LilKitKat's thread

[LilKitKat]

Very well said!

Attraction of "falling" for someone is so very subjective. Personally I prefer a total package. That doesn't mean one must excel at everything (I certainly don't!) but a majority is good.

As you already know, I'm married (yes, yes I come here for a little extra so this may sound odd) and my wife is smart, sexy as hell, witty, caring (empathy is a huge deal!), great in bed, a very good cook, hard working, tenacious and principled. I could go on. You seem to embody many of these characteristics as well.

Some people are very attracted to these qualities and those who are self-conscious or feel less-than tend to dislike these qualities and accuse person having them as arrogant or fake. There is a HUGE difference between arrogance and confidence.

You clearly have "the good stuff" and it's the blend of it all that really matters.

yep...obviously if there is someone who seems reasonably smart, reasonably attractive, and is female...on a website thats primarily male/adult-oriented...and is willing to show her ass or whatever...must be fake. and must be doxxed.

but hopefully we are past that

glad you found your better half!! and I have enjoyed chatting with you!

i assume wife doesnt know about this site or any of the other women you may engage with or jerk off to etc..?

 

[ho_hum_drum]

the men *I* am interested in like the intelligence as well as the humor and personality...as well as the body that will keep you up at night!

Being intelligent can be a lonely affair but, I’m might be stupid and it has more to do with character and attitude.

 

[LilKitKat]

I like to think I am humble but also think I am the shit.
I am always surprised when anyone thinks I am hot, wants to get with me, says some super graphic things to me...but I also think...hey, my hair/ass/makeup/whatever looks hot AF today hell yeah...

 

[GallantWriter]

yep. guys that message me and just say "i want to lick your boobies" or "my thingie is hard for you"....just an immediate turn off

Totally get that. Never way to start anything meaningful.

 

[LilKitKat]

Totally get that. Never way to start anything meaningful.

def not. but also the language of someone who didnt make it past 5th grade

 

[GallantWriter]

def not. but also the language of someone who didnt make it past 5th grade

And we all know you're way better than that. I'm sure spending time with you would be intellectually stimulating, sexy, and a real delight.

 

[ho_hum_drum]

Being intelligent can be a lonely affair but, I’m might be stupid and it has more to do with character and attitude.

def not. but also the language of someone who didnt make it past 5th grade

Be kind…

 

[LilKitKat]

Be kind…

was not implying you ya know

 

[ho_hum_drum]

Be kind…

Says me, who was rarely so!
But, I hope I’m getting better?

 

[LilKitKat]

fyi, had some various requests sent to me...

me shaving my pussy
me wearing something like a kimono/looking esp Japanese
me in a bath
more of my ass
my pussy
being eaten out
giving a blowjob
dildo in my pussy and/or ass
any cosplay
boob teases/flashes
more casual selfies

and more...maybe, i forget sorry.

anyway, Ive heard ya, some Ill think about, some Ill do...thats all Ill say

 

[munch2much]

I played several instruments

Oh fun, what do you play?

I used to be in MENSA. But I think they must have got my test mixed up with someone else’s

 

[LilKitKat]

Oh fun, what do you play?

I used to be in MENSA. But I think they must have got my test mixed up with someone else’s

guitar and piano.

and skin flute lol

 

[hotcpu]

Big question there.
Do I think a man would "fall for me", if I consistently cooked and made him good meals? I dont know about that, but I know he would never complain about dinner or whatever.
Do I think sucking his soul out of his cock with an amazing blowjob, or riding him until he blew so much that his testicles receded up into his body would win him over? No, because there is that old story about seeing a hot girl and youll always find someone "tired of fucking her"...
Do I tihnk my personality or brains or any one skill or trait would win a person over?
Nope.

But I think I make a pretty good "package deal"...and I often have "issues" with people that either totally love me or loathe me.
Meaning, most of my friends and coworkers and old classmates and such either are like "she is the fucking shit..." or "I fucking hate that bitch".
So why do I think either?

For the love me part...its probably a combo of many things, and not to toot my own horn...but...I got basically perfect grades. I played several sports, instruments, can dance, cook, sing, draw...I am hopefully not too bad to look at, am hopefully sometimes funny and sweet and such...
And the hate me part is basically the same reasons. Some ppl are maybe jealous? But I am also loud and sometimes obnoxious. Stubborn. Prob overly sarcastic and smart-alecky. So that can turn some off. Also me possibly being smarter than them has turned some ppl off (I am in Mensa, graduated magna cum laude from UCLA...etc).

So I dont have many ppl that think "eeehhhh, shes ok"...its more...ride or die.

That said, ok sure...youll fall for me because Ill feed you the good stuff...whether thats from the fridge and oven...or between my legs! LOL!

Going through your posts ... I think you have described yourself perfectly. Total package especially with the Sports interests

 

[hotcpu]

guitar and piano.

and skin flute lol

How many years did you practice on playing that Woodwind

 

[ho_hum_drum]

was not implying you ya know

Please don’t misunderstand me.. I’m good . Just “off the top of my head” stuff.
You know, sometimes you say something and, when you think about it on reflection, you think, “oh, I hope that wasn’t taken the wrong way”. It’s the art of small talk conversation, I guess, something an introvert, like me, hasn’t had a lot of practice with. So, yeah, all good and…, your sexy!

 

[LilKitKat]

no worries, wasnt implying anyone in particular and not even on this site. But I have had plenty of messages that are rather "basic". And its ok if someone just wants to tell me "you are pretty" and nothing else. And its ok if they just say "i want to fuck you hard" and nothing else. But dont expect too much of an in depth reply because...whats can I possibly say other than "thanks" or whatever.
but in terms of the graphic ones...i meant it more as...being sapiosexual...i need someone intelligent and maybe talented to write sexually/erotically to me to ellicit a reaction that they want (ie hard nips for example)...because the ones with the language we all giggled at in 4-6th grade (my thingie, your boobies...etc) is not going to do it for me or likely anyone. including in person dirty talk...
so no one needs to write me and be clever or funny or ask me about something other than if I am naked and rubbing myself to oblivion...itll just get a better reaction usually if they do!

