young guys who have a thing for older men

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Is it weird that I just want to be on all 4s for older men everyday of my life... I’d honestly love that


Jade, no it's not weird you desire an older or mature man, a Daddy. Personally I believe it's perfect. I's my experience both as the older guy now, and as the younger male in my past that being "mentored" by a Daddy is amazing......mature males are typically more patient and less distracted by any competitive issues, more accepting of life's hurdles....and have a longer history of being really naughty.......:devil:
 
Jade, no it's not weird you desire an older or mature man, a Daddy. Personally I believe it's perfect. I's my experience both as the older guy now, and as the younger male in my past that being "mentored" by a Daddy is amazing......mature males are typically more patient and less distracted by any competitive issues, more accepting of life's hurdles....and have a longer history of being really naughty.......:devil:

At age 63 my purity is known to all (looking around the corner for several regulars who may MAKE UP STORIES that refute this), and my interest in educating young men is, of course, just educational.
 
I’m an older guy who is fortunate enough to enjoy the company of a few younger men. I now prefer them to women.
 
I’m an older guy who is fortunate enough to enjoy the company of a few younger men. I now prefer them to women.

If I'm honest with myself, I would agree with you Matt. I'm an older guy too. I've been married twice (still am) and have been down that road so to speak regarding male/female sexual issues in relationships. I find it refreshing that younger (18+) males are typically always horny and willing. As males we share many of the same gender issues, regardless of the age difference.....yeah I prefer them too......:)
 
I guess I'm neither young or old, but right in the middle. But I have an older neighbor who works in the yard wearing only cut-off jeans and I have jerked off more than once with thoughts of him dancing in my head. He's always eager to help me and sometimes I get a vibe from him...but too risky to say anything to him for fear he'd flip out. But then, there's another neighbor who is either late teens or early twenties who is thin and cute with long hair that I also have spent time "thinking about". Can I be middle aged who has a thing for both older and younger!
 
All the guys I ever dated and slept with were older. I guess I was attracted to their experience in bed
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I guess I'm neither young or old, but right in the middle. But I have an older neighbor who works in the yard wearing only cut-off jeans and I have jerked off more than once with thoughts of him dancing in my head. He's always eager to help me and sometimes I get a vibe from him...but too risky to say anything to him for fear he'd flip out. But then, there's another neighbor who is either late teens or early twenties who is thin and cute with long hair that I also have spent time "thinking about". Can I be middle aged who has a thing for both older and younger!

Of course you can ... regardless of the genders of the people involved,
everyone has his or her own personal fantasies of who (s)he wants to
get into bed with. You might try flirting with the young guy to see if there
is any kind of reaction, or ask him if he has a girl friend. If he says yes,
he is prob not gonna go for you. If he says no, then you can take it from
there ... a hot guy like you and no girl friend? etc. As for the older guy,
invite him offer for coffee or a beer and talk to him ... is he married,
does he have a gf, how is it going with her, is he satisfied ... by hearing
his responses you will know where to go with yours. Let us know what
happens. Inquiring minds want to know (Sam)
 
I guess I'm neither young or old, but right in the middle. But I have an older neighbor who works in the yard wearing only cut-off jeans and I have jerked off more than once with thoughts of him dancing in my head. He's always eager to help me and sometimes I get a vibe from him...but too risky to say anything to him for fear he'd flip out. But then, there's another neighbor who is either late teens or early twenties who is thin and cute with long hair that I also have spent time "thinking about". Can I be middle aged who has a thing for both older and younger!

Of course you can ... regardless of the genders of the people involved,
everyone has his or her own personal fantasies of who (s)he wants to
get into bed with. You might try flirting with the young guy to see if there
is any kind of reaction, or ask him if he has a girl friend. If he says yes,
he is prob not gonna go for you. If he says no, then you can take it from
there ... a hot guy like you and no girl friend? etc. As for the older guy,
invite him offer for coffee or a beer and talk to him ... is he married,
does he have a gf, how is it going with her, is he satisfied ... by hearing
his responses you will know where to go with yours. Let us know what
happens. Inquiring minds want to know (Sam)

I second this, yes you can be attracted to both younger and older. When I was growing up and over 18, still living at home there were older guys living near me who I new were looking to sneak some time with a young guy. A few of the guys had reputations, you know, mom warned you about them...yeah, I was sure to tease them in short shorts and no shirt....and now as an older guy I see younger males looking for a mature guy. I think that might be more obviously prevalent now than when I was younger. Everything is more out in the open now, right?

I've met numerous younger guys in forest preserves, blatantly looking for sex with older males. I lived in a townhouse complex with a pool were some of them clearly were cruising for sex and sometimes left mature males....yeah you can lust for both...
 
