A great hand job?

[tythisredheadup]

I have been requested to give a hand job. I tend to get bored very easily while giving a hand job and just putting my mouth around it and let my tongue do the work. Now, this is fine, I'm sure for most men, but this one wants just a great hand job.

Any tips or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!

 

[cg_allstar]

I have been requested to give a hand job. I tend to get bored very easily while giving a hand job and just putting my mouth around it and let my tongue do the work. Now, this is fine, I'm sure for most men, but this one wants just a great hand job.

Any tips or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!

Tip #1: Don't stop stroking until after he comes.

 

[ChromeCollar]

Dont just use your hand? Use your mouth, palm, tongue, lips, be creative. Lotion, or flavored lube works great too. Provides a nice slickness that is easy to work with.

I find that a slow rotation of the wrist as you are stroking up and down the shaft makes him squirm a little in pleasure.

 

[P. B. Walker]

A really good handjob is a thing of beauty and can really make a guy come very hard.

I'd highly suggest using lube.

Vary your strokes, speed, grip, pressure, direction, and angle. There are so many different way of stroking a cock. If you get really good at it, a man will be complete putty in your hands and you will have the ability to control his level of excitment and he'll only cum when you choose to let him cum (all while keeping as close to the edge as possible).

And then there is the whole touching, stroking, playing with the balls and upper legs, hell the whole crotch region.

And then the ass... oh yeah... a finger in the ass during a handjob is a whole nother world. Not so much better, just very different.

I bet you can could find different strokes to use on the web, or in a book. I once heard of a class where a woman taught other women how to give a good handjob and blowjob.

But I think in the end it'll be up to you to just try new things and practice, practice, practice.

 

[Mikey_TF]

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&ie=UTF-8&q=how+to+give+a+hand+job&btnG=Google+Search

 

[Willing and Unsure]

first off..... I agree with P.B., just beware of putting anything in the ass. not every guy is okay with that, no matter how turned on he may be.

Another thing you may consider... and this was told to me by a guy some time ago..... ya know what, pm me and I'll share. I dont want a certain someone scoping this out to find some of my secrets

 

[curiousjen]

I find a way to make giving hand jobs more enjoyable for myself is to really concentrate on the nuances of his reactions. I'm lucky because my SO is very responsive, but most people react in some way. Anyway, you can have many fun and erotic games just playing with his reactions, speeding up or slowing down, adjusting pressure, different wrist actions etc. These are more than enough to keep me interested. For me, the enjoyment changed when my attitude did: If you start to view a good hand job as a challange, almost an art form, then for me it becomes much more interesting than just a quick way to get his rocks off- or a BJ's inferior cousin.

Having said that, you can't beat a good BlowJob

 

[phoenix1224]

Another thing you may consider... and this was told to me by a guy some time ago..... ya know what, pm me and I'll share. I dont want a certain someone scoping this out to find some of my secrets

Meanie...

 

[tythisredheadup]

Re: Re: A great hand job?

Tip #1: Don't stop stroking until after he comes.

Duh...

 

[zhukov1943]

Start gently - with light touches and caresses. Then, you can rachet the friction up a bit, as he gets warmed up. Encourage him to be vocal about it, so that you can gauge his excitement, and slow it down or speed it up, appropriately. Whispering in his ear and nibbling a bit on his ear and neck might help set the mood, too...

Too often, women will grab a cock and squeeze it like they're trying to get the last dab of toothpaste out of the tube! Yeowtch! And that goes DOUBLE for the balls - please, PLEASE don't SQUEEZE!

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Well a couple of things come to mind

Pace yourself. You don't want to get too tired when you are almost there. This may take some time to build up stamina. I don't think your partner will mind you practicing. Feel free to talk (positively ) about his cock. "Wow it is soo hard" Tell him how it feels notice the color changes.

Kneel over is legs so that you can look at his cock and face while you are stroking him. If you feel so motivated masturbate while you are giving him a hand job.

I will repeat what someone said before. Don't stop stroking when he cums. Keep stroking even after he cums. Let him tell you when to stop. When I was younger (haven't tried this in years so I don't know if I can still do it) I could cum from a hand job and if she continued to stroke me I would not lose my erection. You need a lot of stamina in you arms and hands for this. However sometimes when a guy cums he gets ultra sensitive around the cock head so don't be surprized if he asks you to stop stroking.

Whatever you do Have fun and enjoy this. You have the oppertunity to give this person a great amount of pleasure. And that can't happen if you are not enjoying yourself.

Good luck and please share the details with us

Holden

 

[Willing and Unsure]

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=852


Just a suggested story to read. It's not exactly about a hand job, but it does hold a bit of info to it. I found it to be rather helpful when I was first starting out with a guy.... hopefully this will help you too.

 

[tuscannights]

The perfect handjob...

tythisredheadup ...don't rush it, use lube, and work lightly on the head of his cock with your thumb. Using a motion similar to rubbing a stone between your thumb and first finger. Watch his reaction when you play with the head, using just enough pressure to get him to moan or begin breathing hard. The idea is to get his precum flowing freely but not letting him cum. With practice his precum will flow so much you won't need lube. The best part is that he gets bigger, harder, and shots sooooo much cum it's amazing. There are some great web sites on hand jobs that my wife and I use. Do a Google on how to do a hand job that how we found it. Stroking the shaft is great, but for an intense orgasm this is the way to do it.

