Wow. Which store are you at? . Wish i had this type of relationship in my life. I think. It’s certainly a fantasy.

 

[manualdownload]

My wife recently confessed a similar fantasy to me. It started when we visited a strip club together about a year ago. A few months later, we went to another where my wife insisted a get a lap dance. Since then we have been several times, and my wife has urged me to get lap dances each time. Finally she confessed a fantasy of watching one of the dancers give my a handjob while my wife watched and masturbated. I suspect she didn't tell me everything about the fantasy and she's insisting it's only a fantasy.

 

[Jasmine12345]

cuckquean, I am one. In hot blood

I just found out this post received 6 votes. what an honor. Welcome to have an erotic conversation or a short RP on this theme via PM. (Lit only)

 

[Driven2b]

Early on in our relationship we used to party a fair bit. Hubby would often fuck one of my one of my friends. Either at the party or when they came home with us. Sometimes I was really into it and other times I was was a little jealous. Sometimes I was a little scared because he would always cum inside them and usually more than once. It was so hot and animalistic watching him take them and hearing them cum while he fucked them but always felt they I needed him to fuck me after to make sure he was mine. He had a really high sex drive so it was very rare that he didn’t fuck me after he was finally finished with them but in those nights where he’d go back and fourth between us I remembered being worried that he wouldn’t finish the night with me. I needed him to do that. As we got older and got more swinging experience I got over the insecurity. We only swing with couples now so that also is a very different experience compared to those early days. I enjoy watching him with the other woman be he’s also not as much of a wild animal fucking them 3 or 4 times before taking a break. It’s more sensual now. And he likes to watch me too.

 

[FantasySharer1]

I have so far met only one person who has enjoyed seeing her husband fuck other women. Yes, only one, out of a few thousands of women I have seen in my practice and in life. From this respect this woman thinks like me (why she enjoys seeing him fucking other women). On the other hand, I did meet some women who desired (in fantasy only) to see their husbands fuck another woman, either a particular woman, like you do, or just any other "sexy woman," like I do.

You and those women who desire to see their hubbies fuck a particular woman, are driven by hate or anger for the woman, "he should fuck her to punish her, rape her." To punish that "brassy blonde bitch." Very often anger and punishment drive sex and we see this in couples when a heated quarrel between man and wife is followed by hectic and urgent sex. In your mind by fucking and pounding that brassy blonde bitch (surely forcing himself on her) he is punishing her for her behaviour and and overall self, which you do not like, and subjugating and humiliating her.

I agree.

She can't rape the woman she hates without having a penis, and she can't dominate over her sexually as a man, so she thinks about her husband as an extension of herself and then fantasizes about her husband doing the dirty work of sexually dominating and assaulting and punishing her. In these fantasizes her husband is *her* tool, and the woman is the object of her revenge.

 

[lil_jenni]

Personally, I don't have any interest in seeing my Husband with a woman I don't like. I want to see him with someone to whom I am also attracted. But it isn't because I would like to be able to fuck her in his place. I have no desire to be with a woman in the same way a man is. I like women, I like sex with women as a woman, and I don't need or want a penis to be able to do that. But I also enjoy watching my husband with my girlfriend, seeing him do things with her that he normally only does with me. It makes me jealous and arouses me... not only because he is enjoying her, but also because she is enjoying him.

We were all three together last night (and this morning) for our second threesome. At one point, I just sat back and watched him fuck her. When he flipped her onto her back and fucked her as they held each other's eyes, I got myself off twice watching, letting my jealousy and my arousal consume me. And as I played with myself, I imagined what it would be like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch them without being able to take care of myself... that is what got me my second big O while watching.

 

[SheisFaye]

I've had a fantasy of watching my crush fuck his girlfriend. When I found out she existed it made me insane with jealousy though I'll never admit it. I wanted to love her as he professed he did.
I also fantasize about a threesome with them.
I'm always curious about which sides of him either of us have gotten in his hedonism. He's with multiple women apparently but after I was granted the gift of "knowledge" my mind took turns dephiling him in many ways- with multiple females or him making me watch him chase, fuck or flirt with other women while continuing to deny me the pleasure. Similar to yours.. lol
Admittedly I also fantasize about being the only one able to make him cum and me telling him exactly how much of a dirty sl*t he is.. there is no in between.

