Wearing 4" heels during sex

[stickygirl]

Am I totally naive, but why, in so many porn movies, does the actress wear huge great heels? I can't think of anything more ridiculous to wear during sex. It can't be a BDSM thing, because I'm don't watch those. Is it some bizarre law about the actress not be (completely) naked, so a pair of patent heels ticks that box?
I can't help but think of all the ruined bed-sheets & mattresses

 

[silverwhisper]

well, remembering that porn is a visual medium and they look sexy as hell, sure, the reality of the props/trops of porn are goofy. hell, who actually thinks that saliva is a good lubricant? are there many people who aren't turned off by spitting during sex?

these are things that in the heat of the moment might seem fun, but certainly would suck as the norm--and not in the fun way. hell, who makes sounds like porn actors during sex? most people don't fuck for hours and most men don't cum like geyers several times during a single sexual encounter.

it's a massively, ludicrously artificial reality being presented in porn. they have as much to do with the reality of sex, i think, as most action flick chase sequences have to do with your daily commute to/from work.

 

[Nezhul]

I think that it's just for the sexy element of it. Like, people who like heels will see it as sexy.
I, personally, don't pay it much attention most of the times. But sometimes it's just ridiculous - weaking heels while she's fucked in a bed? Very strange.

But leave heels be for now. What I really don't understand is when an actress is wearing snickers. Like, she's completely naked, but her feet are in socks annd snickers. WTF?

 

[KayceeCharles]

Am I totally naive, but why, in so many porn movies, does the actress wear huge great heels? I can't think of anything more ridiculous to wear during sex. It can't be a BDSM thing, because I'm don't watch those. Is it some bizarre law about the actress not be (completely) naked, so a pair of patent heels ticks that box?
I can't help but think of all the ruined bed-sheets & mattresses

No, they are sex symbols, i.e. "fuck-me heels", as well as a bit of contrast effect.

Ever notice that fully naked girls don't look quite as appetizing as a girl wearing negligees?

The pumps and socks makes the rest of the body look even more naked.

 

[Primalex]

I can't think of anything more ridiculous to wear during sex.

Am I totally naive

Oh yes.

 

[Aphro]

I know guys love the look of high heels, and they do make your legs look so nice. My issue is, I like to move around a lot, and I would be so scared of poking his eye out or stabbing him with that sharp, pointy heel. I think okay for teasing and foreplay, but when you get down to doing it, the shoes would have to go. I would hate to ruin some perfectly good sex with a sudden trip to the ER.

 

[Nezhul]

It's okay. I think those who absolutely prefer shoes against bare feet are a minority.
And I do know that a lot of people actually like naked feet a lot. =)

I think it's mostly just a porn thing. Like eating a pussy while trying to hold their face as far away as possible, barely touching it with the tip of the tongue. That's all made for the viewer, it doesn't mean it's practical to do so in real life =)

 

[Paul_Chance]

It's all fun and games until you catch a stiletto in the crotch LOL.

It's purely a visual thing (and an appeal to capture the shoe fetish crowd)

 

[stickygirl]

No, they are sex symbols, i.e. "fuck-me heels", as well as a bit of contrast effect.

Ever notice that fully naked girls don't look quite as appetizing as a girl wearing negligees?

The pumps and socks makes the rest of the body look even more naked.

Sure heels look great in the right place: I wouldn't wear them to work... but porn stars do
Personally taking my shoes off makes me feel extra naked, almost as much as taking my bra off.

Oh yes.

It's all fun and games until you catch a stiletto in the crotch LOL.

It's purely a visual thing (and an appeal to capture the shoe fetish crowd)

It's the danger thing that I supposer I'm projecting ontto it and, as others have commented, they are dangerous and plain stoopid in bed

Ha - the other just-for-the-camera thing is guys standing with one hand behind their back as they screw her ass at 45 degrees

 

[CaptJTH]

I highly doubt this is the reason they wear them in porn, but I know a girl who wears them during sex to keep her feet from cramping up. She's one of those all over tense up before orgasm type of women. I can't relate but I'm sure nothing kills an orgasm quite like a foot cramp.

 

[stickygirl]

I can't relate but I'm sure nothing kills an orgasm quite like a stiletto in the testicles

Quite

 

[JulieAnn42]

Sure heels look great in the right place: I wouldn't wear them to work... but porn stars do
Personally taking my shoes off makes me feel extra naked, almost as much as taking my bra off.

Taking my panties off is what makes me feel extra naked.

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

They make good handholds in certain positions! I prefer stocking feet and legs to heels...

 

[Dribble]

Next people will think it is silly cause i wear my cowboy boots


Could be worse....roller girl always wore her skates

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

i like heels during sex. just gotta be careful

 

[coffeelover5]

i like heels during sex. just gotta be careful

I echo Hayley's comment, I love it when my lover wears her heels in bed

 

[stickygirl]

Next people will think it is silly cause i wear my cowboy boots


Could be worse....roller girl always wore her skates

i like heels during sex. just gotta be careful

I echo Hayley's comment, I love it when my lover wears her heels in bed

Well knock me down with a feather. I never realised so many folks were having sex with their shoes/boots on - how amazing ( to me ) .Thank you for saying

 

[AngeliqueIdylle]

They make good handholds in certain positions!

Yes, they certainly do! Heels can add a fun element to sex and I don’t mind wearing them to bed when asked… or when told.

 

[coffeelover5]

Yes, they certainly do! Heels can add a fun element to sex and I don’t mind wearing them to bed when asked… or when told.

Go put them on NOW!!!!

 

[Paul_Chance]

There is the answer than.

For some people it ramps up the erotic tension.

For other people it leaves us scratching our heads.

I think that is kind of the nature of any fetish. If it is something we do "super hot". If it is something we don't do "huh"?

I know my bent is undressing. For me, it is super hot foreplay to undress my partner - either slow and gentle (like unwrapping a Christmas present) or fast and furious (like, uh, unwrapping a different Christmas present).

 

[AngeliqueIdylle]

Go put them on NOW!!!!

Oh, you know that I would love to... but I only have 3" heels here in the office.

 

[mrspank30]

Taking my panties off is what makes me feel extra naked.

Lmao!

 

[stickygirl]

Taking my panties off is what makes me feel extra naked.

as opposed to me and my shoes or bra - yea, I get that

and Paul - you must be right. My take on the whole thing left me scratching my head, but if it's a thing for some folk, then I'm totally cool with that.

 

[coffeelover5]

Oh, you know that I would love to... but I only have 3" heels here in the office.

Then I say we have to improvise

 

[KayceeCharles]

Oh, you know that I would love to... but I only have 3" heels here in the office.

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