Women who's greatest pleasure is giving pleasure....

[ears1980]

For those who "get" this, it seems easy, intuitive, almost obvious - but I don't think many people truly understand this concept.

It is a wonderful circle really if you allow your mind to go.

I give to get my pleasure - no that is not it at all.
I give because my mind and body and soul were simply made to give, and the act of giving is what brings me my greatest sense of satisfaction and joy - getting closer, but not quite there.
I give because I am not complete as a lover or human being unless I am devoting my entire being to pleasing another being, it is not about me, it is about filling their vessel with the feelings, sensations and devotion that they need and deserve and I am so fortunate to be able to be the one who has the opportunity to bring them pleasure in any small way.
And, from this complete sense of giving, I find my true satisfaction, that I am really not looking to receive...

Around we go, but we here know that when you have this connection mutually with another giver - there is no thinking or fear or sense of inhibition...every touch is the right touch, every word places perfectly, every encounter brings joy and peace and lust and love.

I'm the same way. Don't get me wrong, I love orgasms and when I cum, I cum really hard, but my greatest pleasure in sex is to give my partner pleasure. It makes me crazy horny to see him enjoying himself and losing control because he wants me so bad.

These.

To know that another person is experiencing the ultimate pleasure because of me and my actions is a simply wonderful feeling -

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I have searched threads and been unable to find exactly what I want to talk about, so I thought I'd jump in and ask if this is a minority fetish. I truly love to please~whether my lover is a man or a woman or both~pleasing makes me wet. I love to be on my knees giving oral sex~the feel of someone's hands twisted in my hair~clutching my head and holding me still while they reach climax.... Absolutely divine!! I get so excited thinking about it that most times I have to arrange a meeting with a dear FWB to satisfy ( at least temporarily ) my wanton desires. I live in the U.P. and find myself quite alone in my sexual needs here~maybe someone here will see this!! ( Fingers crossed!! ) Even if they don't, I am hoping to find stimulating conversation here to hold me over!! So far Lit has NOT been a disappointment!!

I like your position on giving pleasure. I as a man find my greatest pleasure is in giving pleasure or being the object of pleasure to my partner. Thanks for the thread..

 

[MaddysSecret]

People, guys particularly, often ask me what my favorite sex acts are. It's hard because the act of giving pleasure gives me intense pleasure, no matter what the specific act is. I am highly multi-orgasmic, so I cum a lot and cum hard, but somewhere in it all the knowledge that I am giving my partner or partners pleasure is making it even hotter for me.

 

[shaved7]

My wife loves giving pleasure to a guy or guys, and very often cums just by having cock in her mouth. Its a turn on for her to be used purely for pleasure.

 

[southern_gal]

Honestly I love an O as much as the next person but are there times when he cums and I don't? Sure. I would rather have him cum inside of me than anything. If he's too tired after his trip home or whatever but I know that he really wants sex I will worry about him and not about me. Plus for some reason I simply get more out of taking care of him than worrying about my own orgasm. Nothing feels as good as seeing him satisfied and knowing it's because of me.

 

[Ramone45]

As a young woman, my wife was very much this way, and still is, to an extent. Her attitude was that it was her obligation as a female to give pleasure to men, and she reveled in that obligation. She was enthusiastic about giving blowjobs. She said her ability as a woman to give the ultimate pleasure to a man was the greatest turn on for her. She told me about a man who approached her at a bus stop and told her he "needed" a woman. That's all he had to say. She let him take her to a secluded area where she lifted her skirt and fucked him. She had a polyamorous relation ship with a boy. One girl was his "mother", who took care of him and loved him in "that" way. She was his "lover" and took care of his sexual needs. Her parents brought her up to feel worthless. Giving pleasure to many men gave her a sense of worth and they made her feel appreciated. She is proud of the fact that she always fucked or gave head on the first date.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I enjoy eating pussy and sucking tits more than anything else.

It has been many years since I was with a woman who wanted me to lay back and let her service me sexually. Ironically, this can be hard to enjoy for me. The woman has to be active, skilled and she must enjoy her "work". I have little interest in a woman who just lays there, even if she is offering to let me do whatever I want to her (or with her). I need her to show some life. Better yet, I want her to be energetic, creative, dirty, nasty, and interactive. Then I can lay back and enjoy her giving me pleasure.