Would you be a bicurious mans first lover?

[tristantrotsky]

That is true. But based on that I should be thinking with my mouth and/or ass instead of my head?

In my experience, most men do that anyway...

 

[wallio]

For all you experienced gay and bi men, would you introduce a bicurious man (someone like, say, ... me) to mm sex? Thoughts and stories, pros and cons are encouraged.

absolutely would

 

[BrokenQuill]

As a bi curious male, I find it impossible to find someone to be my first cock to suck, being 70 and married might have something to do with it!

Unfortunately youre a bit too far away from me. Otherwise I would happly volunteer!

In all seriousness though, I agree that it can be tricky to find a willing guy to meet up with. There are various dating apps that can provide you with a certain level of opportunity (assuming that you get a response), but when all's said and one its down to you being available at the same time.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I certainly would, because I remember what it was like before I sucked my first cock and how much I wanted it to happen.

 

[Tony195756]

For all you experienced gay and bi men, would you introduce a bicurious man (someone like, say, ... me) to mm sex? Thoughts and stories, pros and cons are encouraged.

Yes

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Hoping to take the first step soon very curious

 

[AlexBailey]

I’d love to be a bi-curious’s first.

I’ve only had a bit of guy on guy experience but as long as he’s into kissing we’re going to have some fun.
I’d end up in his lap, tongue wrestling and frotting away until he’s begging for more.

 

[easyoff]

It would be my pleasure

 

[caymancts]

it is so natural and very comfortable. set your nervousness aside.
just do it

 

[caymancts]

There's got to be that first time.
That first cock in your mouth. The first sucking.
That first pulse of cum on your tongue.
It has to happen at some point.
So why wait? Why delay the inevitable?
Follow your impulses. Enjoy.

once you get started.......

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

For all you experienced gay and bi men, would you introduce a bicurious man (someone like, say, ... me) to mm sex? Thoughts and stories, pros and cons are encouraged.

I would think it a honor to be your first lover

 

[Travler99921]

I would love to be a married guy's first. However, I would want it to be in a situation where we could take our time, he could relax, and there was no chance of being discovered.

 

[quix581]

Unfortunately youre a bit too far away from me. Otherwise I would happly volunteer!

In all seriousness though, I agree that it can be tricky to find a willing guy to meet up with. There are various dating apps that can provide you with a certain level of opportunity (assuming that you get a response), but when all's said and one its down to you being available at the same time.

I wonder what apps you’d recommend in the UK

 

[BrokenQuill]

I wonder what apps you’d recommend in the UK

I have had some success with Grindr. However there are a great may fakes that you have to weed out. in addition the location data used to pinpoint your contacts locations also means that you are easily found. If youre looking to be stealthy, then I would proceed with caution!

 

[quix581]

I have had some success with Grindr. However there are a great may fakes that you have to weed out. in addition the location data used to pinpoint your contacts locations also means that you are easily found. If youre looking to be stealthy, then I would proceed with caution!

Thanks for the tip. I like older guys so I have used Caffmos in the past but I have struggled to make the leap from casual anonymous encounters to something more like a relationship. I have hoped to find someone who is willing to take things slowly and who wants friendship too but that’s not what people use the apps for. Tricky!

 

[BrokenQuill]

Thanks for the tip. I like older guys so I have used Caffmos in the past but I have struggled to make the leap from casual anonymous encounters to something more like a relationship. I have hoped to find someone who is willing to take things slowly and who wants friendship too but that’s not what people use the apps for. Tricky!

The leap is indeed the tricky bit. You mentioned your preference for older guys, have you tried SilverDaddies?

 

[quix581]

The leap is indeed the tricky bit. You mentioned your preference for older guys, have you tried SilverDaddies?

I haven’t tried that website. I’ll take a look. Thanks for the tip. There’s also the issue that something funny happens when fantasies meet reality

 

[tristantrotsky]

I haven’t tried that website. I’ll take a look. Thanks for the tip. There’s also the issue that something funny happens when fantasies meet reality

But there's a reassuring familiarity about having a regular sex partner, a situation which dispenses with all that shy nervous uncertainty, you both know your roles and what you expect of each other, you know the taste and contours of his cock and exactly what it feels like when he cums in your mouth...

 

[saintcero]

I haven’t tried that website. I’ll take a look. Thanks for the tip. There’s also the issue that something funny happens when fantasies meet reality

Silverdaddies lead me to my only two M2M connections. The first was a one time oral and the second person was a 4 time connection for sex with other meetings for beers and chat. It is only $5 per.month for full membership a d that includes some good search features.

 

[quix581]

But there's a reassuring familiarity about having a regular sex partner, a situation which dispenses with all that shy nervous uncertainty, you both know your roles and what you expect of each other, you know the taste and contours of his cock and exactly what it feels like when he cums in your mouth...

That does sound lovely but how do I get there from where I am now

 

[tristantrotsky]

That does sound lovely but how do I get there from where I am now

There always has to be a first time. Finding the courage to make the first move.
You've begun in a very positive way by seeking help and advice here.
Who knows where that will lead...? If you want it enough, it will happen.

 

[saintcero]

That does sound lovely but how do I get there from where I am now

Slowly, very slowly. You chat in an app like Silverdaddies for an extended time. If the chats are comfortable and not just about hooking up, you meet for a beer or coffee or maybe lunch. Then if that goes ok you take the big step of meeting with the intention of playing together.

 

[BrokenQuill]

That does sound lovely but how do I get there from where I am now

The advantage of using a dating app or website gives you a starter for ten insofar as you are being upfront with what you are seeking, however like any dating, you need to meet a few possible matches either virtually, or in-person before you find one that clicks.

The disadvantage of online dating is that there are so many fake profiles, in addition those that seem keen and bail out are a frriustration too. Its unfortunately going to be a trial and error situation.

There may be an opportunituy to meet others in a more traditional way (like in a pub or cafee) by looking for local bisexual networks. I vagely remember visiging a group in london several years ago. Whether they are still going since the pandemic is not know, but you may have some luck there.

 

[saintcero]

Slowly, very slowly. You chat in an app like Silverdaddies for an extended time. If the chats are comfortable and not just about hooking up, you meet for a beer or coffee or maybe lunch. Then if that goes ok you take the big step of meeting with the intention of playing together.

You might also look at FetLife. That app includes a section for local.groups and for events. The events can range from vanilla happy hour to scare you straight kinky.

 

[quix581]

Thank you for all your help and suggestions! That’s really helpful. I have looked at something like Fetlife in the past but it was hard to find anyone. I also tried uk swingers too