A Place 🤍 for The Girl Next Door ☕️🌷

[LustfulIntentions2]

For the record-speaking of sweet. This is right up there.

 

[StacyLeigh]

For the record-speaking of sweet. This is right up there.

You’ve been hanging around here too much...my sweetness is softing you . (Not in THAT way! Haha)

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

You’ve been hanging around here too much...my sweetness is softing you . (Not in THAT way! Haha)

There's a dirty joke in here about never going soft on you, but I'll let someone more crass than I make it.

 

[StacyLeigh]

This one bums me out quite a bit...

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[smtst5]

This one bums me out quite a bit...

Like most players traded to Toronto, he will be back in Pittsburgh in a year or two.

 

[QuietCanadian]

This one. Yes.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Like most players traded to Toronto, he will be back in Pittsburgh in a year or two.

Why can’t this be true of Las Vegas!

This one. Yes.

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[StacyLeigh]

Ramblings...

Aloof. It’s a word that has been used to describe me so many times that I’ve even started using it myself…as I feel it’s inevitable to come up.

I’ve been told that I (possibly) use my imaginary charm to wrap guys around my finger… <looks at fingers….and they look pretty empty>

I’ve been told that I let people in just enough to slam the door in their faces. This might actually be true, but not intentional…I just prefer to wait for those with the key

This weekend I received a PM from someone whose supposed crush on me turned to contempt when I was “too hard to get”. First of all, the catching has been done. Secondly, I didn’t realize I was supposed to be easy prey.

Do guys really want the easy catch?

Speaking for myself – I certainly don’t. Even my list of fictional loves (Mr. Darcy, Jay Gatsby, Jess Marino, Sherlock, Dr. House, etc…) is a list of reserved and distant SOBs.

There is a massive difference (in effort and enjoyment) between reeling in the easy catch and searching for the right piece to interlock your puzzle.

 

[StacyLeigh]

 

[QuietCanadian]

Well, my plan has been outted.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Well, my plan has been outted.

It was a solid plan

 

[hotcpu]

So much about the statement and picture to Love!!

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

My two cents, for whatever they may be worth- I don’t know that it’s so much about the ‘easy catch’ as some people don’t want to put in the effort to connect emotionally with anyone, because there’s vulnerability in that. And our society conditions men to conquer, not partner or be vulnerable.

As for that hostility, all I can say is: stop being such a heartbreaker

 

[Lonelywife1205]

You know what you’re looking for, not everyone does. That makes it easier to see when someone isn’t it. They either have the key or they don’t. Keep slamming those doors on the ones who don’t. Be picky, it’s worth it, even if sometimes you feel like you’ve waited so long your vagina may shrivel up and die.

 

[StacyLeigh]

As for that hostility, all I can say is: stop being such a heartbreaker

So....you’re telling me that it’s MY fault?! kidding!

You know what you’re looking for, not everyone does. That makes it easier to see when someone isn’t it. They either have the key or they don’t. Keep slamming those doors on the ones who don’t. Be picky, it’s worth it, even if sometimes you feel like you’ve waited so long your vagina may shrivel up and die.

You’re so sweet and positive, LW

I don’t normally share like this....but between you, me, and the 4 people who read this ...I’m feeling quite lucky - my vagina is anything but dead right now so my door slamming pickiness has paid off

 

[JerseyJade]

I don’t normally share like this....but between you, me, and the 4 people who read this ...

Um... 5 people.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

 

[OttawaGuy50s]

Aloof. It’s a word that has been used to describe me so many times that I’ve even started using it myself…as I feel it’s inevitable to come up.

I’ve been told that I (possibly) use my imaginary charm to wrap guys around my finger… <looks at fingers….and they look pretty empty>

I’ve been told that I let people in just enough to slam the door in their faces. This might actually be true, but not intentional…I just prefer to wait for those with the key

This weekend I received a PM from someone whose supposed crush on me turned to contempt when I was “too hard to get”. First of all, the catching has been done. Secondly, I didn’t realize I was supposed to be easy prey.

Do guys really want the easy catch?

Speaking for myself – I certainly don’t. Even my list of fictional loves (Mr. Darcy, Jay Gatsby, Jess Marino, Sherlock, Dr. House, etc…) is a list of reserved and distant SOBs.

There is a massive difference (in effort and enjoyment) between reeling in the easy catch and searching for the right piece to interlock your puzzle.

Well, first off, that sucks that he said that. "Too hard to get" means he ain't trying hard enough. Anything worth having is worth working for. I actually hate that term "working for" though - there should be no "working" - you either connect or you don't. It should be organic. If you have to chase someone, stop. You should be running towards each other and not one chasing the other.

I thought I had a connection with someone on Lit but it turns out she acted on a whim and wasn't "as into it" as I was. So be it, I was misled, or perhaps mistaken by her actions. I have subsequently found someone that is "into me", and it's been fabulous.

So, make the connection first and don't act on a whim. I f he/she thinks it too much work (to what? Get your pants off?), then it isn't worth your while. Keep lookin'.

Stacy - I tilt my head and smile at every gif you post. I absolutely love your insight. You certainly have the vision of what it means to give yourself to someone, and have that same returned to you. The mutual emotion and commitment is very clear and heartfelt in your posts.

Keep on being you.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Um... 5 people.

I mean, 6, easily.

 

[Lonelywife1205]