totally not bdsm related - your take on lingerie??

[cookiecat]

ok, so, ummmmm - taking a poll.

So I'm thinking about sexy time. Lingerie stuff. It gives me hives. I'm all about his t-shirt or my big sweater.

But now that I just might take the leap in to new guy monkey business, do I think about real purdy lingerie???

What's up? I'm out of the loop. What do you like?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

ok, so, ummmmm - taking a poll.

So I'm thinking about sexy time. Lingerie stuff. It gives me hives. I'm all about his t-shirt or my big sweater.

But now that I just might take the leap in to new guy monkey business, do I think about real purdy lingerie???

What's up? I'm out of the loop. What do you like?

Nothing like a beautiful black lace bra paired with a matching garterbekt and stockings...no panties. Delicious.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I’m not into lingerie. I am into nice bras and panties. I would drop a lot of money for a bra, that is, as long as he doesn’t have his knife.

Wear a skirt. Or a dress. For first meeting. Because it just... means a lot for him to see you put in the effort.
Or, if you must wear pants, heels.

After he rips your clothes off you can borrow his T-shirt.

 

[KimGordon67]

I'm a big fan of the stay-up stockings that don't need a suspender belt ... personally, I love the feeling of wearing them, and his hand moving from stocking to bare flesh. But I find suspenders are not a friend of the 50+ tummy, so not needing one is great.

Sheer underwear is always good, and comes in all shapes and sizes. And as a 'larger' busted girl, I'm very pleased by the expansion in bra availability.

I'm not great at anything beyond that. All the other bits and pieces never seem to quite work on me. But guys seem to appreciate a bit of something sexy under the clothes, and I like it too - always makes me feel a bit special. I'd recommend getting properly fitted for a bra, or at least spending a while trying things on - nothing worse than getting something that looks cute in the shop but that your boobs fall out of ... unless 'falling out boobs' is the look you're going for.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’m not into lingerie. I am into nice bras and panties. I would drop a lot of money for a bra, that is, as long as he doesn’t have his knife.

Wear a skirt. Or a dress. For first meeting. Because it just... means a lot for him to see you put in the effort.
Or, if you must wear pants, heels.

After he rips your clothes off you can borrow his T-shirt.

Sound advice here. Skip the panties.

 

[Tedfkats]

Sound advice here. Skip the panties.

Disagree.
Sexy bra and panties set is about good as it gets for me.

 

[KimGordon67]

I’m not into lingerie. I am into nice bras and panties. I would drop a lot of money for a bra, that is, as long as he doesn’t have his knife.

Wear a skirt. Or a dress. For first meeting. Because it just... means a lot for him to see you put in the effort.
Or, if you must wear pants, heels.

After he rips your clothes off you can borrow his T-shirt.

LOL - my guy was fucking from behind the other night, and grabbed my bra to pull me back onto his cock. I have to admit that a tiny part of me was thinking 'Don't you stretch out my favourite black bra!'

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'm a big fan of the stay-up stockings that don't need a suspender belt ... personally, I love the feeling of wearing them, and his hand moving from stocking to bare flesh. But I find suspenders are not a friend of the 50+ tummy, so not needing one is great.

Sheer underwear is always good, and comes in all shapes and sizes. And as a 'larger' busted girl, I'm very pleased by the expansion in bra availability.

I'm not great at anything beyond that. All the other bits and pieces never seem to quite work on me. But guys seem to appreciate a bit of something sexy under the clothes, and I like it too - always makes me feel a bit special. I'd recommend getting properly fitted for a bra, or at least spending a while trying things on - nothing worse than getting something that looks cute in the shop but that your boobs fall out of ... unless 'falling out boobs' is the look you're going for.

Wacoal is a good brand.
I bought this. And matching panties. Black.
Panties didn’t make it...

https://www.macys.com/shop/product/...sVI3lUScclGG2_g6hatS7M06PPkY5fOAaAgoSEALw_wcB

 

[AlwaysFara]

LOL - my guy was fucking from behind the other night, and grabbed my bra to pull me back onto his cock. I have to admit that a tiny part of me was thinking 'Don't you stretch out my favourite black bra!'

Some dude still owes me a hot pink underwire Lillyette.
Cut it right off me.

I think that a well fitting bra is sexy AF. I feel sexy wearing it.

 

[KimGordon67]

Wacoal is a good brand.
I bought this. And matching panties. Black.
Panties didn’t make it...

https://www.macys.com/shop/product/...sVI3lUScclGG2_g6hatS7M06PPkY5fOAaAgoSEALw_wcB

Oh, that is pretty. I don't think I could get that brand here though, and I won't buy a bra without trying it on. Luckily our biggest local manufacturer makes some really nice stuff, and runs to bigger sizes ... and has an outlet shop nearby.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Oh, that is pretty. I don't think I could get that brand here though, and I won't buy a bra without trying it on. Luckily our biggest local manufacturer makes some really nice stuff, and runs to bigger sizes ... and has an outlet shop nearby.