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Of course you can ... regardless of the genders of the people involved,
everyone has his or her own personal fantasies of who (s)he wants to
get into bed with. You might try flirting with the young guy to see if there
is any kind of reaction, or ask him if he has a girl friend. If he says yes,
he is prob not gonna go for you. If he says no, then you can take it from
there ... a hot guy like you and no girl friend? etc. As for the older guy,
invite him offer for coffee or a beer and talk to him ... is he married,
does he have a gf, how is it going with her, is he satisfied ... by hearing
his responses you will know where to go with yours. Let us know what
happens. Inquiring minds want to know (Sam)

I second this, yes you can be attracted to both younger and older. When I was growing up and over 18, still living at home there were older guys living near me who I new were looking to sneak some time with a young guy. A few of the guys had reputations, you know, mom warned you about them...yeah, I was sure to tease them in short shorts and no shirt....and now as an older guy I see younger males looking for a mature guy. I think that might be more obviously prevalent now than when I was younger. Everything is more out in the open now, right?

I've met numerous younger guys in forest preserves, blatantly looking for sex with older males. I lived in a townhouse complex with a pool were some of them clearly were cruising for sex and sometimes left mature males....yeah you can lust for both...

Thanks for the encouragement guys. It's funny I never thought to actually try to feel them out, but it seemed that maybe being so close to home base might not be to wise. But the way you both described it, the approach should be very subtle and yet leave the door open for more. Great advice! I'll have to begin to plot my moves!

I'll need to bring it up to my wife and see what she thinks. I'm basically in a female led relationship that works very well for us. So whatever she says is the way it'll be. I'm pretty sure she would be interested in the older neighbor...maybe not so much the young one since he's more 'delicate'. Although she may surprise me; after all, I'm 'delicate' too - haha! As I wrote in the profile when I joined, I'm a fem-male. We've only been sexual together with one other guy so far. But she's okay with me finding playmates so long as I'm safe and sane about it. Likewise for her, she is free to play too.
 
Thanks for the encouragement guys. It's funny I never thought to actually try to feel them out, but it seemed that maybe being so close to home base might not be to wise. But the way you both described it, the approach should be very subtle and yet leave the door open for more. Great advice! I'll have to begin to plot my moves!

I'll need to bring it up to my wife and see what she thinks. I'm basically in a female led relationship that works very well for us. So whatever she says is the way it'll be. I'm pretty sure she would be interested in the older neighbor...maybe not so much the young one since he's more 'delicate'. Although she may surprise me; after all, I'm 'delicate' too - haha! As I wrote in the profile when I joined, I'm a fem-male. We've only been sexual together with one other guy so far. But she's okay with me finding playmates so long as I'm safe and sane about it. Likewise for her, she is free to play too.

You're very welcome. I personally love femme males. Would love to "see' more of you.....:rolleyes:

Personally I think femme males might have it easier picking up an older guy, or younger for that matter.....your persona might arouse him, them....Just kind of the vibe I feel.

When I was younger I was very submissive and flirty with older guys. I knew pretty quickly if he was interested. When I got older and married, I was no longer that submissive young guy, but my wife knew I loved cock and she would bring guys home, usually younger......she loved watching and then joining....
 
You're very welcome. I personally love femme males. Would love to "see' more of you.....:rolleyes:

Personally I think femme males might have it easier picking up an older guy, or younger for that matter.....your persona might arouse him, them....Just kind of the vibe I feel.

When I was younger I was very submissive and flirty with older guys. I knew pretty quickly if he was interested. When I got older and married, I was no longer that submissive young guy, but my wife knew I loved cock and she would bring guys home, usually younger......she loved watching and then joining....

I've been smaller and sort of feminine my whole life. But I was so dense when younger. Looking back I know several older men were "feeling me out" and "flirting". But stupid me didn't pick up on it. Of course, the times have changed in regard to the acceptability of being gay/bi/etc, most young guys now would be more aware than I was. But I wish I had realized what those older men were hinting at.

I'm actually more submissive now than when I was younger. I guess I've embraced my true nature , so to speak. My wife helped me a lot in that. It's good to hear that you're wife encouraged you too about being bi.

My opening up more fully actually came about due to her cheating on me with her boss. She had already introduced me to the joys of wearing fem clothes and that kind of sexy play between just us...but one day when I found cum in her panties I knew something was up. I didn't say anything at first because I thought it might just be her discharge mess. But since I do the laundry, I kept a close eye on her undies..and sure enough one day I found a big fresh glob and there was no mistaking the smell of that!!! To make a long story short; She told me it was her boss at work, so I went to his house to confront him, but he just humiliated me. Turned out that she had already told him some things about me being a submissive in panties, etc. Also, he's an older guy and a lawyer...so he wasn't the least intimidated by me. In fact, he asked if I wanted to see what my wife was enjoying...when I didn't answer he just unzipped and dropped his pants. He was semi-hard and smiling at me because he knew I was no threat to him. He asked if I wanted to suck it too...I was so ashamed I just turned and hurried away.

