🧠 What Are Your Intrusive Thoughts Trying to Convince You of Today??

[BornNorCal]

I know there’s no right way to grieve, but holy shit, maybe don’t post a video of a flying speck of dust with you crying and freaking out in the background that my mom visited you???? That’s insane? For so many reasons???????

Why would she visit you, Darla?? She hasn’t seen you since the 9th gradeeeee 40 years agoooooooo

Because Darla is an unstable attention whore?

 

[EvaLane]

Oh shit that’s far worse than mine. I just hated the annual reposts every year. Motherfucker, it’s my grief I don’t need to be comforting you who just played FarmVille with her. Don’t be tagging me in that shit because FB reminded you today is the day.

Ah. lol. Criminal case. I’m laughing because it’s actually funny. It’s not. But like, yea no wonder the world is totally

https://media.tenor.com/3_tr13aHsAIAAAAM/elmo-fire.gif

 

[kyblue12]

That I have no chance to do something insanely hard.... not because its insanely hard, but because I am me.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Ah. lol. Criminal case. I’m laughing because it’s actually funny. It’s not. But like, yea no wonder the world is totally

https://media.tenor.com/3_tr13aHsAIAAAAM/elmo-fire.gif

It’s a little funny. Now. Wasn’t then.

FTR, you can totally gate keep grief about your parent. Or child. Or partner. Your grief takes priority and other people can do what the fuck they want only as long as it doesn’t involve you without your consent.

 

[BornNorCal]

Grief is not a linear process. While we talk about grief in terms of stages, those stages are subjective. They can be circular. They can create places where we get stuck. But your grief process is your own! It is your unique emotional experience and you decide who gets to participate and who doesn't. Period.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Grief is not a linear process. While we talk about grief in terms of stages, those stages are subjective. They can be circular. They can create places where we get stuck. But your grief process is your own! It is your unique emotional experience and you decide who gets to participate and who doesn't. Period.

Do either @EvaLane or I sound like we’re unfamiliar with grief? Or that we’re seeking validation for our process? Can’t speak for her but this sorta empty generic platitude is exactly the sorta thing I was commenting on. I’m sure you’re trying to be helpful, really. But if you’ve been there, share that journey instead of this emptiness. . If you haven’t, you don't have a lot to add.

 

[Oralexplorer]

That I can eat a bag of Cadbury Mini Eggs without any consequences

There are also consequences for not eating a bag of Cadbury mini eggs...because someone else will have to eat it.

 

[Oralexplorer]

It’s been suggested that I post pics that leave more to imagination…
Is that the same as saying you don’t look good enough to post shirtless?

if you think it's good then it's good !

 

[Whiskeyjack]

My non-intrusive thoughts are giving it the old Stuart Smalley, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."
My intrusive thoughts are telling me it's all horseshit.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

My non-intrusive thoughts are giving it the old Stuart Smalley, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."
My intrusive thoughts are telling me it's all horseshit.

I like you.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I like you.

Seconded

 

[curious_slut]

My non-intrusive thoughts are giving it the old Stuart Smalley, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."
My intrusive thoughts are telling me it's all horseshit.

Relatable.
And it's not all horseshit.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Relatable.
And it's not all horseshit.

I like you too!

 

[AmberLGreen]

My non-intrusive thoughts are giving it the old Stuart Smalley, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."
My intrusive thoughts are telling me it's all horseshit.

I like you.

Seconded

I guess he’s alright

 

[Neanderthal247]

The words in this song are my intrusive thoughts

 

[cheekygirl75]

The words in this song are my intrusive thoughts

I mean, you *are* a weirdo but not a creep

 

[Neanderthal247]

I mean, you *are* a weirdo but not a creep

I was Mostly referring to the " I don't belong here part " in the song,

 

[cheekygirl75]

I was Mostly referring to the " I don't belong here part " in the song,

Oh, my thoughts try to convince me of that all the time, it sucks, I’m sorry. But how can you not belong here - you’re the coolest kid on Lit or something like that!

 

[Neanderthal247]

Oh, my thoughts try to convince me of that all the time, it sucks, I’m sorry. But how can you not belong here - you’re the coolest kid on Lit or something like that!

I think I'm right, I still think very highly of myself, but no one here can relate to my most brutally honest thoughts.

 

[EvaLane]

I wonder how many times he’s jerked off to photos of me since blocking me

 

[Neanderthal247]

I wonder how many times he’s jerked off to photos of me since blocking me

None, I blocked you for different reasons missy

 

[Noor]

He’s not a monster, but he’s not behaving decently.

 

[37_ttej]

Hmm, *intrusive* thoughts you say ...

My thoughts resemble a colander of spaghetti.
They worm themselves all over the place.
But what surfaced earlier today was, "It's a while since I've been on Lit. I might take a little peek."

 

[SmokingFap]

I wonder how many times he’s jerked off to photos of me since blocking me

I hope you're not talking about me! I never blocked you!

But it's probably been a dozen times since you THINK I blocked you.

 

[SmokingFap]

My intrusive thoughts kept telling me to check this thread. I guess they won.