A Girl's First Time

[Succulent-one]

It happened in the back seat of his fathers pride and joy a cherry red chevelle with white leather interior. Boy was that a mistake. First of all it hurt like all get out, and I was really turned on. We had been making out for hours before hand. He was quite large, and I was quite tight. Plus I bled like a stuck pig. Needless to say the car was a disaster. It took him a whole day to clean it. I felt it was just punishment to him....LOL I was sore for several days. But the sheer joy of giving my virginity to a man I loved was wonderful. I felt like a complete woman.


Anyway tips.....foreplay foreplay and more foreplay. Make sure she is relaxed and really ready for lovemaking. Use lube it will keep tearing to a minimum. Keep a towel ready and a soft wash cloth. If she is tight like me, there is a fine line between going too slow and making it hurt worse. Remember you are tearing through a piece of skin. How would you like it??? Once you are in take it easy and dont pump her like a wild man, let her get used to you. Heck, just have fun. It will all work it's way out if you love each other.

 

[Lovepotion69]

It's of course different for everyone. Personally I didn't feel any pain at all. I wasn't expecting to either as I suspected my hymen was already broken. It did feel a bit tensed when he pushed into me, but not that bad. I was just not used to the feeling.

Make her feel relaxed (and you too!). Foreplay, get her really wet (I mean REALLY wet) and then take it slow. Be attentive to her. If she tenses up when you're pushing into her, take a small break until she says it's ok to continue. Communicate with each other.

Maybe you can make her have an orgasm before you actually enter her. That would help with the lubrication and she'll be much more relaxed.