What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

So. In college, we'd buy canned chicken breast and Hellman's mayo and white bread. And call it a meal...
As an adult I'm a little more fancy...
I like walnuts and green grapes....

It yours sounds like delicious!!!

You can use canned chicken and it’s still yummy. It might be good with the walnuts but I’m not a fan of grapes in mine so who knows?
 
Does anyone else read certain people's posts and hear their voice 🤔
No, because I don't know what people sound like, but I do give most people a "voice" that just happens when I read. Like, even with novels, all the characters have voices. Or even nonfiction. The narrator is sometimes Stephen Fry (or his voicealike). Maybe I need to read everyone here in the voice of Stephen Fry....
 
No, because I don't know what people sound like, but I do give most people a "voice" that just happens when I read. Like, even with novels, all the characters have voices. Or even nonfiction. The narrator is sometimes Stephen Fry (or his voicealike). Maybe I need to read everyone here in the voice of Stephen Fry....
Emma Thompson or Lauren Bacall for me, if I don't know the voice.
 
I learned the other day that "breadcrumbing" is a thing that people do so that they keep your interest, by giving you little bits of positive reinforcement and then ignoring you for a long time. I know that manipulation because people have used it on me before. I just didn't know it had a name. I wonder if that is worse than ghosting. I am just thinking, here.
 
I learned the other day that "breadcrumbing" is a thing that people do so that they keep your interest, by giving you little bits of positive reinforcement and then ignoring you for a long time. I know that manipulation because people have used it on me before. I just didn't know it had a name. I wonder if that is worse than ghosting. I am just thinking, here.
So much worse than ghosting. At least ghosting is honest..
Just my two cents worth..
 
I learned the other day that "breadcrumbing" is a thing that people do so that they keep your interest, by giving you little bits of positive reinforcement and then ignoring you for a long time. I know that manipulation because people have used it on me before. I just didn't know it had a name. I wonder if that is worse than ghosting. I am just thinking, here.
Good question. I think it all sucks. I wish people could be more honest with each other but I also understand that any kind of confrontation is difficult.
 
Good question. I think it all sucks. I wish people could be more honest with each other but I also understand that any kind of confrontation is difficult.
I agree. I don't think I could be OK with myself if I were trying to get someone interested in me, and then consistently ignored them, only to lovebomb them for a bit to keep the interest. I think that's cruel. Ghosting I can get, because sometimes you're afraid of the confrontation. It's not a very mature way of dealing with things, but one can hope that we grow.

But then, maybe someone is depressed and has better moments, and maybe during those better moments it appears they are breadcrumbing, when they are really just trying to feel better and indicate this. So many things to think about.

#deepthoughts
 
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