A question for the BBW's out there

[sandcannon]

What do you ladies think of BBM's?

 

[Christopher2012]

Big Black Men?

 

[RoxyChick69]

i prefer...

....men of substance! As opposed to someone who is thin and lanky. I am a woman with generous curves, and I prefer men with broad chests, strong arms, and ... well, you know.

 

[sandcannon]

no no, I mean fat guys.

 

[Christopher2012]

....men of substance! As opposed to someone who is thin and lanky. I am a woman with generous curves, and I prefer men with broad chests, strong arms, and ... well, you know.

no no, I mean fat guys.

ROFL Dude that was my first thought, too. Big, muscular guys! WT-Crap? That's like saying, I like BBW's who are properly proportioned!

 

[sandcannon]

Exactly. What do BBW's think of Fat men?

 

[sandcannon]

BUMP


I really want an answer to this one, Ladies.

Either that or I can assume that every BBW who's read this suddenly realized they wouldnt date/nail a fat man.

 

[knuckingfutz]

Don't think I quite qualify as BBW depends on your qualifications. But Big men, who carry themselves with confidence are very sexy

 

[sandcannon]

Don't think I quite qualify as BBW depends on your qualifications. But Big men, who carry themselves with confidence are very sexy

and if he just happens to be fat?

 

[knuckingfutz]

that's what I thought you meant by big? So yes a big, fluffy, fat, cuddly, chubby or whatever word you wanna call can be very sexy. Just a big woman can be as well.

 

[BDA73]

hey ya'll fat guys have feelings and need sex too

 

[Christopher2012]

that's what I thought you meant by big? So yes a big, fluffy, fat, cuddly, chubby or whatever word you wanna call can be very sexy. Just a big woman can be as well.

Yeah dude, she's right.

What I find weird is that it's almost like you can change a woman's opinion of you by what you say.

For instance with men, if you see a woman, 90% of what determines if you're attracted to her comes from her looks. Whereas with women, their opinion of what's hot can be alters in how he acts.

Honestly, it doesn't make sense to me.... but I'm a dude. So I dunno.

 

[knuckingfutz]

Yeah dude, she's right.

What I find weird is that it's almost like you can change a woman's opinion of you by what you say.

For instance with men, if you see a woman, 90% of what determines if you're attracted to her comes from her looks. Whereas with women, their opinion of what's hot can be alters in how he acts.

Honestly, it doesn't make sense to me.... but I'm a dude. So I dunno.

He has a point. For myself it's alot of how a man carries himself that makes him sexy. And what he says. If you have a sex pack and your complete took I don't care. If you wear a 44 waist but with confidence and you head held high and can hold a good conversation then you've got a shot.

 

[Christopher2012]

He has a point. For myself it's alot of how a man carries himself that makes him sexy. And what he says. If you have a sex pack and your complete took I don't care. If you wear a 44 waist but with confidence and you head held high and can hold a good conversation then you've got a shot.

Well damn, I'm pretty close.

 

[lynnmci]

.......

 

[purejoy]

I am a plus sized woman and a love men of all shapes and sizes. What really matters to me is if the man likes to have fun and treats me well. A healthy sexual appetite helps as well.

 

[misfitme]

love them

i have been with both small guys and bigger guys being a bbw i would take a big guy any day

 

[Celtics4Life]

Well...

Girls that have no issue with a guy being big is always a plus in my book. I think everyone, big people and skinny people need love. I am a bigger guy and trust me I have no lack in confidence. I try not to be cocky or anything I just know I'm a good guy.

 

[meattyhead]

Girls that have no issue with a guy being big is always a plus in my book. I think everyone, big people and skinny people need love. I am a bigger guy and trust me I have no lack in confidence. I try not to be cocky or anything I just know I'm a good guy.

I hear ya mate

 

[rcthumper]

I agree, with men of all sizes can turn me on. The wit, and the way he treats people are so much sexier then a buff man that is a jerk!

 

[Guttergoddess]

While I go for a guys personality first...I just can't bring myself to stay in a relationship with a skinny guy...I'm always afraid I'm gonna break him...plus all those bones poke! (and not the one I like). I need a guy who when I lay my head on his lap..I don't feel like I'm at Ephrata Cloister (look it up on the web to get the joke)

 

[DirtyLittleDiva85]

I am a very confident BBW, and I like men of all sizes. I don't have a type, because there's soooo much more to a man that what you see at first glance. I've dated guys who are short, tall, skinny, big... all of them. I look for someone who, like the others sad, carries himself well. I'm attracted to someone who can handle me in the bedroom... some guys who weigh 180 were better at it than some of the bigger guys. It's gotta be a man who I don't feel like I'll break if I hug too tight, but different guys have different physical strengths.

I feel like I'm rambling, lol... and I am. Basically, I do love what I've always known as BHM (big handsome men), just the same as I could love a "twig," so to speak. It's all about what kind of person they are!

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

I feel the same way about this issue as the BBW issue... There are several factors that can come into play when it comes to "does that fat guy turn me on or not?"
Obviously the first one is what everyone else said, it's a lot about personality and confidence.
The second part in my opinion is general health and well being. Sorry guys but with very few exceptions, if you're 450 lbs, you aren't a healthy dude and that's not attractive and relationships are physically difficult to have.
Just my two cents.

 

[1gr8tlady]

Personality is much more important than looks to me. I like a man that treats everyone with respect. Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh. And also I like to sit back an watch how he reacts in different situations..
So my answer would be size is not as important as personality

 

[Celtics4Life]

It puts a smile on my face to see all the ladies giving us bigger guys support . I see a lot of BBW threads that get some love but the ones about the bigger guys looking for people get shunned away. So thank you ladies for your support. And make sure all of you just do one thing.. stay sexy. I love woman of all sizes. As long as you have a personality and a good head on your shoulders your good with me.