Women who like to be taken forcefully

Allowing another person to take charge is not necessarily a sign of submission. In some respects you are still fully in contro. by allowing or instructing someone else to be aggressive. Submission has a lot more to with what's going on in your head than what's going on on your bed. Don't get labels get in the way of doing what you enjoy.

I agree. I am old enough to know what I like most of the time and willing to talk about it with a guy. It is amazing how much you can accomplish by just letting a guy know what you want.
 
This sounds similar to an explanation a woman friend gave me about how she feels about this Kink for lack of a better word. She explained to me and I agree, that typically men are in the role of pleasing the woman. We go through the seduction phase, then there is extended foreplay, then slow sex with emphasis on female pleasure and orgasm. Eventually at the end there is release and orgasm for the man.

She told me that it took a while but they tried to have sex occasionally that was just about her man having a good orgasm. She got him to just think of himself during those times and completely lose his normal control regarding sex. She would tease him all day or all week, about the upcoming sex play where he could do anything he wanted in the bedroom. Once they finally got in the bedroom he was very hard and excited. As a result, any reluctance on her part made the scene even better, because he would push her around with the urgency of someone who had never had sex before, anxious for his first time.

In the end, she got to enjoy great orgasms while watching her man truly lose himself in lust for her. She loved it and so did he. He was not your typical take charge guy in the bedroom, she just got him to learn to be that way, not all the time, just when they wanted it.

ES

I am guessing that there may be a lot of women who would enjoy this. To me it is intoxicating to have a man just go with his primal urges. Not sure if this is a good analogy but it is a bit like surfing. I can catch his wave and ride it for my own pleasure.
 
I am guessing that there may be a lot of women who would enjoy this. To me it is intoxicating to have a man just go with his primal urges. Not sure if this is a good analogy but it is a bit like surfing. I can catch his wave and ride it for my own pleasure.

That is a great analogy! I have been told the same from women I know, regarding the intoxicating part. Another analogy--not as good--is the bull and bullfighter. The bull gets all worked up by the red cape and eventually charges full speed at the bullfighter. Sometimes the clothes a woman wears, maybe a red dress can really turn her man on if she wears the right outfit. A little teasing here and there at dinner and when you get home, CHARGE!!! The man turns into a Bull.

ES
 
I fantasize about taken forcefully even violently
Being used like a peice of meat and discarded after

Also about men using force in different way
Like when a man has a lot of ... leverage over me
That i have no Choice but to do what he wants and i sort of surrender
 
Oh man yes I have a rape fantasy absolutely.

I would be in a trusting relationship/situation with a SO or friend. And in my fantasy they'd kind of "break into my apartment" (during some day in an agreed upon week), grab me.. throw me on the bed, and just fuck me senseless- do whatever they wanted with me.

Could even do a 3some in this scenario.

Its hot and i fucking love it.



Its not really about violence tho. Or about force. Its about them wanting me so much, theyre not taking no for an answer. And its just a role play, so its all fun ;)

My boundary tho would be taking this kind of scenario out in public, in a laneway or something. Thats fine if other wish to do that, but its not for me- thats where i draw the line.

It seems that there is an element of violence in your role play. Nothing wrong with that if both of you are in to it and work out the rules. I understand the desire of being wanted and being willing to let go and just be taken. While I have no expertise in this forum, it seems that you are tending to sub and might well enjoy a relationship with a Dom.
 
Me too!

Oh man yes I have a rape fantasy absolutely.

I would be in a trusting relationship/situation with a SO or friend. And in my fantasy they'd kind of "break into my apartment" (during some day in an agreed upon week), grab me.. throw me on the bed, and just fuck me senseless- do whatever they wanted with me.

Could even do a 3some in this scenario.

Its hot and i fucking love it.



Its not really about violence tho. Or about force. Its about them wanting me so much, theyre not taking no for an answer. And its just a role play, so its all fun ;)

My boundary tho would be taking this kind of scenario out in public, in a laneway or something. Thats fine if other wish to do that, but its not for me- thats where i draw the line.



Same! It’s like you’re in my head. Not so big on the violence aspect but definitely non-consent. My fantasy sometimes has a kidnapping aspect to it, like come abduct me in the parking lot... or force me into your vehicle and use me! Lol

.....Crazy, I know. 36 yr old MWF nurse in Oklahoma.
 