 

[MadisonK]

Holy wow. You lot read waaaay too far into my little flight of fancy. I just think she could use a jolly good root and i know hubby could give it to her. Besides it's kinda hot for me to think about what he'd look like. It's not something that will ever happen obviously. That's the thing about fantasy i guess. You'd be really afraid if you saw half the other stuff that goes on in my head.

 

[Deadbed1968]

Holy wow. You lot read waaaay too far into my little flight of fancy. I just think she could use a jolly good root and i know hubby could give it to her. Besides it's kinda hot for me to think about what he'd look like. It's not something that will ever happen obviously. That's the thing about fantasy i guess. You'd be really afraid if you saw half the other stuff that goes on in my head.

I would love to see that other stuff!!

 

[Twistedkink]

Holy wow. You lot read waaaay too far into my little flight of fancy. I just think she could use a jolly good root and i know hubby could give it to her. Besides it's kinda hot for me to think about what he'd look like. It's not something that will ever happen obviously. That's the thing about fantasy i guess. You'd be really afraid if you saw half the other stuff that goes on in my head.

My wife freaks out about how I shake a woman’s hand that I have no interest in.

 

[marriedpervs]

My husband is a total voyeur and has watched me with many other men and women, and joins in when we feel the desire. My fantasy involves him fucking me whilst he is being pegged by Georgie, my girlfriend. I have raised this with him several times and Georgie too, and she is keen but he isn't willing! Advice please!

 

[Mtnmike]

My husband is a total voyeur and has watched me with many other men and women, and joins in when we feel the desire. My fantasy involves him fucking me whilst he is being pegged by Georgie, my girlfriend. I have raised this with him several times and Georgie too, and she is keen but he isn't willing! Advice please!

Hi Dee, I don't know what y'all can do if he's totally against it but you might want to check with Trudy on her page TNT or look for them on here, hope this gets you started in the right direction.

 

[Deadbed1968]

For one thing, many men are against anal intercouse. My husband was like that. The other issue relates to men's traditional role in sex, being the 'doer,' he is the one who fucks and not the otherway around, with many feeling humiliated when this is suggested to them.

A while back, my husband fumed when our conversation about a patient of mine, among other things led me to ask him if he accepts to be sodomised by me. I should note here that now we do have anal sex, but only after I really antagonise him, and in his mind, he sodomises me to punish me

I did have a few patients who were into this, and others, like your case where the husband refused to be done by his wife, let alone by a thirty party.

Does he accept that you use a strap-on on him yourself? You should start with this without involving your friend. If he does not, you should attempt to take a piecemeal approach, starting by massaging his perineum, then some time later, sensitive inserting your finger in his bum, and if he accepts that, then finger fuck him. If he likes that, then start using a vibrator on him, and make him orgasm while doing this. Then after some time, you attempt to use a strap-on on him. If you manage to reach this stage, then the last step is to involve your friend.

Good advice. Ease him into it.

 

[longboy2022]

nope
i never fantasize about my hubby with anyone

Do you fantasise about yourself having sex with someone?

 

[n2anal78]

From some experience with swinging a couple of times my wife definitely found it a turn on to see me kiss her friend as much as I was turned on seeing her kiss her friend. My wife while also initially of the opinion that she had no interest in seeing 2 guys fooling around did get really turned on when a guy from another couple had started talking about wanting to try some bi-play - we never got further than talk but it was definitely talk that had both my wife and I thinking it might be something worth trying.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

From some experience with swinging a couple of times my wife definitely found it a turn on to see me kiss her friend as much as I was turned on seeing her kiss her friend. My wife while also initially of the opinion that she had no interest in seeing 2 guys fooling around did get really turned on when a guy from another couple had started talking about wanting to try some bi-play - we never got further than talk but it was definitely talk that had both my wife and I thinking it might be something worth trying.

My wife has admitted in casual talk to liking watching two guys in gay porn. I assume she watched this while living with a gay guy in college. She’s never pushed it on me to try as she knows It’s not my thing, but maybe I should fake it to get her hot and bothered!

