Sph / tiny penis fetish

[Davagar]

I know there are a few threads about it but recently I've been talking about the topic with people in here and seems like there are some users into it or just curious. Anyway, the other threads are lost in the forum lol But I was wondering....what's the female interest in this fetish? Talking about girls and women that like it.
I'm on the smaller side so that's where my curiosity comes from

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

I like all sizes of cocks but there is something sweet about a shy guy with a small cock. you can fit it all in your mouth too.

 

[Davagar]

Oh wow, didn't expect that answer lol but that's nice. Thank you as far as I'm concerned haha

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

Thank you for the thank you! All Cocos deserve attention and pleasure.
Never be ashamed of it.

 

[Davagar]

Thank you sweetie

 

[cuck72]

I try and make the most out of my small penis, so I get into these huge clean up cuckold thoughts or being a sissy in panties. It gets me so excited, it's my favorite fantasies. I feel it's what most tiny penis guys are for. My wife doesn't fuck me anymore and has cuckolded me in the past. So, it's so easy for me to get off thinking of being her little pee, pee cuckold.

 

[policywank]

I wouldn't say that I am into this fetish as a turn on for me per se. But I do appreciate a man who can embrace this aspect of himself and the manner in which it may affect his role as an intimate partner.

 

[irishblade]

I wouldn't say that I am into this fetish as a turn on for me per se. But I do appreciate a man who can embrace this aspect of himself and the manner in which it may affect his role as an intimate partner.

I swear I’m not stalking you today haha. But it doesn’t make sense why someone would lie to themselves or a partner about size.

 

[policywank]

I swear I’m not stalking you today haha. But it doesn’t make sense why someone would lie to themselves or a partner about size.

You are right. It doesn't make sense. But there are lots of men who would prefer to live in denial. Presumably they know they aren't large so they convince themselves that it doesn't matter or that there is something else that they can do to compensate. Any woman who tells them otherwise can expect to be disparaged. The odd thing is that for some guys even a woman's slight preference for a larger cock is not something that they are able to accept.

 

[irishblade]

You are right. It doesn't make sense. But there are lots of men who would prefer to live in denial. Presumably they know they aren't large so they convince themselves that it doesn't matter or that there is something else that they can do to compensate. Any woman who tells them otherwise can expect to be disparaged. The odd thing is that for some guys even a woman's slight preference for a larger cock is not something that they are able to accept.

I’m actually on the other end of the spectrum. I accept it but my wife won’t. Well, she accepts it obviously but still thinks it’ll hurt my feelings if she points out how small I am even though I tell her I’m small and it’s okay to acknowledge that.

 

[sterculius]

I wouldn't say that I am into this fetish as a turn on for me per se. But I do appreciate a man who can embrace this aspect of himself and the manner in which it may affect his role as an intimate partner.

Speaking as a male who is "modestly endowed" (3 inches, fully erect) I have accepted that the overwhelming majority of men have penises larger than mine and are able to satisfy a woman in ways that I cannot. I have striven to overcome this deficiency by perfecting my oral abilities. I have been married twice and both of my wives have praised my tongue technique and my wife says that the orgasms I provide her using my mouth and tongue, are the strongest and the best she has ever experienced. I recognize my place in the penile pecking order and consider my mouth and my throat to be my primary sex organ for the use of both women and men. Do you find that your preference for larger cocks is shared by most women but who are are reluctant to express this preference for fear of offending their partners?

 

[policywank]

I’m actually on the other end of the spectrum. I accept it but my wife won’t. Well, she accepts it obviously but still thinks it’ll hurt my feelings if she points out how small I am even though I tell her I’m small and it’s okay to acknowledge that.

Women are really conditioned to avoid this subject so much that even if a guy says he wants the truth we will be inclined to think that he is still hoping for that truth to be favourable to him. And if she thinks it will hurt your feelings (another assumption that is ingrained in us) saying it is ok to acknowledge that your cock is small is sort of like saying it is ok to hurt you - regardless of how you feel about it she doesn't want to hurt you.

