❓ Did you fall in love with the person who took your virginity❓

[Never2late4funxxx]

No, he was a friend of my brothers whom I met only that one time. It was Halloween and I was dressed as Black Widow and he was dressed as something nerdy and well I couldn’t stop making out with him and it lead to us having sex and he being my first. He was in many ways a means to an end for me. At that time I was looking for a way to throw away the good girl image I had and having a one night stand with a guy I barely knew seemed to be that first step in showing I wasn’t. I wouldn’t change that part of my past either for not loving him haha. I had to go through a wild child phase and he was the turning point.

I can relate, felt much the same with my first, but from a male perspective. And she definitely wasn’t a virgin and no love interest. Was a forgetful night other than it was my first.

 

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

In my essay https://www.literotica.com/s/writing-away-the-darkess I disclosed that I lost my virginity to a hooker at 25. She was about ten years older. I fell hard for her. Love and sex are closely intertwined in my psyche, much too closely. I did manage to get her off the streets for good. We were on again, off again for nearly fifteen years. She loved me in a way, but never as much as opiates and booze. Had that been different, I would have married her. As it is, I'm glad I didn't. But I still think of her now and then, though we've had no contact since 1997.

 

[Never2late4funxxx]

In my essay https://www.literotica.com/s/writing-away-the-darkess I disclosed that I lost my virginity to a hooker at 25. She was about ten years older. I fell hard for her. Love and sex are closely intertwined in my psyche, much too closely. I did manage to get her off the streets for good. We were on again, off again for nearly fifteen years. She loved me in a way, but never as much as opiates and booze. Had that been different, I would have married her. As it is, I'm glad I didn't. But I still think of her now and then, though we've had no contact since 1997.

Sounds like you put a lot into that relationship, but you were lucky that you saw the reality of what meant more to her with her addiction.

 

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

I learned this from a friend in Narcotics Anonymous (that I knew from a different 12-step program): When you are addicted, that damn needle becomes your best friend, your worst enemy, your father, your mother, your sister, your brother, your lover, and your god. I heeded that just in time.

 

[Sexydrana]

I can relate, felt much the same with my first, but from a male perspective. And she definitely wasn’t a virgin and no love interest. Was a forgetful night other than it was my first.

For me it wasn’t forgetful, though maybe a bit blurry haha. It’s been a decade now so I only now recall the highlights. I mostly remember waking up and sending The Lonely Island’s featuring Akon song “I Just Had Sex” to a friend to break the news to him. And to this day when I hear that song I just smile at the memories now.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

For me it wasn’t forgetful, though maybe a bit blurry haha. It’s been a decade now so I only now recall the highlights. I mostly remember waking up and sending The Lonely Island’s featuring Akon song “I Just Had Sex” to a friend to break the news to him. And to this day when I hear that song I just smile at the memories now.

The best part is that the memory makes you smile.

 

[erinsplaytime]

No, he broke up with me a few days later

 

[Loyalish1245]

No, she was older and used me. I did with the first girl I wanted to do it with. She was my first love and only real love until I got married.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife took my virginity, so I already loved her. She was forced to lose her virginity years earlier, so she had no good feelings about that person.