 

[Bisexguy70]

I just want to interject. What about a woman wanting to watch her man be with another man? Ok so maybe not a turn on to most. However, ive met several men and we discussed this very thing. Guys are just wanting a release. No emotional connection per say. We meet secretly to get each other off. I see more and more men who like giving and getting oral to one another. Would the woman be less threatened? If her man was to invite another man to bed? And solely to please each other, no contact with the female. Unless she initiated it. Im just curious a female point of view in this. What if she saw her man give hot sensual oral to another man. Sucking hid cock. Stroking his balls. Seeing him be submissive to another guy. Or vice versa. Alot of my FWB of minr talk and wish our wives would be ok with watching us please each other. Also, the woman might get some pointers and learn new techniques to use on her man. Just a thought…..

 

[thefireman73]

I just want to interject. What about a woman wanting to watch her man be with another man? Ok so maybe not a turn on to most. However, ive met several men and we discussed this very thing. Guys are just wanting a release. No emotional connection per say. We meet secretly to get each other off. I see more and more men who like giving and getting oral to one another. Would the woman be less threatened? If her man was to invite another man to bed? And solely to please each other, no contact with the female. Unless she initiated it. Im just curious a female point of view in this. What if she saw her man give hot sensual oral to another man. Sucking hid cock. Stroking his balls. Seeing him be submissive to another guy. Or vice versa. Alot of my FWB of minr talk and wish our wives would be ok with watching us please each other. Also, the woman might get some pointers and learn new techniques to use on her man. Just a thought…..

My ex never wanted to watch. She knew I had a buddy that I jacked off with and played with. i invited her to watch several times and she said no. That’s your thing. Have fun.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I just want to interject. What about a woman wanting to watch her man be with another man? Ok so maybe not a turn on to most. However, ive met several men and we discussed this very thing. Guys are just wanting a release. No emotional connection per say. We meet secretly to get each other off. I see more and more men who like giving and getting oral to one another. Would the woman be less threatened? If her man was to invite another man to bed? And solely to please each other, no contact with the female. Unless she initiated it. Im just curious a female point of view in this. What if she saw her man give hot sensual oral to another man. Sucking hid cock. Stroking his balls. Seeing him be submissive to another guy. Or vice versa. Alot of my FWB of minr talk and wish our wives would be ok with watching us please each other. Also, the woman might get some pointers and learn new techniques to use on her man. Just a thought…..

As I alluded above, my wife has told me she was turned on by gay porn. She didn’t come right out and say she to watch me with another man but maybe I wasn’t picking up what she was laying down?

 

[Mtnmike]

I think somewhere earlier I commented that this is not a common female fantasy, to watch her other half do another woman. When surveys on sexual fantasies are performed, we are invariably in a conscious form, and certainly this fantasy is not visible.

A fantasy which is similar but certainly not equivalent, and is more visible, is for us enjoying watching a woman being fucked (not by the husband). Just the idea of seeing a woman getting fucked. I did mention before that i used to get excited hearing and watching my roommate at university getting fucked. Yes, this is not uncommon, and it surfaces mostly in group sex, in the heat of action, some women do enjoy watching other women getting fucked, but not the husband.

There exists definite reasons for a woman to seek a threesome with her husband and another woman, and enjoying seeing him do her. These are mainly in the subconscious and they rarely surface. A prerequisite is for the woman to be capable of completely separating love from sex. A complete separation. Also being sure that her hubby too can do the other woman without the possibility of emotional involvement. This is premordial. This is in the conscious. As for the subconscious, a woman who is very proud of the sexual prowess of her husband, may want to show another woman how good he is, and usually she wants to see her husband ravaging the other woman. At times this desire surfaces when two women are arguing about how good their husbands are. The other reason relates to women who believes that women are "whores" or "sluts" (metaphorically speaking) and she wants to see her husband punish that whore. This desire may surface when a particular woman acts like a slut in the presence of a woman who subconsciously enjoys this fantasy. In most cases it may relate to close friends, with the woman desiring to see her husband fuck her "slut" friend and punish her. The third reason is when a woman is incapable of satisfying her husband and wants to see him with another woman, but mainly wants to see how the other woman is satisfying him. The fourth reason is the woman counterpart of male cuckolding, with a woman enjoying and getting gratified in being humiliated in seeing another woman satisfying her hubby.

Very well said, gives a lot of interesting things to think about.