Explain your username

cactusjack0584

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This is just a place where if someone wants to they can explain why they have the username they do.

I’ll go first. Mine is from a long long time ago and is based on the wrestler Cactus Jack, who was also known Dude Love, Mankind, The Deranged One, The Testicular One, etc. His name is Mick Foley one of my favorite wrestlers of old.
 
Many eons ago I had a (now banned) twitter account called Wriggleitlady which encouraged sexy times.

When I was banned I set up an account here under the same username - but everyone assumed I was a lady and it wasn't an instruction.

I received all the dick pics 🤦‍♂️
(I feel so bad for the women)

Anyway after a while everyone just called me Wriggle, so I asked the beautiful and kind mods to change my name to prevent further misgendering.
 
When I started, I just used my first name and last initial (probably not a good idea). And over time developed some wonderful and close friendships. One of those was with Nebs, who started calling me Brenda Bear because I tend to be a mama bear and was a bit aggressive defending my peoples. I eventually got my name changed to match.

So, my login name has a great deal if meaning to me because was given to me by someone I was really close to and we lost her, all too soon.
 
As a kid in HS, in my sophomore year, a teacher misread my real first name and called me Elliot, at roll call, I realized her mistake but raised my hand saying "Present"
So for the rest of the year, she called me Elliot. Near the end, she reread the names and called me up. "Why didn't you tell me?" she asked...I told her, I didn't care what name she called me, and I didn't. Anyway, I've used it for years since.
I added "Dear" because one site I joined the user name Elliot was already taken.
 
In 1970 (the year I was born) the Dead’s seventh album, known as “Skull and Roses,” includes a callout to “Dead Heads.” The album’s sleeve included a message to fans: “Dead Freaks Unite: Who are you? Where are you? How are you? Send us your name and address, and we’ll keep you informed. Deadheads, P.O. Box 1065, San Rafael, California, 94901.” It was the beginning of perhaps the best-known fan club in music history.
I am one of them
 
In the early years of my military service, while deployed overseas, most of us used fake names when visiting bars and dens of iniquity. I inherited my name from a fellow service member when he transferred from the unit.
My nickname in the military was Rally because I was well known for getting drunk, then puking and resetting to party again. Hence puke-rally. Which became Rally.

one of the many reasons I don’t drink anymore
 
I been called Sandra for some time now. Basically all my life. Since birth actually. I used Maus because SlimSandra and Red/Ginger Sandra had been taken. Maus or Mausi is used in Germany in the same way you use honey or sweetie in English. Sweet in German would be Süß or SüßeSandra. I wanted to avoid people getting all ' There they are again those Krauts with their special letters no one else uses in ze world......😜😉
 
Chloe Harper was the name I used online once I was smart enough to stop using my real one 😅. Over time, it became a real part of me, and I attached the name to my erotic writings. Chloe feels like just as much my name sometimes, and will continue being my pen name for erotic works as long as I continue writing them.
 
I may have said once or twice vibes, positive ones, is what I want to convey ... truth is in the early 2000's vibes is the name a sexy lady friend and I used to call a dirty little game involving our phones, hers with vibration function activated
 
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