Women who's greatest pleasure is giving pleasure....

[policywank]

I am with you. I would like to say it is generosity but I am not so sure. Of course I like my partners to experience pleasure. However, pleasuring them allows me to play a role that is mentally stimulating and prolongs the experience especially if there are more than two of us. It is more a matter of not wanting to rush to the finish line.

Fucking is physically stimulating, but being slutty and servicing others is so much more rewarding on many levels.

 

[bibethhotwet]

As much as I love getting pleased I think I am even more aroused giving pleasure to my husband or one of our partners in bed. I have literally become so aroused by sucking my husband that I have orgasmed just from doing that. It is also a bit empowering. I never tire, when I am on my knees in front of him, his hard cock in my mouth, feeling it that familiar tremble in his body, followed by his cock swelling before he empties the contents right down my throat. It is an immense turn on.

 

[fireman969]

Damn I am new here and that just made me hard reading it.

 

[davenjenn]

When I first became sexually active I was fascinated by this -- I got so much pleasure from pleasing guys that I pretty much did it with anyone who asked.

I calmed down a bit in my 20s though, but it still feels so good to please guys even if it is just with a short skirt and tight blouse.

 

[Maverick_Man]

I think many Lit members are like this and would love to do more of what you are talking about...It is always better to give than receive, however I am very good at receiving as well

 

[soct]

Guilty as charged! I find my deepest sense of pleasure from pleasing my sexual partners. Whether it is sex with my husband or the ladies I play with on occasion, what turns me on and gets me off the most is watching them writhe with pleasure and cum for me. Often I find that my own orgasms are triggered by my partner's orgasms. Pleasing my husband or partners makes me feel so fullfilled and is unbelievably gratifying. My desire to please my husband has even lead to my research and eventual introduction to our sex life of prostate massage.

sounds good, nice woman

 

[RustyIron]

It is a great feeling to know that you are giving such pleasure to a partner. The rolled back eyes and the toe curler is great.
I love it when my partner starts thrusting her hips and pushing into my mouth, just fucking hot, love it.

 

[ryexxxtoast]

I love to receive this type of treatment. Who wouldn't?! There was a porn series entitled EROSpov a bit back that is very similar to what is described here.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Those women with this same craving need to com e on out to California...soon!

 

[BiTodd]

Like some have mention... I too have had orgasms while performing oral without really stimulating my cock. I get very turned on by pleasing.

 

[SaldanaSexton]

Lol

It's a good thing they exist, or self-centered bastards like me would be in trouble.

My thoughts exactly

 

[jodylee]

Absolutely, yes. I adore pleasing my husband, and have always been that way with partners. Not a pillow princess at all ;-)

 

[thedarkestfairy]

It is a great feeling to know that you are giving such pleasure to a partner. The rolled back eyes and the toe curler is great.
I love it when my partner starts thrusting her hips and pushing into my mouth, just fucking hot, love it.

Yes!! I love a good toe curler~being on the giving end is my thing but every great once in a while I dearly love to indulge a man's desire to taste me. The image of the back of his head at the apex of my thighs and when he looks up at me while he's sucking my clit....My reaction is amazing even to me and I love when he is finished and slides up my body and kisses me deep and hard so I taste me on his lips and tongue....

 

[thedarkestfairy]

Absolutely, yes. I adore pleasing my husband, and have always been that way with partners. Not a pillow princess at all ;-)

Pillow princess!! I love that!! I'm going to have to try to remember that lol

 

[justlookingin]

I love to see a lover abandon themselves to desire and lose all inhibitions. When they are in the mood where boundaries can be pushed and they are consumed by their need for sex and orgasm it is a huge turn on for me. Giving them that pleasure and doing whatever they want is something that gets me rock hard.

I don't want it to be all one way traffic though. They need to want the same for me too.

 

[eric60red]

Isn't it about fulfilling desires, and making your partner never want you to stop and make them beg for more ?

 

[thedarkestfairy]

Isn't it about fulfilling desires, and making your partner never want you to stop and make them beg for more ?

Yes Mr. Red You are absolutely positively correct!! The power I draw and the state of arousal it drive me to, knowing exactly how bad He wants me~knowing that He will drag me to the floor and jerk my pants down, shove my panties aside, and take what He wants because He wants ME that bad?!?! Utterly intoxicating!! I love to have the power to make Him lose control....

 

[annayarnkitten]

I too have too have cum many times just by sucking cock. I love the knowledge that I can give that much pleasure to someone. However I find that when I am with my Gf I am in a dominate role so I receive a different kind of pleasure.

 

[smallgirl]

Me too. I have known I was submissive for a few years, just never really found the right man to give that to until recently. I have found that being on my knees, and him down my throat, hearing those sounds he makes, or the way he holds my face while I do it? Well there's no better feeling. The look on his face, seeing his eyes roll back in his head from the pleasure I am giving him?
Ohh there's no better feeling.

 

[eric60red]

Yes Mr. Red You are absolutely positively correct!! The power I draw and the state of arousal it drive me to, knowing exactly how bad He wants me~knowing that He will drag me to the floor and jerk my pants down, shove my panties aside, and take what He wants because He wants ME that bad?!?! Utterly intoxicating!! I love to have the power to make Him lose control....

Perfect, thats what the realationship between a true Master and his submissive is all about. She does have all the power, but lets him think he has

 

[thedarkestfairy]

Perfect, thats what the realationship between a true Master and his submissive is all about. She does have all the power, but lets him think he has

No Sir~i am but the vessel of our passions and desires~the instrument that He uses to paint His needs in shocking vivid strokes across the canvas of our lives together....The power play is a beautifully wicked thing that allows us both to savor the carnal cravings that over ride our "civilized" faces that we must wear to please the outside world....But inside, where i am His and He is mine, where our deepest and darkest plays are acted out upon the stage of us, He definitely holds the power and i definitely feed it!! ~~ Off the subject a little here but~~Have i told You that i find You intellectually stimulating and more than a little intriguing?? ~~Darkest
PS~i speak of Him as if He were still here sometimes....He is not....But i hope that He sees that i am doing what He told me to even still!!

 

[windwater]

Understanding the Circle

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

For those who "get" this, it seems easy, intuitive, almost obvious - but I don't think many people truly understand this concept.

It is a wonderful circle really if you allow your mind to go.

I give to get my pleasure - no that is not it at all.
I give because my mind and body and soul were simply made to give, and the act of giving is what brings me my greatest sense of satisfaction and joy - getting closer, but not quite there.
I give because I am not complete as a lover or human being unless I am devoting my entire being to pleasing another being, it is not about me, it is about filling their vessel with the feelings, sensations and devotion that they need and deserve and I am so fortunate to be able to be the one who has the opportunity to bring them pleasure in any small way.
And, from this complete sense of giving, I find my true satisfaction, that I am really not looking to receive...

Around we go, but we here know that when you have this connection mutually with another giver - there is no thinking or fear or sense of inhibition...every touch is the right touch, every word places perfectly, every encounter brings joy and peace and lust and love.

 

[kristine81]

Me too

I absolutely love to please too. It's an ego boost for me to feel so wanted and to be able to give a man that kind of pleasure.

 

[kathieann]

*****

 

[NC_OBX80]

I'm the same way. Don't get me wrong, I love orgasms and when I cum, I cum really hard, but my greatest pleasure in sex is to give my partner pleasure. It makes me crazy horny to see him enjoying himself and losing control because he wants me so bad.

That was a increadibly sexy sentence kathieann...