🧠 What Are Your Intrusive Thoughts Trying to Convince You of Today??

[BeepMahoney]

Call my ex

 

[lliicckkss]

i donno i just exist haha feel like need do something but i did everything so here i am

 

[AtramentousRex]

That I'm boring and unappealing. That it's not worth trying to live a different kind of life and my efforts at change will be in vain.

 

[lliicckkss]

i mean if you stay thinking that way then yeah just try and be persistent

 

[AmberLGreen]

Angel on my left shoulder - “Don’t be a bitch”
Devil on my right shoulder - “They so deserve it”
Angel on my left shoulder - “Give them a chance, it could improve”
Devil on my right shoulder - “You know you are going to do it, so do it now and save us all some time”

 

[cheekygirl75]

Angel on my left shoulder - “Don’t be a bitch”
Devil on my right shoulder - “They so deserve it”
Angel on my left shoulder - “Give them a chance, it could improve”
Devil on my right shoulder - “You know you are going to do it, so do it now and save us all some time”

I didn’t realize you have an angel!

 

[AmberLGreen]

I didn’t realize you have an angel!

You just never see them because their halo outshines them

 

[fitguy930]

Truth or Fiction?

Truth

 

[fsa52]

Truth

My choice too

 

[fitguy930]

My choice too

Always better to know where you stand, yes?

 

[Chillygirl]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

Shit like that is always more about the person saying it than you, though it’s hard to remember I’m sure. I’m sorry - you have a ton to offer!!

 

[lliicckkss]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

And why would you ever listen to someone negative ? dont limit yourself cause someone else' say something how you teally feel about that personally yourself with no outside forces ?

 

[Cruel_summer]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

I’m feeling spicy this week. Just let me have a conversation with this person fuck that

 

[Chillygirl]

Shit like that is always more about the person saying it than you, though it’s hard to remember I’m sure. I’m sorry - you have a ton to offer!!

And why would you ever listen to someone negative ? dont limit yourself cause someone else' say something how you teally feel about that personally yourself with no outside forces ?

Oh I agree with both of you and I’m not taking what was said very seriously but I’m curious why they feel that way and why they felt the need to tell me. It’s who it came from that upsets me more than anything.

 

[Madmar]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer.

My intrusive thoughts tell me that I should tell Chillygirl that she should go tell that person to f*****g f*** right off because cheekygirl75 is right. That projection ish sucks and now my instrusive thoughts are telling me that I probably was guilty of it myself recently.

 

[fsa52]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

Such bull shit! Time for the mental ignore button on that person!

 

[lliicckkss]

Oh I agree with both of you and I’m not taking what was said very seriously but I’m curious why they feel that way and why they felt the need to tell me. It’s who it came from that upsets me more than anything.

that one i cant answer i dont have people around .me like that im quick to cut a foo off fucking up my progression and not up lift me im good on that know your worth society always after someone cause they dont want you be better then then so always try keep you under if they can ....just saying..

 

[Photog1rl]

I'm making all this huge effort to improve my life but what if afterwards nothing changes? Am I better off staying as I am and therefore having reasons for my loneliness so that I don't ever have to face a really uncomfortable truth - that I'll never be good enough to be loved?

You are worthy and deserving of love whether you change or not. All I've ever seen from you is kindness towards others and that speaks volumes. I’ve found the actions I take for myself have only made my life better. The changes may not attract others to me but how the changes make me feel radiates and shows. Plus I am doing it for myself and no one else and there is so much power in that. Be true to yourself and you won't go wrong.

That I am metaphorically homeless. That is much as I enjoy my time here and other places, I don't belong in any of them.

This is such a hard place to be in. These feelings can be overwhelming and build. You belong where ever you are. Life can be isolating but you deserve to take up space and will find somewhere that gives you back what you bring.

I definitely feel this at times... I often feel that I never quite fit in. But I have to just keep being myself and trust that I'll fit where I'm supposed to when the time comes.

Yes! This is so true. The process can be hard but being true to yourself will never fail you.

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

I'm glad you know this isn't true but I still want to tell the person to f#%* off.

 

[BornNorCal]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

Proximally close, but not emotionally close? I hope? Because that's not caring for you or your heart.

 

[Noor]

That thinking about a problem that someone else caused and then made even worse I can somehow resolve without them and that they will deal with it despite their lack of doing it so far, even though they said they would. It’s the first time in a long time that I have lost faith/belief in them and it’s upsetting and unsettling.

 

[Noor]

Someone close to me said I shouldn’t date because I have nothing to offer. So that’s been rattling around in my head for a few days now.

Fuck that noise!

 

[Fiestykitten]

That I’m never gonna be good enough for someone or anything really….

I keep telling myself, chin up.. everything will come together in its time. Just enjoy the world and the little things

It will be ok.

 

[Handydan]

That I’m never gonna be good enough for someone or anything really….

I keep telling myself, chin up.. everything will come together in its time. Just enjoy the world and the little things

It will be ok.

That's good advice.

 

[Wand3rlust]

It's a waste of time.