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Women who like to be taken forcefully

All about subtleties of how done and connection between you both I think. If have to explain or plan too much it can seem creepy or controlling as opposed to when it develops naturally and that exact same stuff is crazy hot.
 
AccidentallyKinky said:
Being taken forcibly is open to interpretation. For me, a big part of sex is passion - I like to feel wanted and needed. I like the feeling of "I got to have you now." It's intoxicating knowing that a guy has an uncontrollable desire for you (consensually, of course).

I like rough sex. I like hair pulling, biting, gripping... I like to be taken. BUT, and this is a big but, there has to be some level of seduction to go with it. I do NOT like to feel used... I don't like feeling like an empty vessel for his pleasure. Rough sex is a dance for two. I like to be there for his pleasure... but he has to make me feel like a human being in the process, and not simply as an available fucktoy.
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I agree and understand this^. I am not a woman but I can clearly see how this is important and a big turn on. I think part of the problem is communication. I know it gets mentioned over and over but it is really important.

I have read a few books on the subject and one thing we all do is make things up in our heads. When there is no communication then you decide in your own mind why your partner is doing something. This is what gets us in trouble, because many times it is wrong. You develop feelings based on a wrong assumption. The only way to know the true reason is ask the person....assuming they tell the truth...you now know the reason.

What are the things that make you feel like a human being in the process? What are the things that don't make you feel that way? No need to answer these questions. This is just an example of things you can talk about as a couple. Plus I don't understand why couples can't talk about sex afterwards. Women can talk to their girlfriends about it but not to their lover? It does not have to be clinical talk, like talking to your Doctor. Make it something that fits your style as a couple so you can express how you felt, physically and emotionally. "My orgasm was not very intense but I felt really close to you while you were cumming. I think it was the way you held me...in contrast to the violence of our sex....at that instant you were tender..."

ES
 
Valentines Day

This may be a repost but it was a Valentines Day event.

30 years ago on Valentine's Day I bought my girlfriend a special outfit. A Bra, garter belt, panties, and stockings. My gf at the time was very busty so I had to go to a special store to find her size and then it only came in white or black. Since my gf was black with very dark skin, I got the white Bra for a contrast.

Our plan was for her to put the lingerie on under her clothes, we would go to dinner, and then come home and fuck. She had never put on a garter belt before so we both worked on putting her in the outfit, the panties outside the belt for easier access.

After putting on the lingerie she transformed. This was her first time in any lingerie and she looked at me in my underwear and liked what she saw, an erection. She began teasing me and walking seductively. I was shocked at how she looked and how turned on I was.

I chased her around the room for a few minute getting more turned on and even mad. I finally caught her and spanked her ass hard. Then I ripped off her panties and fucked her like I was going to hurt her. And she wanted to be fucked like that. I had an amazing orgasm and even passed out for about a minute. When I came to I apologized for being so rough and losing control. She just kept telling me it was wonderful over and over again. We both had bad rug burns but it was worth it.

ES
 
Woman married to a woman here. I don't know if this counts since we're not straight, but I love when my wife takes me forcefully. When she's in control, I'm at my wettest.
 
I like bondage and rough sex. Force can be an element of that, but Hubby is not really into "forcing" me if I resist. He has, and I've loved it, but it's not his preference.

As for the sense of being used for only his pleasure... I like it on occasion. I wouldn't want that most of the time with Hubby (although rough is a different story), and I would not consider it with a man who really believed that's all I'm worth. I was in such a situation in RL when I was young, and it screwed me up.
 
My wife has a little different interpretation but I think essentially the same concept. She figures if she is giving a guy a gift, she wants to see enthusiasm when accepting it. My tendency is to be gentle soI need to work on being more forceful when warranted.
 
phil1955 said:
My wife has a little different interpretation but I think essentially the same concept. She figures if she is giving a guy a gift, she wants to see enthusiasm when accepting it. My tendency is to be gentle soI need to work on being more forceful when warranted.
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I don't think I would call it a "gift" especially when we are talking about this kind of play. But I do understand her sentiment. A girl friend described it to me in a similar way. She said it was enjoying my face of lust and loss of control due to sexual desire for her. I remember one time for me to cum I would need to fuck her very hard---at least much harder than I normally did---and I was apologetic about it. Her thought was... "You don't have to ask to fuck me hard, just do it! And own it!" That is the essence of this thread I feel.

ES
 
I am more into being taken forcibly, fucked hard, especially anally. I enjoy being used, a cock slammed down my throat.
 
My wife wants to be forced occasionally, and I think the trigger is something she has read or seen on TV that turns her on. She has never actually been raped, although she was forced to endure anal sex and to take a cock in her mouth when she was having consensual sex in college.
 
lil_jenni said:
I like bondage and rough sex. Force can be an element of that, but Hubby is not really into "forcing" me if I resist. He has, and I've loved it, but it's not his preference.

As for the sense of being used for only his pleasure... I like it on occasion. I wouldn't want that most of the time with Hubby (although rough is a different story), and I would not consider it with a man who really believed that's all I'm worth. I was in such a situation in RL when I was young, and it screwed me up.
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My husband is the same way. I want him to forcibly take me when I resist like it's real & he does it, but there's always some hesitation on his part. He says he can't stand the thought of hurting me. I'm so very thankful that I have a loving husband & I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world & the sex is great regardless, but sometimes I wish he could flip that switch or see it as he's not hurting me if it's what I want. I want him to grab me throw me down, choke me, & force his cock inside me while I try to resist with all my strength.
 
Sort of a deep need for some women to be taken. I confess that in my younger days, I put myself in position a few times to be taken. In college, I went to a guys room who had a reputation for not accepting no. He was true to form and I enjoyed it. Hubby will do it a little but it is not natural too him.
 
Islander55 said:
Sort of a deep need for some women to be taken. I confess that in my younger days, I put myself in position a few times to be taken. In college, I went to a guys room who had a reputation for not accepting no. He was true to form and I enjoyed it. Hubby will do it a little but it is not natural too him.
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That's pretty smart going to guys rooms that have reps

My husband knows I like to be taken and he can be just rough enough.
 
I should have found this thread earlier.

I've always enjoyed rough sex, always. Vanilla just doesn't do it for me the same way. Being taken, forcefully is right up there with being tied up, held down and some other kinks I want to explore.

However for some godforsaken reason, I never managed to fins someone who is into it. One guy hated dirty talk, another said he couldn't/wouldn't hurt me (you're not hurting me if I consent), and another said he cant get off like that. Yes I've only slept with three men.

I tried explaining this to a therapist and she was horrified. I tried explaining it to a potential date, he started to jerk off on the phone claiming it was so hot, but after it was more he wasn't raised that way. He didn't think he could give me what I want. Tried explaining it to another potential date, and he ghosted. One guy got so far as getting a little rough during fingering but that never evolved past there. He was addicted to porn, not my fault.

Just when I was beginning to believe maybe I'm just out of my mind, I found this thread. Seriously happy to have found it.
 
Just can’t get enough

I love being grabbed, thrown up against a wall and even slapped as long as it is with someone I am in a relationship with. I do agree that it is hard to find men that are willing to do it because they don’t want to hurt you and that’s nice. But I agree, if I’m begging you to do it, it’s not hurting me. I have been working with my current boyfriend on this and we’re up to spanking and anal now. He’s a really big guy with a big cock and an even bigger heart, but he does like to give to me roughly. I just had to make it clear to him that it is his to take.
 
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