Would you ... (Q for the gus)

[MALIBUMAN666]

Okay, I voted before I read the first post....

I voted yes, but thinking about it, there's never going to be a NO-RISK way is there. There was a guy on TV the other day who (despite his wife's protestations) had enhancement surgery and now he can't even get it up. Poor bastard. So, on reflection no.

Having said that....

In truth I would like a bigger cock. Maybe 7" or something like that. Which is only maybe 1" more than it is now. And maybe a little thicker (although it's a reasonable thickness anyway).

I'd take 'harder' over 'bigger' personally.

 

[Feral_Intelligence]

I'll second hardness over an extra inch. More useful and easier to get.

 

[MALIBUMAN666]

Feral intelligence, care to share that info?

 

[fenghuang]

... I would like my cock to be bigger while flaccid ...

An intersting point about self esteme. One with which I concur.

 

[Feral_Intelligence]

Feral intelligence, care to share that info?

Well, it is my understanding that all you need for more harness is better blood flow. That can be accomplished with some exercise and taking the right vitamins. Also, it is my understanding that if you need, viagra can fix that issue.

 

[Landon_1980]

All in all, I am pretty happy with my cock size. I think most women would be pleased with it. However, I would not be opposed to adding another inch or two. This has less to do with wanting to be able to please a woman sexually as having something good to look at.

The tough part is what do I get vs what I give up. I think a little more length would help with one or two maneuvers. However, it would make it would make it harder for a woman to deep throat me, take anal, and could even cause pain for her. I'm not sure the pro plus the visual incentive would be worth the risk of the cons.

More than anything, I would like my cock to be bigger while flaccid. It might be that it just looks small to me (I've heard every guy's dick looks small to him). I think that it gives a poor visual while soft as opposed to when it is hard.

Thats the shower versus grower question. I have found that many women are pleased just fine with shallow penetration, as long as you can rub the head against the g-spot. I guess you just have know how to work what you have.......

 

[fgarvb1]

Tough call.

While looks might be improved by being bigger, 99% of the time I'm just fine for the woman involved and am able to enjoy Anal sex without damaging her.

If it's not broke...

 

[openmindedr]

*sends a wolf whistle in Ed's direction* Now that's sexy!

She's right feeling inadequate is a big turn off.

 

[curiousgeo62]

I am only 5" and average girth. I have only had 5 women in my lifetime. None of those women ever complained and our relationships never ended because of the length of my penis. I think my size actually helped me be a better lover. I always knew I was on the smaller/average size, so I always paid more attention to my partners reactions to what I was doing to/with her. I learned how to use my tongue; my hands and my mind at a young age. I even introduced a few partners to dildos and vibrators. If your penis is all you're using, I don't care what size it is, your partner is missing out. I have had a great sex life and feel quite confident that it will continue. I think if I was bigger, I would have just stuck it in and pounded away. Either way, I'll keep mine just the way it is, thank you.

 

[Feral_Intelligence]

I am only 5" and average girth. I have only had 5 women in my lifetime. None of those women ever complained and our relationships never ended because of the length of my penis. I think my size actually helped me be a better lover. I always knew I was on the smaller/average size, so I always paid more attention to my partners reactions to what I was doing to/with her. I learned how to use my tongue; my hands and my mind at a young age. I even introduced a few partners to dildos and vibrators. If your penis is all you're using, I don't care what size it is, your partner is missing out. I have had a great sex life and feel quite confident that it will continue. I think if I was bigger, I would have just stuck it in and pounded away. Either way, I'll keep mine just the way it is, thank you.

That is an excellent point. I learned a lot about pleasing a woman through other means because I knew that average or not, my cock was not going to be the best tool for giving orgasms. Sometimes I enjoyed using a dildo on my ex more than my cock because I felt like I had more creative options. The upside to using my cock was my pleasure and the intimacy.

 

[fenghuang]

She's right feeling inadequate is a big turn off.

So, if you feel inadiquate, and having a bigger cock would make you feel more confident, you could become a better lover because you had it enlarged. Inderectly, rather than directly.

 

[kelli_qcd]

There are countless threads asking how to get a bigger cock. And countless responses saying size doesn't matter. And I really really really don't want to start that debate here. But still so many men ask the question. So ...

Guys, if there was a way of getting a bigger cock, with no danger of things going wrong, and it didn't cost a fortune, it was permanent, and even if your partner said they loved your cock exactly how it is, would you do it?

Fuck Yes.. my Wife LOVES a big cock.. says it makes her Orgasms even better with Her lovers that have bigger cocks then mine... She says the smaller guys are fun but She doesn't CUM as hard with them as She does with Her BIG COCKED lovers..

 

[Que]

Back when I was a one woman man, It seemed just about right size for the job only a couple of positions that I have to be careful that it would cause discomfort bumping up against your cervix.

I always thought that average was around 6 or 7 inches... Apparently it's more like five and a half. In my fairly limited experience now that I'm free to play... It seems that at least most fairly small girls are designed for about that size so anything bigger than what I have I think would probably not be optimal.

I'll vote when you read the couples adds weather looking for a third wheel I suppose another 2 to 6 more would probably be good... Because everyone knows you can't have porn star sex unless you have well over 12 inches!

 

[jehoram]

In truth I would like a bigger cock. Maybe 7" or something like that. Which is only maybe 1" more than it is now. And maybe a little thicker (although it's a reasonable thickness anyway).

That's where I'm at. I'm at 1-1/2" hard, and wouldn't mind another quarter inch or so. My lovers haven't complained, but I'm thinking that it might give them a little more sensation down there.

But there's no such thing as "one size fits all." There are as many differences in vagina size as cock size (although the vagina is far more variable in its ability to accommodate various cock size). If the partners are honest with each other about what they want from each other, it's all good.

 

[MeekMe]

I don't have a penis and I don't want it bigger. I just couldn't help but comment.

I watched an episode of Taboo (I think that's the show). Anyway, it featured the man with the world record for biggest cock. He's a pretty average guy and his cock is massive. He's sad that he can't find someone to stay with him. Lots of women want to have sex with him just so they can find out what it's like. After that, they realize it wasn't a fun ride like they thought and they move on.

As for myself, I'm small so big cock doesn't work with me. If it's too big you'll just be stabbing her in the vagina and it might feel great for you, but she wont be singing your praises. Granted though, one size fits all doesn't work, there may be woman out there that actually can take huge dong.

A friend of mine asked me after her first time with her boyfriend, "is it suppose to hurt that much?" She wasn't a virgin, he was just really big. She became accustomed to it after a few times. Though, she was apprehensive about having sex with him because she was afraid it would keep hurting.

^_^ I suppose you should be careful what you wish for. Bigger isn't always better. Sorry I rambled.

 

[pplwatching]

Must be the season of the zombies ...

 

[NightL]

Must be the season of the zombies ...

disturbing cock avatars asking juvenile questions about cock

 

[NightL]

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Back when I was a one woman man, It seemed just about right size for the job only a couple of positions that I have to be careful that it would cause discomfort bumping up against your cervix.

I always thought that average was around 6 or 7 inches... Apparently it's more like five and a half. In my fairly limited experience now that I'm free to play... It seems that at least most fairly small girls are designed for about that size so anything bigger than what I have I think would probably not be optimal.

I'll vote when you read the couples adds weather looking for a third wheel I suppose another 2 to 6 more would probably be good... Because everyone knows you can't have porn star sex unless you have well over 12 inches!

True. If monster cox were all that and more the average would be much longer.

Mother Nature doesn't like bulls in china shops doing damage.

The other thing is, if youre twitterpated with your honey do you give a shit about their tits or pricks?