This goes up to DDD?
E?
I am DD.

Victoria secret is nice, but you can never throw them in the dryer by mistake.

 

[Miles Long]

There are two reasons to wear lingerie:

1. You love it and wearing it makes you feel sexy, regardless whether anyone else sees you in it or not.
2. He loves seeing you wear it and it and it gets him ready for a trip to Pound Town.

It sounds like reason number one doesn't apply to you, which leaves reason number two. If that's something you are willing and happy to do for him, make sure you get his input before you start spending money on lingerie. While many guys love lingerie, many do not, so you'll want to know what this particular fella is into. And if he is into it, he might have some preferences that can help you decide on what to get. Have you talked with him about his tastes in lingerie?

 

[KimGordon67]

This goes up to DDD?
E?
I am DD.

Victoria secret is nice, but you can never throw them in the dryer by mistake.

I'm a DD too (now ... I WAS a GG or H. Ugh. Bra shopping comprised me walking in and saying 'I'll take anything you have that fits' - it was always only one bra) ... but the sizing is so variable, and some things work while others don't.

 

[midwestyankee]

Wear whatever makes you feel strong, sexy and your best self. That’s really all that matters in the land of the Y chromosome.

 

[KimGordon67]

There are two reasons to wear lingerie:

1. You love it and wearing it makes you feel sexy, regardless whether anyone else sees you in it or not.
2. He loves seeing you wear it and it and it gets him ready for a trip to Pound Town.

It sounds like reason number one doesn't apply to you, which leaves reason number two. If that's something you are willing and happy to do for him, make sure you get his input before you start spending money on lingerie. While many guys love lingerie, many do not, so you'll want to know what this particular fella is into. And if he is into it, he might have some preferences that can help you decide on what to get. Have you talked with him about his tastes in lingerie?

Sound advice - guys also vary a lot in terms of colour preference, e.g. my guy hates white.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'm a DD too (now ... I WAS a GG or H. Ugh. Bra shopping comprised me walking in and saying 'I'll take anything you have that fits' - it was always only one bra) ... but the sizing is so variable, and some things work while others don't.

I was an F.

 

[KimGordon67]

I was an F.

More boob isn't quite the great thing many people think it is, eh? I love that I can buy dresses now, just off the rack. And BRAS.

 

[cookiecat]

This goes up to DDD?
E?
I am DD.

Victoria secret is nice, but you can never throw them in the dryer by mistake.

B...

 

[AlwaysFara]

Wear whatever makes you feel strong, sexy and your best self. That’s really all that matters in the land of the Y chromosome.

Sound advice - guys also vary a lot in terms of colour preference, e.g. my guy hates white.

Also, most guys really don’t care. Or, don’t care that we think we are “fat”. Or, if we didn’t wax.
They just want in.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

B...

Take it from a man, there is no wrong letter

 

[KimGordon67]

B...

The world is your oyster! I think something cute that makes you happy is the way to go to begin with ... finding out where your preferences cross over is fun later on. We used a lot of photos from the various threads in here to work out what we both like ... lingerie and other stuff, obviously.

 

[cookiecat]

All sage advice, thanks.

No - I haven't asked him about what he likes. We're not there yet. I am in my mind.

Simple seems best - I like the "whatever makes me feel confident and sexy" thought process.

 

[KimGordon67]

Also, most guys really don’t care. Or, don’t care that we think we are “fat”. Or, if we didn’t wax.
They just want in.

I once saw a presentation on research about pubic waxing, and one person say 'most guys are so happy to be that near a vagina, they really couldn't care less about whether there's hair or not'.
I only wax because I like the feeling of it.

 

[cookiecat]

Also, most guys really don’t care. Or, don’t care that we think we are “fat”. Or, if we didn’t wax.
They just want in.

Yup. I'm pretty much over the "omg I'm fat" thing. It is what it is.

Take it from a man, there is no wrong letter

Thanks. Grass is always greener. That being said, I'm fond of my boobs.

The world is your oyster! I think something cute that makes you happy is the way to go to begin with ... finding out where your preferences cross over is fun later on. We used a lot of photos from the various threads in here to work out what we both like ... lingerie and other stuff, obviously.

It's a new frontier!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Yup. I'm pretty much over the "omg I'm fat" thing. It is what it is.




Thanks. Grass is always greener. That being said, I'm fond of my boobs.





It's a new frontier!

Enjoy the journey!