Islander55
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Allowing another person to take charge is not necessarily a sign of submission. In some respects you are still fully in contro. by allowing or instructing someone else to be aggressive. Submission has a lot more to with what's going on in your head than what's going on on your bed. Don't get labels get in the way of doing what you enjoy.
I agree. I am old enough to know what I like most of the time and willing to talk about it with a guy. It is amazing how much you can accomplish by just letting a guy know what you want.