Would you consider yourself submissive?

[traill]

I've always felt quite submissive in a sexual content (not otherwise). It feels natural to be and I only feel completely myself if I can be very very submissive. Being submissive for someone gives me more of a release than an orgasm by far. I can play pretty harshly and not be allowed to cum or even be touched at all and still get a feeling of release from that. When I'm with the right person to give myself to, then there's really nothing else I would prefer to do. Submission is incredibly important to me.

 

[Gerilynn69]

I have always felt submissive. Having a relationship with a dominant partner opened my world up.

 

[Older_Pervert]

Definitely submissive to older men

Good girl, that’s the way to go!

 

[TnA4U]

Absolutely. IRL I'm always in control and recognized for my intelligence more than my physical presence. In the bedroom I want to be seen as a sexual being. So, since I don't usually feel comfortable just giving up control, I love playing with a partner who sees me as a sexual being and is dominant enough to TAKE what he wants.

And if he wants to share me, all the better!

 

[artconsim]

I just had a nearly 2 hour edging session with a person I met here. Amazing. I've never done anything like this before. Miss made me edge all week then walked me through via some harsh discipline how to speak, when to speak, what to ask for .
It was an amazing experience. I also enjoyed writing up my edging to Miss and sharing the details. I hope she finds me worthy of my admiration and I get to do it again very soon.

 

[Subsy]

Most of us are more complex than to be just one thing. Recently I have enthusiasm for being directed to perform for a dominant couple, female or male….giving oral and getting fucked are always mypreference.

 

[joefelton]

My wife and I are into ball busting. I love it! She does it because she loves me. Does that count as submissive?

 

[Escierto]

My transgender girlfriend comes to bed after I am asleep and pulls my underwear off enough to get her cock in my ass. Sometimes she wakes me up and tells me to suck her off. Yeah, I think I am submissive

 

[masterslave00]

When much younger one-night stand spanked me and then pegged to an anal orgasm.

 

[Filipinawife]

I tend to be submissive. I like my lover to lead.

 

[sandybrooke]

After the wife and I started playing with bondage. She LOVES being bound and teased. I was like "do me, do me" Wow, it's different on the receiving side. I think she's done this before! Hmmm

 

[Bbl87]

After the wife and I started playing with bondage. She LOVES being bound and teased. I was like "do me, do me" Wow, it's different on the receiving side. I think she's done this before! Hmmm

I'm jealous! We do a decent bit of bondage play, but I'm always on the Dom side. I wouldn't mind experiencing it from the sub side, just for the experience. But, she's pretty solidly a sub when it comes to bondage so I don't push it.

 

[sandybrooke]

I'm jealous! We do a decent bit of bondage play, but I'm always on the Dom side. I wouldn't mind experiencing it from the sub side, just for the experience. But, she's pretty solidly a sub when it comes to bondage so I don't push it.

I was pleasantly surprised!! She had a bag of tricks I was unaware of!!

 

[Bbl87]

I was pleasantly surprised!! She had a bag of tricks I was unaware of!!

I imagine! For my wife, I think she's so in control in her professional life, it's an escape for her, so I don't want to take that away. We have LOTS of restraints to work with so we can get very creative.

 

[sandybrooke]

Well, she produced a leather paddle, long white leather gloves and a strapon! I'm like " where'd this stuff come from"??

 

[Ingenue844]

I am definitely a sub

 

[Erosfan]

I am in control in my work life. I like to be submissive in my sexual life. I told my wife all of my fantasies because she wanted to know. I told her I was hers to do with as she wished, any time anywhere. She did her best to make many of my fantasies come true. I am into exhibitionism and CFNM and she played to that end. We had some amazing experiences.
She passed in 2021. I miss her terribly.

 

[richgo50]

I am in control in my work life. I like to be submissive in my sexual life. I told my wife all of my fantasies because she wanted to know. I told her I was hers to do with as she wished, any time anywhere. She did her best to make many of my fantasies come true. I am into exhibitionism and CFNM and she played to that end. We had some amazing experiences.
She passed in 2021. I miss her terribly.

So sorry for loss. Sounds like she was a great wife.

 

[Erosfan]

So sorry for loss. Sounds like she was a great wife.

Thank you for the kind words. She was amazing.

 

[sterculius]

I realized I was submissive when as a teenager, I enjoyed letting my best friend Larry dominate me and "use"me sexually. Our frequent jerk off sessions quickly morphed into me always blowing him with no reciprocation from him. I didn't mind because it was obvious to us both that I liked being cast in the role of "The Cocksucker". Whenever he would dream up scenarios where he could humiliate and embarass me, I would assist him by making suggestions about how he could ridicule and demean me. Although he was younger and physically smaller than me, his cock was MUCH bigger than mine was, making him my sexual superior and through him, I came to identify and embrace the persona of being sexually subordinate to other men. I've been an avid and insatiable cocksucker ever since.

 

[chris313163]

When did you first realize you enjoyed being submissive?

For me, it was when a CD stood next to me in a public bathroom. Looking at him dressed in leather and boots, looking like a dominant woman, seeing his cock, then allowing him to take me into a private stall where he used my mouth for his pleasure. I think that is when I knew I was submissive. When I see a woman in boots, I want them to take the lead sexually. I've enjoyed the times when I had a cuckold experience.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Yes, with my wife and it happened over time.

 

[Lady2020]

No. Although I could be for a man who knows what he's doing.

 

[Older_Pervert]

Absolutely. IRL I'm always in control and recognized for my intelligence more than my physical presence. In the bedroom I want to be seen as a sexual being. So, since I don't usually feel comfortable just giving up control, I love playing with a partner who sees me as a sexual being and is dominant enough to TAKE what he wants.

And if he wants to share me, all the better!

Mmmmm you sound like my kind of woman

 

[PWB36DDD]

I knew I was submissive the first time I had sex.