Would you be a bicurious mans first lover?

I have been and have no doubt I will be again. I’ve found since starting my transition and coming out I’ve been getting more attention from bi curious guys who seem to see sex with a trans/cd/tv as a stepping stone to full mm sex. Almost like they’ll try a shemale and if they like it they’ll try a full mm experience
 
I have been and have no doubt I will be again. I’ve found since starting my transition and coming out I’ve been getting more attention from bi curious guys who seem to see sex with a trans/cd/tv as a stepping stone to full mm sex. Almost like they’ll try a shemale and if they like it they’ll try a full mm experience
I am a very horny very old kilt wearing Celt who is getting more and more bi curious but running out of time lol..........opportunities are also limited now that my wife and I are retired.......soaking and stroking in the tub now and drooling
 
Nervous until you actually have it in your mouth. Then you’ll realize how natural and comfortable it is. Millions have done it. I even know sone women who have done it.
Very true. I was very nervous until I actually started sucking a cock. Then I thought, this is quite normal. It's a sex organ that happens to belong to a man, not a woman. Now, I simply regard cocks and cunts as two extremely enjoyable aspects of sex. No big deal.
 
If you enjoy it, take your time. Worship it, look up at him, just do what comes naturally, don’t rush it.
I did enjoy it and I did worship it (it was a beautiful cock) and I wanted to keep on sucking it, he's the one that wanted to quit. I think his conscience started to bother him when he started to sober up when we were doing 69.
 
There are so many of us who want to experiment. We know we want it and we read about it here all the time, but actually being able to make that connection is a safe and healthy way is a major challenge for most of us. Finding the right person who is sane, nurturing, fun, and healthy and being able to arrange something clandestine is beyond what most of us can achieve. Places like this forum are great, but finding someone close enough to meet with is still a huge challenge. I live near Toronto in Canada and there is a large LGBTQ community here, but making contact with the right person in the right situation is like finding a needle in a haystack.

I will keep looking and maybe, with luck, I will find the right person or people to continue my bi-sexual journey with.
 
You could use a condom when sucking, but its not the same. Flesh to flesh is much better, but you really have to trust your partner.
 
The biggest thing for me is worrying about catching something. I dont have a type, i dont care about size, i dont care if a guy is shaved or has a bush, whatever. All cocks turn me on. I would literally suck any guy i knew was 100% clean, but unfortunately the reality is that theres no way to know that and its a big issue. After that, then the ability to be discrete is also important and you get a lot of gay, openly bi, unattached guys who dont get or dont care about how discrete a married cocksucker needs to be. Its definitely a challenge.
You’re so right. I’m a virgin so terrified of catching something. But so hungry. Discretion is paramount
 
If we lived close together, we would be a good match. I know I am clean and if you are a virgin, then I imagine you are too. I need to meet more people who live in Toronto :-(
 
I have been and have no doubt I will be again. I’ve found since starting my transition and coming out I’ve been getting more attention from bi curious guys who seem to see sex with a trans/cd/tv as a stepping stone to full mm sex. Almost like they’ll try a shemale and if they like it they’ll try a full mm experience
Is that typical, do you think? I am curious because I am a bottom for my transgender girlfriend and I love servicing her but I never want sex with a man. A woman like her is perfection.
 
I'm not super experienced, but if anyone needs a helping hand (or mouth) then sign me up!
 
In hindsight now, there were many missed connections from gay and bicurious straight men interested in me due to the lack of grey matter between my ears. That plus I really wasn't sure how to hit on a man myself. Finally I was with an old married buddy, he was very experienced from earlier days, he too recounted once trying to see if I was interested. Damn. We had a wide ranging conversation about sex during a round of golf, he was still interested and more than willing. Later that day he fucked me from behind, it was an omg finally moment, I couldn't believe he was deep in me. I think having the friendship made it easier and more fulfilling for me to "just do it" and he did me several more times. Distance makes it not like to happen again but I think if I knew a newbie or bicurious guy, I'd be willing.
 
I’m in the position of being curious and having had many advances (some blatant others subtle) I wonder what it would be like.

How many chances have I missed or looked over for whatever reason and how’s the best way to go about it now?

I feel an urge to bottom, oral and suck to see how I feel about it.
There's got to be that first time.
That first cock in your mouth. The first sucking.
That first pulse of cum on your tongue.
It has to happen at some point.
So why wait? Why delay the inevitable?
Follow your impulses. Enjoy.
 
Part of me wonders how to follow urges if that makes any sense. Use an app or just go for it regardless of context and see what comes of it…pun intended.
You're too busy overthinking...
The cock has no conscience..
 
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