Would you consider yourself submissive?

[just4friends]

Anytime she wears her feeldoe

 

[trevorness]

When I was a teenager, riding my bike I passed a strong looking older man. He was wearing jeans and tall laced boots with a black t-shirt. Something about him seemed so sexy to me and imagined him telling me what to do. I guess that is when I noticed my sub side, and a clearer idea of my bi side too.

 

[MaryanneB]

It depends on the day...
Is that weird?

 

[maJESStic]

In a short answer yes.

In a longer answer, by acting submissive I feel like I'm more in control. Guys more often than not prefer submissive girls. So I give them what they want, control how they get it and honestly I feel like I can control what they think they want.

Guys are easy to please lol.

Women tho... yes I'm submissive to other women. Its alot harder to manipulate a woman lol.

 

[psiberzerker]

In a longer answer, by acting submissive I feel like I'm more in control.

This is a "Paradox" a lot of people who've never bottomed, or submitted never seem to get:

It's the Sub's fantasy. The Sub gets the Safe Word so all action stops, or you're doing it wrong. (If you don't stop, it becomes Rape.) The "Master" has to stay in control, do basically everything, and if the scene goes south, it's his responsibility, not the sub's, or he's doing it wrong.

Unfortunately, there's a lot of "I'm not a rapist" masters that can't control themselves, which is why we need Munches. Because they heard about this BDSM thing, to live out their violent fantasies, and never bother to learn the Sub's fantasy. Nor do they care.

Which isn't to say "All men." Just enough men, that the risk often outweighs the reward. Not for girls like JESS here, she just knows how to get what she wants, but Subs. Publicaly open honest subs ISO a mate to live out their fantasies with run the risk of being raped every time they meet a new guy alone. Which is why we have Munches, so the community can protect them, just in case this one is a rapist claiming to be a "Master."

 

[CFMB_fan]

It depends on the day...
Is that weird?

Nope

Som edays Iwant to take control of my wife tell her what to do, how to pleasure me

Other day Iwant to be restrained and used for pleasure, not to have to amke any sexual decisions, as I tend to make mos tof them.

Sadly my wife isnt that assertive.

 

[Drinkmein]

sexually yes. any other time, no.

 

[newhere2learn]

sexually yes. any other time, no.

Same here, IRL totally in control


In bed, opportunity to release

 

[grannykat]

When I feel the slightest bit of arousal, I turn to mush. Now that I have been a widow for quite some time I know that when a gentleman acquaintance shows up at my door he isn't just going to say hello how are you.

 

[stephanieb1196]

I would. I love a man to take control of me, use me. i prefer he know what he wants, and ill do anything to make him happy and make him cum hard

 

[eruditeaphrodite]

I never really thought about it that way ... maybe but not really?

 

[eruditeaphrodite]

but I do like to wear blindfolds, so ... yes?

 

[Oblimo]

I think I am a “top from the bottom” kinda person.

 

[switchersm]

I am submissive in Sex and erotic and I have the luck, that my second wife is open to my secret wishes. So today I wear cock cages 24/7, she is my keyholder and allows me only six orgasmns this year. I have to give her oral service nearly every day. And she spanks me every saturday, sometimes in front of her female friends.
And yes, I love it sooo much.

 

[The_GloriousBitch]

Yes I do.
I like to being dominated in bed.

 

[emmaplay00]

absolutely, prefer to be dominated in bed

 

[Jenny17]

absolutely, prefer to be dominated in bed

Agreed.
But also in chair, while being on my knees or bend over the table...

 

[CuriousGuy62]

The first time my wife pegged me! Mmm!

how did you raise the topic with your wife?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Agreed.
But also in chair, while being on my knees or bend over the table...

Cum to daddy!!!

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

No...

 

[LWulf]

No, but some would think of being polite as subservient, and therefore submissive.

 

[kingkoll04]

i for one like submissive women

 

[SluttyDanica]

Definitely submissive to older men

 

[Rockymtnman]

Definitely submissive to older men

While I don’t go out of my way to be dominant in the way it’s meant here, I have definitely been in that role more often over the past 7-10 years. It’s one I quite enjoy but only for a while.

 

[FantasySharer1]

When I realized I want my wife to cuckold me with her brother as a real, "I actually want this" fantasy. The idea alone is enough to get me hard at any time, and post-nut clarity does nothing to stave off the fantasy and real, deep, desire that I would become a willing sub to the two of them. I want to wake up her every morning to his cum dripping from her pussy into my mouth, and go to sleep after taking their sloppy seconds and letting go inside her to mix my cum with his.