A Question for the Men

[Bubble3]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

Nope, never been edged or teased. Sure as hell wish I had been at some point. It always feels like that would be the best orgasm when you have to beg for it.

 

[bicuriousinnnj]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

I'm 38 prof male / single since divorce / lifelong Dom. Recently learned I have a deep yearning to be a total sub.

I'm willing to fully submit to a proper Mistress as I beg for release.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Weekend bump

 

[irishblade]

I’ve never been used. It’s unbelievably difficult to find women in real life (hell even online play) who are into that.

 

[Kinky_boy_23]

Still waiting for something like this to happen. Best I got was over kik when i edged so much I had to beg to let me cum.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

New month, same bump.

 

[falkor207]

So I asked the gf if she was interested in sex this morning, she wasn't. I asked her if I could cum, I had already been stroking, and aching. She said no, so I stopped. She's unknowingly controlling my orgasm as the moment. Damn, this is exciting

 

[digi_foot]

So I asked the gf if she was interested in sex this morning, she wasn't. I asked her if I could cum, I had already been stroking, and aching. She said no, so I stopped. She's unknowingly controlling my orgasm as the moment. Damn, this is exciting

I think it is much more exciting if it is knowingly. So you both know that she is taking pleasure from your suffering and you take suffering for her pleasure. It adds mental edge to it.

 

[Lady2020]

You're assuming male Litsters are self-aware. I'm thinking they are less self-aware than women.

 

[falkor207]

I think it is much more exciting if it is knowingly. So you both know that she is taking pleasure from your suffering and you take suffering for her pleasure. It adds mental edge to it.


So, it started out her not knowing, and a little later I started up a conversation explaining what happened earlier and giving her the option to control when I cum. She agreed tentatively and the day progressed, she even teased me a few times. Bedtime and we start fooling around. I tell her I'm close and she stops what she's doing while I continue with her. Cycle repeats a few times with her asking if I want to cum, of course I do (I didn't say it like that). I'm continuing to please her and the question comes up yet again, this time she reminds me I didn't do something she had asked for earlier in the day and I'm thinking I'm in for a frustrating ending. She's a kind soul and having denied me multiple times already she allowed me to cum.

We'll be discussing this again later, so I expect things may not go the same way next time we're having sex.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thank you for sharing that falkor207

 

[falkor207]

Thank you for sharing that falkor207

So the giving her control has taken a wild ride this weekend. I broke the rules Friday night, and admitted it on Saturday. We hadn't really discussed this part of her being in charge and a long discussion ensued including an end date where we will discuss things and either tweak and keep going or end it. I "agreed" to the consequence of my bad behavior being I had to scrub the kitchen floor on hands and knees naked. It needed to be done, but that wasn't really the point. I got ready and cleared out the pieces that could/need to be removed and placed a leather chair in the doorway as she wanted to watch. She did more than watch. She took a bunch of pics of me while I was working, and a couple times mentioned how excited this made her. To be honest about half way through I was starting to enjoy that what I was doing was pleasing her. Let's just say it was an interesting weekend filled with lots of fun and playful teasing by us both in between!

 

[lakejoke]

New month, same bump.

I am new at this and have had the experience you describe; however , i would love to experience it.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I am new at this and have had the experience you describe; however , i would love to experience it.

Thank you for sharing.

 

[drklatinreturn]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

Never. Women have always wanted me to be the alpha aggressor (maybe because of my appearance). I have never truly in that role of submissive to tired used slave. Even online women have started Dom but eventually give hints that they want me too virtually pound them. *÷sigh*. It's frustrating as hell.

 

[Curiousphoenix]

Early in lockdown my wife found porn on my phone. The cuckold forced bi sort of porn. One night she walked into the bedroom and sat on my face. She rode my tongue until she exploded all the while stroking me. I was so close and she knew it. She stopped and slapped my balls. Told me I had to prove to her that I loved her body before I could release. She left it up to me to find a way to prove that I wasn’t stroking when she left. That’s when a cock cage entered the picture. She has the key and every night for two weeks she would ride me tongue in various positions while toying with me. After two weeks of torment she finally let me release. It was bittersweet as the joy of the climax was overshadowed by her instantly putting the cage back on. I realized that it was more than two weeks to prove things to her.

That ended about 6 months ago but I find myself fondly recalling those times when I am alone and things are quiet.

You were lucky to have your wife partake and initiate in a safe and respectful manner within the boundaries of marriage. She could have just ignored you and started cheating behind your back, as many do.

If you dont mind, I am curious why it stopped? If it hasnt occurred to you and if you want to, perhaps you should find her kink and return the favor...her kink might not be yours. She might then re-engage.

Of course, please feel free to ignore me as I have no idea what your life is like. I just read your post and thought her reaction to your porn was pretty rare and amazing.

CP

 

[Pliantjoed]

I think she was exhausted with the whole situation. She really wanted to feel an orgasm with a D inside her as she was grinding on it, not just a tongue flicking past it. She told me that she found it a huge turn off that I would let myself be caged. That her job was stressful and she just didn’t want to make decisions when she got him but the cage made her feel like she was in charge at home and it blocked her ability to enjoy intercourse with me.

I asked her what she needed and instantly she walks away saying she was done making decisions.

We spent a couple days in silence when we were both home. I mean not complete silence but no meaningful conversation about anything. The whole thing kinda got swept under the rug until a couple months ago. She had a work function she invited me to. She got there before me as it was after work. I walked up and she was at a table with fellow co-workers, she was laughing and smiling and having a great time. When I walked up the mood changed. Weird feeling. I didn’t stay at the function long so she could go back to having fun (she doesn’t drink so no drunken flings). She got home late after I was already asleep.

She has never said anything but I think she is in to that co worker. I have been trying to work up the courage to talk to her about it but get scared, maybe excited?

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Saturday bump

 

[jloMassivePrecummer]

For those men who consider themselves submissive, or even feel they might have those leanings even if they have yet to acknowledge them...

When was the last time you were properly used, if ever? And by 'used' I mean tormented and cock teased until you had to beg for more? Tortured and torn between wanting release, yet not wanting the sublime agony to end? To demonstrate that you can be useful, obedient and good? Regardless of how much you accept it (or don't) I know those thoughts are never far away.

If you've read any of my threads, you know my preferences (unattached only, 30-45), so reach out via PM.

Let's hear it

Although I’ve begged to be used it’s never happened. Would you make an age exception and please do this for me before I die…

 

[LoneLoopy]

Hi Lady Jenna. I am a person that fits into your preferences, only recently new to the bdsm world but find myself intrigued by it more and more..
Would like the chat sometime to see if we have a good connection and share mutual interests.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Friday night bump