 

[PapaDan]

Women are really conditioned to avoid this subject so much that even if a guy says he wants the truth we will be inclined to think that he is still hoping for that truth to be favourable to him. And if she thinks it will hurt your feelings (another assumption that is ingrained in us) saying it is ok to acknowledge that your cock is small is sort of like saying it is ok to hurt you - regardless of how you feel about it she doesn't want to hurt you.

You've got that right! No matter how much a man thinks he gets off on SPH, the last thing he wants to hear from a woman he cares about is that he is inadequate. I guess some men are just masochistic.

 

[policywank]

Speaking as a male who is "modestly endowed" (3 inches, fully erect) I have accepted that the overwhelming majority of men have penises larger than mine and are able to satisfy a woman in ways that I cannot. I have striven to overcome this deficiency by perfecting my oral abilities. I have been married twice and both of my wives have praised my tongue technique and my wife says that the orgasms I provide her using my mouth and tongue, are the strongest and the best she has ever experienced. I recognize my place in the penile pecking order and consider my mouth and my throat to be my primary sex organ for the use of both women and men. Do you find that your preference for larger cocks is shared by most women but who are are reluctant to express this preference for fear of offending their partners?

I think that most women have a preferred size when it comes to a penetrative sex partner. However, "larger" is all relative. I think that our preferences range from average to well above average - most of us would certainly prefer larger than 3". There is also a wide range of how much size matters to us. For some it matters very little and for others it matters more. But I don't know any women who if they are honest with themselves and frame the question honestly can truly say it doesn't matter even a little bit at least as it relates to a penetrative sex partner.

But recognizing that there are different potential roles for a man to play I put a high value on my relatively more modestly endowed cuckold who works hard to satisfy my needs. And as long as we both enjoy indulging in that fetish having his little dick locked up and recognizing his penile inferiority adds to the experience for both of us. When considering all factors I value him highest among all of my sex partners, but for penetrative sex I prefer larger.

 

[irishblade]

Women are really conditioned to avoid this subject so much that even if a guy says he wants the truth we will be inclined to think that he is still hoping for that truth to be favourable to him. And if she thinks it will hurt your feelings (another assumption that is ingrained in us) saying it is ok to acknowledge that your cock is small is sort of like saying it is ok to hurt you - regardless of how you feel about it she doesn't want to hurt you.

Agreed. I’ve flat out told her I knew it was small and it’s okay if she acknowledges it. And I’ve reassured her it won’t hurt me but you’re right 100%. I think she thinks it will hurt me which is more powerful to her than what would most likely happen if she verbalized it.

 

[sterculius]

Policywank, I completely understand and agree with your preference for plus sized cocks as I share your desire to feel "filled up". My oral obsession includes a passion for performing deep throat fellatio on substantially endowed men and I derive no enjoyment from giving blowjobs to men with penises as small as my own. My wife has told me that sucking my "little guy" would make her feel like a child molester who was giving a blowjob to a toddler.

 

[policywank]

Agreed. I’ve flat out told her I knew it was small and it’s okay if she acknowledges it. And I’ve reassured her it won’t hurt me but you’re right 100%. I think she thinks it will hurt me which is more powerful to her than what would most likely happen if she verbalized it.

I expect that she may just not see any reason to verbalize it even if she is convinced that it wouldn't hurt you unless of course you want her to tell you your cock is small. Certainly some people have a bit of a masochistic aspect to their personality, but I also think that on this particular topic acknowledging and accepting reality has the potential to relieve men of the burden of feeling compelled to engage in denial and overcompensation.

I liken it a little bit to a man being spanked. I have no desire to do that unless he wants me to in which case I am happy to indulge him and will enjoy doing so. But my pleasure is directly linked to his enjoyment. Spanking him or highlighting the small size of his penis doesn't have appeal to me as a stand-alone premise.

