A great hand job?

[James G 5]

Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

The gentlemen who requested it must have not been serious about it. Oh, well... I'm sure there are some takers...

I'll volunteer to take his place
I'd hate for all that research to have been for nothing
It's a hardship, but I'm here to help

 

[sxylegs]

Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

The gentlemen who requested it must have not been serious about it. Oh, well... I'm sure there are some takers...

I think I have more guys asking for hand jobs than blow jobs....
I think the hand jobs are more rare......women are more into blow jobs.....

 

[sobesundevil]

Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

I think I have more guys asking for hand jobs than blow jobs....
I think the hand jobs are more rare......women are more into blow jobs.....

until recently i've actually fantasized of hand jobs more than i did of blow jobs... they just appealed to me more. changed my mind a little bit since then... not sure what exactly did that! maybe it's all that porn i've been watching!

 

[bookworm69]

Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

I think I have more guys asking for hand jobs than blow jobs....
I think the hand jobs are more rare......women are more into blow jobs.....

i'm not surprised . . . a good blow job, without use of teeth and such, is hard to find. whereas a handjob is kind of hard to mess up. i think.

 

[sxylegs]

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i'm not surprised . . . a good blow job, without use of teeth and such, is hard to find. whereas a handjob is kind of hard to mess up. i think.

I think also a hand job can be more creative......a blow job is just a blow job......since I have never felt what it feels like.......I give good blow jobs, and i kinda enjoy them......but i can watch when i give a hand job and really get into it.......it turns me on cause i can also see the guy enjoying it so much.....and i think there are other buttons you can push with your hands......

 

[sxylegs]

Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

i'm not surprised . . . a good blow job, without use of teeth and such, is hard to find. whereas a handjob is kind of hard to mess up. i think.

that sounds like you have not had bad sex....you would be surprised what is so easy is able to be messed up.......like going down on a woman......

!)find clit.......
now that is the one most screw up on.....LOL

Have a good one!!!!

 

[sobesundevil]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

I think also a hand job can be more creative......a blow job is just a blow job......since I have never felt what it feels like.......I give good blow jobs, and i kinda enjoy them......but i can watch when i give a hand job and really get into it.......it turns me on cause i can also see the guy enjoying it so much.....and i think there are other buttons you can push with your hands......

i think the two can be an amazing experience when combined! stroke, lick, suck, etc...

i think it really sucks that most mainstream videos only have one or the other.

 

[sxylegs]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

i think the two can be an amazing experience when combined! stroke, lick, suck, etc...

i think it really sucks that most mainstream videos only have one or the other.

It is cool when you combine the two things.....but it really is a good hand job with lube.....and Im not into going down with lube all over it......

 

[sobesundevil]

true... although me and my partners have, on occasion, licked each others' bodies with flavoured lubes on them, and they were alright. not my favourite dessert, but in the heat of the moment, everything worked quite well!

 

[bookworm69]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

that sounds like you have not had bad sex....you would be surprised what is so easy is able to be messed up.......like going down on a woman......

!)find clit.......
now that is the one most screw up on.....LOL

Have a good one!!!!

you are totally right on both counts: handjobs can be deliciously creative. and finding a clit may be a little difficult. BUT once you found it - - you got it licked! (sorry about that ol' pun)

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

I find a way to make giving hand jobs more enjoyable for myself is to really concentrate on the nuances of his reactions. I'm lucky because my SO is very responsive, but most people react in some way. Anyway, you can have many fun and erotic games just playing with his reactions, speeding up or slowing down, adjusting pressure, different wrist actions etc. These are more than enough to keep me interested. For me, the enjoyment changed when my attitude did: If you start to view a good hand job as a challange, almost an art form, then for me it becomes much more interesting than just a quick way to get his rocks off- or a BJ's inferior cousin.

Having said that, you can't beat a good BlowJob

Have to disagree here, for myself at least handjobs are vastly perferable to oral. I perfer the sensations more in handjobs, thats just me though ^_^

-Zergplex

 

[Zergplex]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

that sounds like you have not had bad sex....you would be surprised what is so easy is able to be messed up.......like going down on a woman......

!)find clit.......
now that is the one most screw up on.....LOL

Have a good one!!!!

I am REALLY confused at how most men find this difficult to find

actually.... what really scared me was a female friend of mine who never could find her clit and I had to describe how to find it for her.... god sexual education in this state sucks.

-Zergplex

 

[James G 5]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

I am REALLY confused at how most men find this difficult to find

actually.... what really scared me was a female friend of mine who never could find her clit and I had to describe how to find it for her.... god sexual education in this state sucks.

-Zergplex

Hey, that's what Lit is here for LOL

 

[Zergplex]

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Hey, that's what Lit is here for LOL

Well I did point her over here, though she is an irregular poster ^_~

-Zergplex

 

[Willing and Unsure]

okay, here's my trick since he's experienced it now to know...


basically, you're going to use a lot of saliva. Lube will work, but it's not quite as effective. Let a lot of the saliva out of your mouth on his cock and start to stroke him. Keep a firm grip (you'll think it's almost too tight) and rotate the hand about (like bending the wrist so your fingers point in towards your wrist) and back again while you go up and down. He'll be dying and most likely swear it's almost as good as sex. Hope this helps.

 

[drumlinecowboy]

my gf just gave me one last night. it wasnt bad considering we had no lube and coundnt make a sound (my roomate was sleeping cross the room). she just stayed low on the shaft and used her fingers round my head. took a few min but i made me happy man.

 

[Alice_In_Chains]

Don't do it too roughly. I say touch me how thee likes to be touched.

Gently stroking it like a feather touched. Take your hand and move your hand up and down the shaft lightly. Spit on yoru hands

 

[Goldie Munro]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, now it doesn't matter...

I am REALLY confused at how most men find this difficult to find

actually.... what really scared me was a female friend of mine who never could find her clit and I had to describe how to find it for her.... god sexual education in this state sucks.

-Zergplex

LOL - A female friend of mine went to the doctors because she thought she had some kind of spot down there - it was her clit and she was in her 20s