Oh man yes I have a rape fantasy absolutely.

I would be in a trusting relationship/situation with a SO or friend. And in my fantasy they'd kind of "break into my apartment" (during some day in an agreed upon week), grab me.. throw me on the bed, and just fuck me senseless- do whatever they wanted with me.

Could even do a 3some in this scenario.

Its hot and i fucking love it.



Its not really about violence tho. Or about force. Its about them wanting me so much, theyre not taking no for an answer. And its just a role play, so its all fun ;)

My boundary tho would be taking this kind of scenario out in public, in a laneway or something. Thats fine if other wish to do that, but its not for me- thats where i draw the line.

I was weirdly just thinking about this today - why I find the whole consensual-non-consent thing so hot in some circumstances - and I think this is definitely part of it. Feeling like someone wants you THAT much. I used to play around with this a bit with the last guy I was with regularly. There's also something in just the physicality of it - the struggling, 'fighting', etc raises adrenaline levels, which has it's own pleasures.
Weird, because we always knew it was a 'game', but were able to get into a totally 'not-game' headspace for a little while.
 
Do you enjoy anal sex? Can you even admit that you do? Do you like being taken with force? It's your most private orifice and that is a large part of the forbidden desire of anal sex. And, the position for anal sex is normally very lewd. Also, while you are being taken that way, you can't really do much but take it.

Also, that hole is smaller, so it is more painful, at least in the beginning. And, it requires lube, if you are going to do it right and be safe. And, because of the lube, even if you don't want to be taken there, you aren't going to stop me. If you resist, that is even more fun for me. Any resistance will tighten that little hole and I will enjoy taking it that much more.

Most animals have sex that way, and they can appear very violent in that act. The biting of shoulders and forcing the female to submit is a normal part of the act for them. Anal sex is very close to animal sex. The position is even referred to as "doggie style".

With you in this position, I sometimes like to put my hands on either side of your head, and ride you hard. And, you are kept in that position by my hands being there, not able to move forward or to either side. You have to take it.

See, anal sex is my favorite thing. And, it just comes to me naturally. You can almost look at it as you are forced into a situation you don't want, but part of you deep inside makes you do it, because you need it. And if forced to ask for it in some way, you are made to express your need for it.

If you're bound and gagged, it's more fun for me, because you have no choice but to take what I give you and how I give it to you. Only whimpers and muffled moans escape from the gag.

I force you to strip while I watch you, and then get on your knees and lube your own ass. Then, I lock the shackles on you and whisper how I'm going to make your tight little ass larger for you.

Then, I nibble on your ear lobe as I breathe hot air into your ear. I stick my tongue in your ear to make it wet. Then I bite your lobe again, almost to the point of too much pain. I reach under you and find your nipples and twist them between my fingers, causing you to wince in pain.

I run one hand down between your bound legs to find your clit. I just rub it lightly, to make sure you are aching for it. I know you want me to fuck your pussy and fuck it hard. But the lube is in your ass hole, so you know it isn't your pussy that's getting any attention.

I spank your ass until both cheeks are nice and red and have red hand prints all over. I love fucking a nice red ass. You yelp with each swat of my hand, and jerk from the pain. As I continue to spank you with one hand, I snake my other hand down and stick it inside your wet pussy, but only for a very short time. Just enough to get your attention.

Then, I get on my knees behind you and let my hard cock bounce on your red ass cheeks. Just to let you know how hard it is. I watch that glistening hole twitch, in anticipation. It's such a pretty picture, wet with lube, between your spanked ass cheeks.

I take hold of my cock and place it at that tiny little hole, moving it in very small circles at the entrance. Then, I grab your hips and slowly inch it in. You groan and try to raise up, because it feels too big and you begin to panic.

I push you back down, with my hand, although you couldn't raise up very far because of your shackles. You start to say something, but you catch your breath as the head of my cock pops past your tight anal opening. You gasp as it starts to slowly inch it's way up your most private passage.

You feel so submissive, taken this way. You love being forced to take it, bound in such a lewd position. You don't dare tell you love this, but you love it very much. The position, the pain, the bondage, the humiliation...it all comes together as one lustful feeling that washes over you.

