A Question for the Men

[ShaneoD]

And that, ShaneoD, is the sweet spot

Just for my own curiosity you call the sweet spot having the guy want/need to get off but not be in a position to?

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Just for my own curiosity you call the sweet spot having the guy want/need to get off but not be in a position to?

Managing to keep him there to enhance the release when he has it. How quickly that happens is subjective to how long he wants to ride that wave. Some guys like to extend that sensation for awhile...and I'd never complain

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Shameless bump.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

This is something I’ve always wanted to do but was with a partner who was not into it. There is something about giving up control, being denied the release, that drives me insane.

Now that I’m single I’m looking for a relationship that can fulfill that desire…

Good goal to strive for

 

[Hotpass]

Orgasm has always felt secondary to me. Not that i dont want to cum but for me it isnt the focus. The pleasure and arousal is in the acts leading up to it not the ending. My focus is usually in the moment not on the finish line. May also have something to do with being able to have multiple orgams without losing arousal or increased sensitivity. I find way more pleasure in just enjoying the dance itself rather than trying to reach or prolong orgasm. A weird response i know. Just thought id share.

 

[Kitschshaman]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

I don't think I ever have, in the sense that you mean. I've been so excited after a very extended session that when she kissed me I gushed like a fountain without being touched, that against my will and never wanting the time to end. I'm almost certain my reaction was unintended, for she had never directly or blatantly teased, but everything took so very long. Perhaps she was just more subtle than I thought anyone could ever be. That was years ago and was never repeated, much to my chagrin. As you say, the memories...
xoxo


https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5b82ca794dde1

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I don't think I ever have, in the sense that you mean. I've been so excited after a very extended session that when she kissed me I gushed like a fountain without being touched, that against my will and never wanting the time to end. I'm almost certain my reaction was unintended, for she had never directly or blatantly teased, but everything took so very long. Perhaps she was just more subtle than I thought anyone could ever be. That was years ago and was never repeated, much to my chagrin. As you say, the memories...
xoxo


https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5b82ca794dde1

Thank you Kitschshaman

 

[Mav Unlimited]

The answer would have to be never before in the past…

 

[Kitschshaman]

Thank you Kitschshaman

you are quite quite welcome, my lady...

and, if it's not too much, another small gift...

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5fcbdca6b8718



k

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

Though I do not meet your preferences (as a married man) I love the way you describe this. I have never in the flesh expirenced this, though
Some online expiriences have come close. Unfortunately, a dominant woman who can and is willing to do this kind of thing is hard to find, which I get , it is a labour and time intensive way of having fun, though I think with the right sub, it shoumd also be very gratifying for the Domme.

Love,

Thom

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Last Sunday of November bump, lol

 

[Switchfeminineman]

Recently learned

I’ve recently learned what it means to be so desperate for release I’m willing to do what my mistress says. I’m not owned, but had an experience through email. Eventually, I was willing to try things I never thought I’d be willing to try.. all for the sake of release. Edging is a powerful drug..

I don’t know if I like how used I felt after a couple sessions. It can be humiliating to reach a point of desperation that it feels like I’m begging for attention. I don’t personally enjoy humiliation so I need a lot of aftercare. Just my two cents..

 

[mssweetangelina]

I’ve recently learned what it means to be so desperate for release I’m willing to do what my mistress says. I’m not owned, but had an experience through email. Eventually, I was willing to try things I never thought I’d be willing to try.. all for the sake of release. Edging is a powerful drug..

I don’t know if I like how used I felt after a couple sessions. It can be humiliating to reach a point of desperation that it feels like I’m begging for attention. I don’t personally enjoy humiliation so I need a lot of aftercare. Just my two cents..

Interesting perspective. I definitely agree that aftercare is crucial.

 

[Pliantjoed]

Early in lockdown my wife found porn on my phone. The cuckold forced bi sort of porn. One night she walked into the bedroom and sat on my face. She rode my tongue until she exploded all the while stroking me. I was so close and she knew it. She stopped and slapped my balls. Told me I had to prove to her that I loved her body before I could release. She left it up to me to find a way to prove that I wasn’t stroking when she left. That’s when a cock cage entered the picture. She has the key and every night for two weeks she would ride me tongue in various positions while toying with me. After two weeks of torment she finally let me release. It was bittersweet as the joy of the climax was overshadowed by her instantly putting the cage back on. I realized that it was more than two weeks to prove things to her.

That ended about 6 months ago but I find myself fondly recalling those times when I am alone and things are quiet.

 

[sohc52]

Spanking

Does your use include bare bottomed spankings across your lap?

 

[lady_jennaxx]

New Year, new bump

 

[_Scott_]

I incorporate it in to my life a lot, I would say. Would be very much up for a chat to share experiences. Have sent you a message.

 

[mugsgame]

A bump for the Mademoiselle.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

A bump for the Mademoiselle.

Thank you

 

[mugsgame]

A bump for the Mademoiselle.

 

[falkor207]

I've never done this , but you've just described my ultimate fantasy scenario. Just need a partner who's willing and skilled to control me.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

A bump for the Mademoiselle.

So kind, mugsgame

 

[Michael5105k]

It's been a while

When was the last time I was properly used, if ever?
That would have been nine years ago. It was 2 years after my wife passed and I fell in with a fairly wicked woman online. She got me to feel again and to find a purpose. It is a long story but, it concluded with being a weekend slave and at the end I was given a choice between being a 24/7 slave or not at all. I know I made the right decision but I miss it as well.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

When was the last time I was properly used, if ever?
That would have been nine years ago. It was 2 years after my wife passed and I fell in with a fairly wicked woman online. She got me to feel again and to find a purpose. It is a long story but, it concluded with being a weekend slave and at the end I was given a choice between being a 24/7 slave or not at all. I know I made the right decision but I miss it as well.

Glad you were able to partake in the experience

 

[2_KINKY_FUCKERS]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

My wife and reason for being, the lovely and malevolent Madam K, torments me at least a few times a week. She can be brutal and I'm a lucky man for it!