 

[J D Danger]

Big question there.
Do I think a man would "fall for me", if I consistently cooked and made him good meals? I dont know about that, but I know he would never complain about dinner or whatever.
Do I think sucking his soul out of his cock with an amazing blowjob, or riding him until he blew so much that his testicles receded up into his body would win him over? No, because there is that old story about seeing a hot girl and youll always find someone "tired of fucking her"...
Do I tihnk my personality or brains or any one skill or trait would win a person over?
Nope.

But I think I make a pretty good "package deal"...and I often have "issues" with people that either totally love me or loathe me.
Meaning, most of my friends and coworkers and old classmates and such either are like "she is the fucking shit..." or "I fucking hate that bitch".
So why do I think either?

For the love me part...its probably a combo of many things, and not to toot my own horn...but...I got basically perfect grades. I played several sports, instruments, can dance, cook, sing, draw...I am hopefully not too bad to look at, am hopefully sometimes funny and sweet and such...
And the hate me part is basically the same reasons. Some ppl are maybe jealous? But I am also loud and sometimes obnoxious. Stubborn. Prob overly sarcastic and smart-alecky. So that can turn some off. Also me possibly being smarter than them has turned some ppl off (I am in Mensa, graduated magna cum laude from UCLA...etc).

So I dont have many ppl that think "eeehhhh, shes ok"...its more...ride or die.

That said, ok sure...youll fall for me because Ill feed you the good stuff...whether thats from the fridge and oven...or between my legs! LOL!

I have a feeling if I was say 27 instead of 47 I would fall head over heels for you but you sound too good to be true and I would most likely feel like I was not enough for you

 

[munch2much]

guitar and piano.

and skin flute lol

Me too! Well. Not the skin flute. And my piano is more functional than anything.

I foolishly agree to play on someone’s recording recently …only to discover it was in dflat ‍♂ That’s just cruel!!

I’d ask which you prefer playing. But you’re going to say skin flute again.

 

[LilKitKat]

I am better at piano, but enjoy playing guitar more...my soundcloud is somewhere in this thread with me singing and playing

 

[LilKitKat]

I have a feeling if I was say 27 instead of 47 I would fall head over heels for you but you sound too good to be true and I would most likely feel like I was not enough for you

how do you know what I like in a person? You have no idea if you are not enough!

 

[Azuldrgon]

But I know you CAME for something (someone?) else...

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Big question there.
Do I think a man would "fall for me", if I consistently cooked and made him good meals? I dont know about that, but I know he would never complain about dinner or whatever.
Do I think sucking his soul out of his cock with an amazing blowjob, or riding him until he blew so much that his testicles receded up into his body would win him over? No, because there is that old story about seeing a hot girl and youll always find someone "tired of fucking her"...
Do I tihnk my personality or brains or any one skill or trait would win a person over?
Nope.

But I think I make a pretty good "package deal"...and I often have "issues" with people that either totally love me or loathe me.
Meaning, most of my friends and coworkers and old classmates and such either are like "she is the fucking shit..." or "I fucking hate that bitch".
So why do I think either?

For the love me part...its probably a combo of many things, and not to toot my own horn...but...I got basically perfect grades. I played several sports, instruments, can dance, cook, sing, draw...I am hopefully not too bad to look at, am hopefully sometimes funny and sweet and such...
And the hate me part is basically the same reasons. Some ppl are maybe jealous? But I am also loud and sometimes obnoxious. Stubborn. Prob overly sarcastic and smart-alecky. So that can turn some off. Also me possibly being smarter than them has turned some ppl off (I am in Mensa, graduated magna cum laude from UCLA...etc).

So I dont have many ppl that think "eeehhhh, shes ok"...its more...ride or die.

That said, ok sure...youll fall for me because Ill feed you the good stuff...whether thats from the fridge and oven...or between my legs! LOL!

Both posts were amazing.

There is so much more to a person than beauty.
I am in awe of both your beauty (yeah, you're hot.), but also your wit and banter as well.
Well done!!

 

[shadow_storm]

But I know you CAME for something (someone?) else...

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Oh wow... finally got to see a post before it got nuked <3 and i see a tattoo as well! Super hot!

 

[5FingerShuffle]

yep...obviously if there is someone who seems reasonably smart, reasonably attractive, and is female...on a website thats primarily male/adult-oriented...and is willing to show her ass or whatever...must be fake. and must be doxxed.

but hopefully we are past that

glad you found your better half!! and I have enjoyed chatting with you!

i assume wife doesnt know about this site or any of the other women you may engage with or jerk off to etc..?

She does not.

We’ve engaged in side-by-side coitius several times at a local sex club but don’t physically engage with others and I would never do so without her consent or (ideally) her participation.

Question for you…would you consider engaging with others online cheating?

I’ve thought about it and probably justify that it isn’t and am curious what you think.

Edit…BTW - my wife refers to it as “sucking out your ectoplasm”

 

[munch2much]

I am better at piano, but enjoy playing guitar more...my soundcloud is somewhere in this thread with me singing and playing

They are very different beasts. And actually both make you think in different ways. Guitar is such fun. So easy to lose yourself in that.

I checked your sound cloud. Very good. I’d send you some of mine, but Dropbox links don’t work here.

 

[5FingerShuffle]

Love this thread Kit! Off to our first Xmas party of the season. 1920s theme!