I thrust my hard cock as far as it will go into your ass, and you gasp again, not ready for its size. Your breath is short, you try to tighten your ass, testing my power. You melt into a kind of used submissive mode, as if you are being punished or tamed or trained.

You want this to happen and you want it bad, but I'm still deep inside you, just watching you with your filled ass in the air. Finally, you can't stand it any longer and you yell to me "FUCK ME, DAMN IT...FUCK MY ASS."

I laugh and lean over to whisper into your ear..."all in my own time, naughty little girl...all in my own time." You groan, because you want it NOW, and you know you have no control over it. You need your ass fucking to start, but you are mine to be used and used you will be.

I lean over you and put my palms on the floor on either side of your head, so you don't move forward or from side to side. You are kept in position, so I can ram hard into your ass and you will take the whole force of my thrusts. Slowly, I pull my cock out of your ass, only to the very tip of the opening, then thrust it back to the very hilt, again.

You whimper appreciation that the act has finally begun, but it isn't fast enough for your liking, and that whimper is also from need. Again, I slowly pull out to the edge of your ass, but this time, I pull completely out, only to push it right back in again and it chugs down as far as it will go.

Again, I do this, and you feel like you are being entered anew, over and over again, as I push that tight little hole open each time. I whisper into your ear..."you like this, don't you? You need this, don't you? Such a naughty girl, all naked and bound in such a lewd position and getting her tight little ass fucked."

I don't wait for an answer, but pull out again and again I re-enter that tight little hole and trust down against those red ass cheeks with a slap. You gasp at the feeling this causes, and I think I hear you breathe the word "yes", as I pull out and do it again.

I tell you how I like to watch my hard cock as it slides effortlessly into your naughty little ass, punishing your little hole with animal like thrusts.

You tell me you deserve this punishment, because you are my naughty little girl and mine to use for my pleasure. You ask me to make it hurt because you deserve it. My slut has been bad.

You whimper as I begin to get faster with my fucking, and I slap your ass a few times as I fuck it. I raise up and grab your hips and fuck that way, then sometimes I lean forward, and give my whole weight against you and make you take it hard.

You are on the hard wooden floor and the force of my fucking you makes you slide a little across the floor with each thrust. Because the floor was freshly waxed, your shoulders and knees squeak against it. I begin to fuck that little hole of yours even faster now, and I reach around and find your nipples and hold on to them as I fuck you.

With each thrust, I pinch them, and pull them when I pull out. But, I see that you enjoy this too much so I stop, so not to give you too much pleasure. You are nearly beside yourself now, knowing it is getting to the point that you can't handle it.

But, this is also the level you need it to be. Being taken this way excites you tremendously. My thrusting is faster, now, and I'm bouncing against your ass, as I start a rhythm.

A whiny sound is coming from your throat, as you feel my power grow inside you, and you sense my orgasm could be near. I grab hold of your waist and dig my fingers into your flesh as I shove faster and faster into your burning ass. I start to call you my naughty slut and my little punished whore, as I ram your ass faster and faster.

I punish you with my cock, as it gets harder and larger, nearing my orgasm. You can feel it getting larger and you are thrilled at the feeling it brings out in you.

You love being taken by a powerful man, being his lustful toy, being his play thing, for his pleasure. Being taken by force in your most private place, you can't get enough of it. You know you are an anal slut and you love it.

I grab you hard and hold you still as one last time I shove my cock into your ass. I hold it deep inside you, as I spill my hot cum into your bowels. I groan a deep groan and to you it sounds like animal is taking you.

You think of me as a hairy beast that has you in his power and you couldn't get away, if you wanted to. You whimper your appreciation as my cum fills your ass, and you want to cum yourself, if I will let you.

Finally, I reach around and with my hand I pinch your clit, rubbing it roughly, telling you to cum for me. You scream as you can't contain the violent spasms that rush through your bound body.

Your own cum gushes from you and runs down your legs to the floor. I continue to fuck you, until the last of my cum is inside you, Your orgasm is so powerful, you can't catch your breath. You finally start to breath easier after a few minutes.