 

[policywank]

Policywank, I completely understand and agree with your preference for plus sized cocks as I share your desire to feel "filled up". My oral obsession includes a passion for performing deep throat fellatio on substantially endowed men and I derive no enjoyment from giving blowjobs to men with penises as small as my own. My wife has told me that sucking my "little guy" would make her feel like a child molester who was giving a blowjob to a toddler.

Yes sucking cock is a different experience than penetrative sex of course, but my pleasure is linked to having a substantive cock to suck. If it is too small it feels more like charity than a shared sexual experience.

 

[Escierto]

My cock is about five and an half inches hard and I have always wanted a bigger one. When I was fucking women with pussies I was glad none of them mentioned my size. After I became involved with my girlfriend, she said that she deserved to be the top because her cock was so much bigger than mine. I had to laugh and agree with her.

I actually like being smaller than her because it suits our sexual roles. When she sees my cock she will say things like “How is my little friend?” Or “I have missed seeing my little friend.”

 

[irishblade]

My cock is about five inches hard and I have always wanted a bigger one. When I was fucking women with pussies I was glad none of them mentioned my size. After I became involved with my girlfriend, she said that she deserved to be the top because her cock was so much bigger than mine. I had to laugh and agree with her.

I actually like being smaller than her because it suits our sexual roles. When she sees my cock she will say things like “How is my little friend?” Or “I have missed seeing my little friend.”

Love your relationship! Sounds fabulous!

 

[Escierto]

Love your relationship! Sounds fabulous!

Thank you! She is the bolt to my nut, that’s for sure!

 

[irishblade]

I expect that she may just not see any reason to verbalize it even if she is convinced that it wouldn't hurt you unless of course you want her to tell you your cock is small. Certainly some people have a bit of a masochistic aspect to their personality, but I also think that on this particular topic acknowledging and accepting reality has the potential to relieve men of the burden of feeling compelled to engage in denial and overcompensation.

I liken it a little bit to a man being spanked. I have no desire to do that unless he wants me to in which case I am happy to indulge him and will enjoy doing so. But my pleasure is directly linked to his enjoyment. Spanking him or highlighting the small size of his penis doesn't have appeal to me as a stand-alone premise.

I’m into playful humiliation so if she did say it in a non-judgmental tone, it would definitely be a turn on. But on the opposite end of the line, when she texts me or tells me to use my big cock, it actually takes me out of the mood. Like, I am not trying to think I have a huge cock. And she’s had bigger (and much bigger) than me so she knows it’s not big.

 

[sterculius]

Yes sucking cock is a different experience than penetrative sex of course, but my pleasure is linked to having a substantive cock to suck. If it is too small it feels more like charity than a shared sexual experience.

Then you don't consider a blowjob to be penetrative sex? My favorite form of fellatio is to have the man I'm blowing take control and aggressively fuck my throat with his plus size cock, preferably at a pace and intensity not of my own choosing. To me this qualifies as penetrative sex.

 

[policywank]

Then you don't consider a blowjob to be penetrative sex? My favorite form of fellatio is to have the man I'm blowing take control and aggressively fuck my throat with his plus size cock, preferably at a pace and intensity not of my own choosing. To me this qualifies as penetrative sex.

Fair enough. It is a different type of penetrative sex.

 

[policywank]

I’m into playful humiliation so if she did say it in a non-judgmental tone, it would definitely be a turn on. But on the opposite end of the line, when she texts me or tells me to use my big cock, it actually takes me out of the mood. Like, I am not trying to think I have a huge cock. And she’s had bigger (and much bigger) than me so she knows it’s not big.

Interesting. I will indulge in this sort of playful humiliation with a man if I am quite sure that he enjoys it, but I know lots of women who couldn't bring themselves to do so. My husband made clear to me long ago that he doesn't want me to pretend it is big when it isn't. He finds it patronizing, which he finds more hurtful than simply accepting reality, which he has already done.