 

[manofsteel52]

There are soooo many people and so many different ways each derives pleasure, that things like a "knock your socks off" hand job almost have to be tailor made to the individual. There has been a great deal of good advise given already on technique and different nuances that men enjoy.

I'll give you a couple of the very important ingredients that would do it for me.

*Start out slowly, for both you and for him. As has been mentioned, you need to pace yourself, but also for his enjoyment, it's better to start slowly to get him aroused, don't start of pumping fast & furious. that's more of a turn off than a turn on. Save that for the grand finale...

*Absolute #1 most important thing - enjoy yourself! If you're into it and enjoying what you're doing, he's gonna love it! If it's drudgery to you, he'll sense it and you'll have to work a lot harder just to get him off. I can just say that for me, the more she's enjoying any sexual activity we're engaged in, the better it is for me.

 

[sharpchick]

Just a preference for me. . . I have him get comfortable, and put his legs in a V (out toward me), then I put mine in a V over his, so that my crotch is pretty close to his balls. I usually double a pillow over behind me to support my lower back. I get less tired that way, because I really love slowing things down, and watching his face through the different sensations. That position also lets me play with one of his nipples with my free hand, and change hands if I want to, have easy access to his ass, etc. Then he can have his choice of where he cums - on my tits, in my mouth, in my hand. . . well, you get the picture.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I have been requested to give a hand job. I tend to get bored very easily while giving a hand job and just putting my mouth around it and let my tongue do the work. Now, this is fine, I'm sure for most men, but this one wants just a great hand job.

Any tips or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!

alot of stamina in the hand would be greeeat

 

[Spenser41]

OH BOY!

My favorite subject. There is really nothing more I could add to this but I think it is awesome that a woman would want to do this for her guy.
Just as a woman has different kinds of climaxes, so does a man. The climax from intercourse... oral ... and handjob... are all different. And it depends on who is giving it. But if a person really enjoys it, they can make it so awesome for the male.
Yes lots of massaging of the balls as well. ANd some men will not like a finger in the ass but to massage that area just as a man is cumming is AWESOME.
So have fun and just know you will be making him one happy guy!

 

[Spenser41]

OK here

Try this link.
Great information
And down near the bottom of the page are different ways to give one...

http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/manstim.html

 

[tythisredheadup]

Thank you, Spence. You came thru for me once again.

Also, I thank everyone for the great tips!

 

[MercyMia]

Is it too late to pipe in with this:

Use some nice smelling hand lotion to ease the friction.
As a variation, still with your hand in a fist, use your index and middle fingers to circle him as you stroke. Keep a firm grip on him. (Wish I could demonstrate, heh heh!)
When he starts cumming and he's thrashing and moaning, moan along with him--it sort of gets a symbiosis going.

 

[sheath]

I like this thread. I love to give handjobs...they are so very underrated. I feel so close to him when I do it.

I've always liked talking to him while I do it...whispering in his ear and asking what he likes, what he doesn't. Maybe let him show me how he does it for himself, and then imitate him? Lube is always good. A gentle stroke, becoming more firm the closer to orgasm he gets, is good too...

Cup his head and run your palm all over it...in a slow, twisting motion. That always gets a reaction. And don't just focus on his cock...his whole body needs attention. When you find something that makes him shiver, go back to it while varying your stroke...and watch him shiver some more.

Whispering naughty things in his ear as he is about to come is one of my favorite things to do.

God Almighty, but I want to get my hands on that man right NOW...*sigh*

S.

 

[RobynG]

It just so happens I have been giving more that my share of handjobs recently. I hadn't given one in years when a guy asked me to while parking at a local park in the evening. I had expected to go down on him, but his request surprised me. It was quite an experience and I found I really liked it! We've done it several times since, always in the car though. I think it's his thing!

 

[FieryVixen]

Blow jobs are more my thing than hand jobs, however I have a book that gives an excellent technique to try. The book is called Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man...I love that book! It talks about a technique called "Up, Twist, Over, and Down."

You might head to a bookstore and glance through it. I would repeat it here, but without permission from the author and/or publisher, I'm a bit wary.

 

[Spenser41]

Thank you, Spence. You came thru for me once again.

Also, I thank everyone for the great tips!

You are more then welcome ... I aim to please. And that fact that you want to be good a handjobs is great. I LOVE THEM! Man I wish I was getting one right now.... mmmmmmmmmm

 

[Spenser41]

Is it too late to pipe in with this:

Use some nice smelling hand lotion to ease the friction.
As a variation, still with your hand in a fist, use your index and middle fingers to circle him as you stroke. Keep a firm grip on him. (Wish I could demonstrate, heh heh!)
When he starts cumming and he's thrashing and moaning, moan along with him--it sort of gets a symbiosis going.

MIA Wow hon... I love that about you... WOO HOO Baby! ME next!