Sorry this is so long...just to try and end the story; When I got home we had a long talk. She reassured me that it was me that she loved but that she needed other things once in awhile...and she encouraged me to open up about some of the other things I needed. That's when our marriage really started becoming more solid and now we love being in a safe open relationship.

I bring all this up because it sounds like you had a very similar openness with your wife. I've realized what a rare a wonderful gift this is.
 
I've been smaller and sort of feminine my whole life. But I was so dense when younger. Looking back I know several older men were "feeling me out" and "flirting". But stupid me didn't pick up on it. Of course, the times have changed in regard to the acceptability of being gay/bi/etc, most young guys now would be more aware than I was. But I wish I had realized what those older men were hinting at.

I'm actually more submissive now than when I was younger. I guess I've embraced my true nature , so to speak. My wife helped me a lot in that. It's good to hear that you're wife encouraged you too about being bi.

My opening up more fully actually came about due to her cheating on me with her boss. She had already introduced me to the joys of wearing fem clothes and that kind of sexy play between just us...but one day when I found cum in her panties I knew something was up. I didn't say anything at first because I thought it might just be her discharge mess. But since I do the laundry, I kept a close eye on her undies..and sure enough one day I found a big fresh glob and there was no mistaking the smell of that!!! To make a long story short; She told me it was her boss at work, so I went to his house to confront him, but he just humiliated me. Turned out that she had already told him some things about me being a submissive in panties, etc. Also, he's an older guy and a lawyer...so he wasn't the least intimidated by me. In fact, he asked if I wanted to see what my wife was enjoying...when I didn't answer he just unzipped and dropped his pants. He was semi-hard and smiling at me because he knew I was no threat to him. He asked if I wanted to suck it too...I was so ashamed I just turned and hurried away.

Sorry this is so long...just to try and end the story; When I got home we had a long talk. She reassured me that it was me that she loved but that she needed other things once in awhile...and she encouraged me to open up about some of the other things I needed. That's when our marriage really started becoming more solid and now we love being in a safe open relationship.

I bring all this up because it sounds like you had a very similar openness with your wife. I've realized what a rare a wonderful gift this is.

Thank you for sharing, I have so many thoughts about your story. Yes my wife was very open minded regarding my needs. Maybe I was a bit selfish and didn't consider hers as equally. It wasn't intentional on my part....I just didn't. We divorced at some point. I did remarry a woman I love to death, but she's no where near as open minded as my first wife.

I've changed a lot in the last few years. I always loved women more....not sure that's the case anymore. I've had a few relationships with trans girls, which I feel is a true comfort zone for me....I also love younger smooth males....I can finally admit out loud I love cock, I always did, but admitting it was a struggle. I would love carrying on this conversation....maybe we should PM each other....
 
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Thank you for sharing, I have so many thoughts about your story. Yes my wife was very open minded regarding my needs. Maybe I was a bit selfish and didn't consider hers as equally. It wasn't intentional on my part....I just didn't. We divorced at some point. I did remarry t a woman I love to death, but she no where near as open minded as my first wife.

I've changed a lot in the last few years. I always loved women more....not sure that's the case anymore. I've had a few relationships with trans girls, which I feel is true comfort zone for me....I also love younger smooth males....I can finally admit out loud I love cock, I always did, but admitting it was a struggle. I would love carrying on this conversation....maybe we should Pm each other....

Yes, we do share a lot in common....PM's initiated ;) Nice to meet you!
 
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So curious on how this date went.

So this is actually the 2nd time weve hooked up. The first time he popped my cherry. This time was very hot too as we had talked about putting me in a bra and panties which he had. So we took the time to strip me down and dress me up in a cute matching bra and pantie set. Then he put me on my hands and knees while he fucked me until he came in my ass.

Good times.
 
Yum

So this is actually the 2nd time weve hooked up. The first time he popped my cherry. This time was very hot too as we had talked about putting me in a bra and panties which he had. So we took the time to strip me down and dress me up in a cute matching bra and pantie set. Then he put me on my hands and knees while he fucked me until he came in my ass.

Good times.

Yum......sounds amazing!
 
So this is actually the 2nd time weve hooked up. The first time he popped my cherry. This time was very hot too as we had talked about putting me in a bra and panties which he had. So we took the time to strip me down and dress me up in a cute matching bra and pantie set. Then he put me on my hands and knees while he fucked me until he came in my ass.

Good times.

do write a longer story TimeCrisis about this. fFrst times are special stories..to share! ;)
 
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