I sit back and look at your quivering ass hole, as it wants my cock inside it. It looks like it lost a friend. I see my cum oozing out of your ass, your bowels not large enough to hold it all, and I watch it drip down your ass crack and coat your pussy lips.

I tell you I'm quick at recovery, and I think I'll leave you this way, because in just a few more minutes I'll be back for more fun. I've always been very quick with recovery. I think this time I'll also have that 8 inch dong you like so much to fill your pussy. Yes, it will be me in your ass.
 
I like been taken forcefully (for example) when my hands are tied to the bed posts with a gag in my mouth, and also when spread eagle so completely at their mercy. Also many other ways I am sure you all can think of.

It may not be to everyone's taste but it works for me and I love it.
 
Verbally threatening another woman forcefully?

Women "friends" of mine could be considered "forced" to do things I want them to do.
 
My wife is usually pretty conservative but when she get's in the right mood, she enjoys it rough, I can slap her around, abuse her ass and nipples and talk filthy to her. She loves having her hair pulled back while I am fucking her from behind. But this is not a regular occasion that I get to enjoy this side of her

This is the category I fall into as well. Sometimes...a girl just needs it. Other times, not so much.
 
I guess I am kind of on the edge of this. I don't want to be forced but I do want the guy to be forceful. Also I do not consider myself submissive at all but when we get to a certain point, I want him to take me and use me. I want him to just focus on his pleasure. When this is done right, I have some very intense orgasms. Not sure why but it just seems to work for me. I can have orgasms other ways but there is something about just laying back, opening up and taking it that seems to overwhelm any inhibitions.

I agree. I am old enough to know what I like most of the time and willing to talk about it with a guy. It is amazing how much you can accomplish by just letting a guy know what you want.

I am guessing that there may be a lot of women who would enjoy this. To me it is intoxicating to have a man just go with his primal urges. Not sure if this is a good analogy but it is a bit like surfing. I can catch his wave and ride it for my own pleasure.

My wife would agree and we know other women who feel the same and regularly have sex this way - it is all about communication and understanding.
 
Dreaming

You find out in life that when you have repressed the ability to ask openly for what it is that you want, and need for that sweet feeling it can pass you bye. When the man you love just couldn't be that domineering in a way that was enough, and then he couldn't any longer due to his physical issues. It leaves you with a conundrum. You have always lived with the repression of that desire, and now you don't have it even if you could become the woman you want to become.

I know this is a bit melancholy, but this could maybe encourage someone to be more assertive ask for more assertive or however it could fulfill your self needs as it's ok to need, desire, and require now, not later.

Just ignore me as I just wanted to talk..... xoxox
 
xoxox

Omg, I 'mistakenly' posted this for him to see if he is fortunate enough to see it!

(Honey, you should have closed your browser this morning?? Love you!)
 
Gives you Freedom to let the SLut out

This is my wifes thought right here.

She likes the idea of being "forced" into so many sexual things a proper wife and mother would not normally do. This gives her the ability to fully enjoy the experience without feeling guilty afterwards.
 
Im one of those women. I do like an aggressive man who takes what he wants. That’s where my mind goes but I also like a slow build up too so I’m flexible. :)
 
It's a shame there aren't more people willing to talk about this.

Started looking for just a BDSM and CNC connection to fulfil this fantasy.
 
This is my wifes thought right here.

She likes the idea of being "forced" into so many sexual things a proper wife and mother would not normally do. This gives her the ability to fully enjoy the experience without feeling guilty afterwards.

Same reason some women like to be 'Submissive', they can be a Slut and its the Dom's fault they were
 
Absolutely! It isn't "HER FAULT" she is experiencing so many orgasms and so much pleasure from doing such things. It is because she was "Forced."

Actually, I have heard a similar story from guys in regards to cheating on their girlfriends...."she forced me".

ES
 
Amok Time

I was watching the original STAR TREK series the other day and the episode Amok Time was on. I wonder how many women have imagined being taken by Spock savagely when his seven-year mating drive comes along. After not fucking for 7 years, I imagine he gets pretty horny!

ES
 
I am a very independent, hard working alpha female who has an insatiable appetite for rough, forceful sex. I would love a sub/dom relationship, but no one has ever exhibited all of the qualities I desire.
 
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