6 inches ..is it enough

[aswj2g1]

okay this question is for the ladies of lit pretty much....

well i'm 21 and i am a virgin and i have a girlfreind now and she really wants to have sex with me..and i think my penis is pretty good size (6inches long...6 inches around)
i know that's supposed to be the average and whatnot but i guess i 'm looking for some individual opinions on the matter. maybe it just looks smaller to me cause i'm 6'3" 250 pounds ..could u ladies suggest any positions for me to use

 

[Tele2047]

Yes it's fine.

You'll probably start with missionary until you guys get used to each other.

 

[aswj2g1]

missionary?

i was thinking lke missionary but with me standing up and her on her back with her legs wrappeed around me that shouldn,t be to hard should it

 

[Chicklet]

I say let her have a turn on top first; makes it easier on you for your first time, doesn't it?

Instead of asking *us* what positions to use, why don't you let her tell you which ones *she* likes?

What you describe sounds good - lay her down on the bed with her legs wrapped around your waist, you standing on the floor (although you sound tall, you might have to bend your knees uncomfortably if your bed isn't big enough) and her legs wrapped around you, if that's what you like.

Go from there, don't stress about what positions you're going to do, think about it while you're doing it: "maybe if I put her legs here..."

 

[Sting]

Dude...

I got a little over 6 inches myself... and I've never had any complaints. My personal belief is that its quality over quantity... if you know what to do with what you have, you're laughing... and hopefully she's screaming your name over and over.

A missionary-variation my lady likes: pick her legs up and rest them against your chest. Put your penis in and then wrap your arms around her legs, holding them together. My lady LOVES this position.

Good luck!

 

[Chicklet]

A missionary-variation my lady likes: pick her legs up and rest them against your chest. Put your penis in and then wrap your arms around her legs, holding them together. My lady LOVES this position.

I would have suggested this, as well, it's VERY enjoyable, but at the same time I find it almost non-intimate, so wouldn't want to do it my first time with a guy.

 

[AppleBiter]

*waits for Eilan*

 

[dwn2mylst]

With my first time, she was on top. Personally, I loved when she bent all the way over and I could feel her tits pressing against my chest. She would also lick my left ear every now and then. And I don't know why, but I fucking loved that! I wanted her to do reverse cowgirl, but she wasn't into all that shit.

 

[SweetErika]

With my first time, she was on top. Personally, I loved when she bent all the way over and I could feel her tits pressing against my chest. She would also lick my left ear every now and then. And I don't know why, but I fucking loved that! I wanted her to do reverse cowgirl, but she wasn't into all that shit.

Reverse cowgirl is a lot of fun, but it's also not a very intimate position (I tend to think face-to-face contact, being able to touch and kiss is intimate). That may be why she wasn't into it.

 

[Quoll]

*waits for Eilan*

*nods*

 

[Vixandra]

For your first time, follow the K.I.S.S. principal. Keep It Simple Stupid/Silly/"s" word here.

Either have her on top, which is good if she's experianced or at least non-virginal.
Or do a standard missionary with her lying on the bed and you on top of her. There will be plenty of time later to work your way through the Kama Sutra, but you only get one first time. Relax and keep things straight forward.

Remember, condom on before you get inside of her (the pull out and sheath later method isn't reliable). Practice with a few from the box you buy to get the hang of it that way when the time comes its tear-roll-ready to go. Also makes for easy clean up after masturbation.

Good luck.

 

[aswj2g1]

i know what u mean

i been practicing with condoms for like a week i went through a whole box trying to make sure i had it right......i remember her telling me once before that she liked to be picked up when having sex and like put on walls and doors and dressers and all that .....i was thinkin maybe a position like where i sit down indian style but just to the point where my feet are touching and then she sits on me and the way we could still be very intimate and i would be able to look at her the whole time stratigh into her eyse

 

[bisexplicit]

Get the fuck over the size of your penis. No one gives a damn aside from you.

Sorry to be so blunt - but seriously, already.

