😈✨🍺MrTenant's Tavern and Dungeon

[Strixaluco]

My parents retired at 63 - normal retirement age for their generation (I have to work until 69). They seem tp pretty much enjoy it, now over a decade later my mom is much better, even more fit than right before retirement.

One should always arrange to have other things life than work.

 

[Trubbycat]

I’m looking to do a soft retirement, part time or expanding a hobby. I knew someone at my old job who worked that way until 80 and is having a great life.

 

[Trubbycat]

My wife had to get rid of bacon fat and instead of throwing it out or worse, pouring it down the drain, mixed it with some peanut butter and some oats and stuffed some pine cones with it. She put them out in the yard and they were destroyed! The squirrels and other creatures were very happy last night.

 

[Strixaluco]

My wife had to get rid of bacon fat and instead of throwing it out or worse, pouring it down the drain, mixed it with some peanut butter and some oats and stuffed some pine cones with it. She put them out in the yard and they were destroyed! The squirrels and other creatures were very happy last night.

When the fat is saltless, that's a brilliant thing to do.

 

[Trubbycat]

When the fat is saltless, that's a brilliant thing to do.

We're trying to minimize waste and be a bit more environmentally sensitive.

 

[Rj_1954]

My parents retired at 63 - normal retirement age for their generation (I have to work until 69). They seem tp pretty much enjoy it, now over a decade later my mom is much better, even more fit than right before retirement.

One should always arrange to have other things life than work.

Normal retirement age in the US is 65, but we can continue working if we want as long as we're productive & healthy. Financially we're OK. It was foresight on my part. Lady K has serious back problems that she's had for years and is now worse.

 

[Rj_1954]

Me on the other hand...I can't live alone. I don't want to. She says I can find another. Till death do us part. If she passes...it will only be a short time...

 

[Strixaluco]

I wouldn't want to live without my partner. Yet I will, if I need to. I've survived breakups, death of a partner... I'll survive in the future.

 

[Trubbycat]

I'm going for my annual physical on Friday. I wonder if I can request a cute nurse for the hernia and prostate test...

 

[Rj_1954]

I wouldn't want to live without my partner. Yet I will, if I need to. I've survived breakups, death of a partner... I'll survive in the future.

But I have no surviving family; I would be totally and utterly alone. I can't comprehend this...I was raised to be self sufficient, but not alone. I'm extroverted, I need to be around people, but they wouldn't understand my lifestyle, like my collar. As it is I get looks, whispers & pointing. Slavery isn't acceptable here

 

[Strixaluco]

But I have no surviving family; I would be totally and utterly alone. I can't comprehend this...I was raised to be self sufficient, but not alone. I'm extroverted, I need to be around people, but they wouldn't understand my lifestyle, like my collar. As it is I get looks, whispers & pointing. Slavery isn't acceptable here

There are reasons why my Dom makes sure my collar isn't visible, if I wear it in public. And if I ever get a day collar to wear constantly, it will be of a model that outsiders will not recognise as such.

But I also don't expect to stay single unless I'm very old. And though my sisters may pass before me, I have my chosen daughter and a couple of young people that are not biological relatives. My chosen daughter even understands my lifestyle (we met in a bdsm munch).

 

[Trubbycat]

Question for Mr. T's ladies...
I was out yesterday and saw a very stylish woman. Her outfit was striking but what really drew my attention was her hair. I assume she was late 30s/early 40s, but it was difficult to tell because her hair was white. As in not naturally gray. I know it's a somewhat popular trend in some circles but it was truly amazing. I can only imagine what it takes to get hair to be that "color."
If you had the opportunity, would you "color" your hair white?

 

[Rj_1954]

There are reasons why my Dom makes sure my collar isn't visible, if I wear it in public. And if I ever get a day collar to wear constantly, it will be of a model that outsiders will not recognise as such.

But I also don't expect to stay single unless I'm very old. And though my sisters may pass before me, I have my chosen daughter and a couple of young people that are not biological relatives. My chosen daughter even understands my lifestyle (we met in a bdsm munch).

Little Owl
This is my only day collar. I never take it off. It's thin enough to be under bigger, showing ones.
It holds a Emerald (her birthstone) pendant with a Amethyst inset on the gem my (birthstone)

 

[BrendaBear]

Question for Mr. T's ladies...
I was out yesterday and saw a very stylish woman. Her outfit was striking but what really drew my attention was her hair. I assume she was late 30s/early 40s, but it was difficult to tell because her hair was white. As in not naturally gray. I know it's a somewhat popular trend in some circles but it was truly amazing. I can only imagine what it takes to get hair to be that "color."
If you had the opportunity, would you "color" your hair white?

I wouldn’t, because I think I would look horrible that way. But one of my closest friends who was naturally a red head, her hair is now absolutely white and it looks wonderful on her.

 

[cascadiabound]

Question for Mr. T's ladies...
I was out yesterday and saw a very stylish woman. Her outfit was striking but what really drew my attention was her hair. I assume she was late 30s/early 40s, but it was difficult to tell because her hair was white. As in not naturally gray. I know it's a somewhat popular trend in some circles but it was truly amazing. I can only imagine what it takes to get hair to be that "color."
If you had the opportunity, would you "color" your hair white?

some people are borrn without hair pigmentation and some go white/grey very early.
I have seen some beautiful makeovers of women who were part white/grey work with a hairdresser to push the color (or lack of color) farther in order to make it look more intentional, embracing the change and making the most of it rather than the sometimes disheartening shift from one color to another in a way that sometimes looks a little frumpy or random.
I have considered doing something like that at some point. Otw I am a natural girl. I don't dye or color my silver strands,but they are getting more numerous every day it seems.

Here's a link to a Pinterest page encouraging people to embrace their silver.
https://pin.it/1JmrSNWUN

Lots of other resources too if you start looking.

 

[Strixaluco]

If you had the opportunity, would you "color" your hair white?

I wouldn't. I haven't even used a hair tone that washes away over time for more than 2 decades - I happen to like my golden brown hair colour.

But my hair will likely turn white, not gray thankfully - at this point it's hard to see as I only have a dozen or two which have lost their colour, but white seems more likely for my colours, and I have it coming from dad's side.

 

[Trubbycat]

Tonight I’m gonna relax and see what I can find streaming…

 

[BrendaBear]

The last wind storm uprooted another of my trees a bit. I had my neighbor who does that kind of work come look at it, and they're going to have to cut it down because it's going to fall down otherwise. He's giving me an awesome rate for taking out the tree, but I'm bummed because I'm losing another tree.

 

[Trubbycat]

I’ve discovered that HBO Max also has TCM. Tonight I’m watching a samurai movie, Lone Wolf and Cub. It was a big series in Japan.

 

[BrendaBear]

I’ve discovered that HBO Max also has TCM. Tonight I’m watching a samurai movie, Lone Wolf and Cub. It was a big series in Japan.

A Samurai movie? Cool! Is Tom Cruise in this one?

*runs out of the room giggling... because I think you'll throw something at me...*

 

[BrendaBear]

 

[Trubbycat]

 

[cascadiabound]

I seriously cannot handle the news.

line em up.
leave the bottle.

Probably best not to talk to me

 

[Rj_1954]

@Trubbycat
How's Winston doing?

 

[Trubbycat]

@Trubbycat
How's Winston doing?

He's a year and a half old, the undisputed King of Chaos.