 

[aswj2g1]

sorry

i just mentioned the size because i wanted to know what positions i could use that's all i know i'm straight on that ..just wanted some position suggestions and comments..i guess i worded my question all wrong though

 

[bisexplicit]

Positions and the size of your penis aren't really related.

 

[Guest]

Dude, if she's more experienced than you, just get her to ride you all the way. It's a first experience you won't be likely to forget. After your first cum, you can think about picking up the kamasutra and going hog wild.
For girls especially, the first time they have sex with someone they are in love with, it's nice for it to be more intimate. Whip out the books and lubes and all that jazz later.
First, have her ride you. It's nice when ur done, cuz u can just cuddle like that too.
I'd suggest ur second to be missionary, make sure you move those hips and grind yourself into her. Not only ur gonna be pushing urself deeper into her, usually her clit gets rubbed also, multyplying her pleasure.Again, it's a nice position to cuddle up afterwards. About ur cock size, 6" is fine. Most ladies i know of go more for the quality then quantity.

 

[Guest]

Positions and the size of your penis aren't really related.

Sorry to disagree with you on there. Unless you have a long dong, spooning is almost impossible.

 

[Guest]

But i agree with you he should get over his penis size. You know men, we have that fragile ego...

 

[bisexplicit]

But i agree with you he should get over his penis size. You know men, we have that fragile ego...

Meh, women have fragile egos, too.

But how many women do you see posting threads saying "Do you think I'm too fat?"

 

[Guest]

Meh, women have fragile egos, too.

But how many women do you see posting threads saying "Do you think I'm too fat?"

True, women also have fragile ego's, but guys i think are more sensitive to that. Women's phyche is just designed to withstand a blow like that better than guys. That's all...

 

[bisexplicit]

True, women also have fragile ego's, but guys i think are more sensitive to that. Women's phyche is just designed to withstand a blow like that better than guys. That's all...

Women's psyche are designed to better withstand a blow?

You cannot be meaning that women innately have better self-esteem...

 

[Guest]

Women's psyche are designed to better withstand a blow?

You cannot be meaning that women innately have better self-esteem...

Well,maybe not using fancy words, but something like that. At least 90% of women that i know are far better equipped than a guy to deal with something like that. There's chocolate, friends, cleanex, "Sex and the City", everything to make you feel better or ot as bad. For guys there's... porn i guess.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Well,maybe not using fancy words, but something like that. At least 90% of women that i know are far better equipped than a guy to deal with something like that. There's chocolate, friends, cleanex, "Sex and the City", everything to make you feel better or ot as bad. For guys there's... porn i guess.

There's porn, baseball, football, basketball, darts, drinks with the guys, and the perennial favorite - pouring your heart out to a female friend who's probably half in love with you but you ignore her for women who laugh at your penis size.

 

[bisexplicit]

There's porn, baseball, football, basketball, darts, drinks with the guys, and the perennial favorite - pouring your heart out to a female friend who's probably half in love with you but you ignore her for women who laugh at your penis size.

Excellently said.

 

[TBKahuna123]

OK ok ok, come on now, let's not get another scortching penis size debate going! I too was waiting to see who'd jump in first Bi or Eilan, but this thread is a touch different. This guy's stated he's a virgin, so obviously inexperienced. Hell when I was that age I thought 6 inches was small too, because the only experience I'd had was with porn, and we all know how realistic that is. Give the kid a break, he wasn't asking how to make it bigger, just basically if size mattered. Remember, we're here to educate the young, amongst other things.

So now that you never have to worry about the size of your cock again, on to positions. I would defintely keep it simple for your first time. Either go missionary or with her on top. You don't have to try everything at once, get your bearings the first time. Hopefully you'll have many more encounters to explore other positions. Keep it simple so your first time has less pressure, it'll be more fun.

One other thing, more important than positions, if you aren't orally experienced, do some research. I firmly believe that the most important thing a man can learn is to orally satisfy your lover. If you've given her a good tongue lashing or two, most women will forgive any minor mistakes you may make along the way to losing your virginity. Am I wrong ladies?