Adieu, Adios, Addio

Earl, fancy starting up a support group. I am not being flip. I'm serious.

Stick together, help each other keep it "real". Know what I mean?

:kiss:
 
Perdita-mia.....I have no idea if you are even reading this thread, but I'm sure the deep and sincere feelings expressed by all are even now winging their way to you; but having met you, and enjoyed your company, wit and laughter for real, I can easily see the soft knowing smile that will be crossing your face as you read/hear/feel the deep affection.

I am one of the lucky ones privileged to meet the real person behind the name, and the memory of those brief days;the conversations, shared thoughts, the silliness and girlish giggling, the outright belly-laughter, the shared jokes and companionship (not to mention standing at the bus stop in the pouring rain) will long be remembered by me.

I know you have your own very good reasons for leaving, and its something you have thought about for a while, and none of us would wish you anything but luck and success - but that said, you WILL be missed by each and every person who's lives you have touched.

With my deepest affection, tight hugs and kisses.

Mat :heart:
 
Tatelou said:
Earl, fancy starting up a support group. I am not being flip. I'm serious.

Stick together, help each other keep it "real". Know what I mean?

:kiss:

You can count on me. What you got in mind?

I can only add how lucky I feel to have met P. during her UK visit. And whilst I knew what I'd see from her posts and images here, I was quite surprised by what I found. I wish I'd the opportunity to spend more time in her company to talk with her and discover more of P the person.
 
Take care Dita. :rose:

You will be missed, but I'm happy to know Rl is so full of possibility that it needs your full attention.

*HUGS*
 
Later babe

Take care out there sweet P, and I won't say bye like others because this isn't the last you'll hear of me young lady, don't think you can escape the pirate's clutches this easy ;) :D :rose:


(PS: Do I put the sheet back over the four poster for now then :devil: )
 
Perdita,

I hope you come back long enough to lurk and see this.

I'm going to miss you. You know that back when we were real neighbors, I regret that we never met. I'm pleased to have finally met you, even if it was only here and virturally.

You live in vibrant and awesome place, and I envy you some for that.

My best to you, and my best wishes for your future.

Ted

P.S. What's this I hear about your taking up with Gavin? :)
 
Tatelou said:
Earl, fancy starting up a support group. I am not being flip. I'm serious.

Stick together, help each other keep it "real". Know what I mean?

:kiss:


Does this mean that if I get sad, I get to bury my head between your tits and you stroke the back of my head and other things telling me everything will be Ok?
 
pop_54 said:
Does this mean that if I get sad, I get to bury my head between your tits and you stroke the back of my head and other things telling me everything will be Ok?

Of course! :kiss:

Neon, that goes for you, too. :kiss:
 
I cannot express how Perdita's leaving will affect me. In all honesty I respected her more than anyone else on this forum.

Whenever I go somewhere new, I enjoy being welcomed by a friendly smile and open arms. Perdita gave me that, as did a few others that are still around, and I probably wouldn't of stayed had it not been for her kind words at the start.

I'm just rambling now... I'll miss you Perdita.. :(
 
gauchecritic said:
:nana: :nana: :nana:

Run, run like the wind.

( :kiss: :rose: excuse me, P, for diverging, as you know he's against them ;) and it is meant as no offence to you, or this thread )

But, YOU brought to use emotes, not just any emotes, but NANA'S of all things!!! Priceless! lol
 
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perdita said:
A few days ago I made the decision to quit Lit., both writing stories for the site and posting on the AH. I started out letting my best AH friends know, then wrote a couple more people, then became concerned I might hurt someone’s feelings so wrote a few more people. Now, rather than writing yet more personal notes I’m writing my last post. Unlike those who post a farewell and then come back within a day or two, I will not return (unless Maths does, haha, dumb joke).

According to one pal some people are worried about me. I am very well. I am not depressed or even slightly sad, not even about leaving Lit. The decision was a long time in the making, but when I made it I felt very good, and still do. Some of my reasons were based on stuff and people that did not make me feel good, but they were only one recent catalyst. My main reasons are positive.

It was an odd synchronicity to both of us that SubJosé and I left at the same time, but we had similar reasons on the positive end. I have a good life and want to live it in actuality. I want to get on with my non-erotic writing and photography work; they satisfy me most among all my interests. I’ve also returned to reading as much as I used to before joining Lit. (I’ve read several books just in the past week.)

Quoting a good pal, I want to “face the world as myself again”. It was interesting and usually fun to be Perdita online, but I am not her to people I truly want and need in my life. If you at all lament that she’s gone, know that she was just the tip of an old iceberg. Let her be no more than a mote of dust (or precum) in the grand scheme of the forum, which is to say hardly anything or anyone at all. Adieu, Perdu.

As for the current composition of the AH, I’ve ranted and whinged often enough about the same issues which seem to prevail even more now. As with persons in my life, if their presence does more to vex than enhance my life, I move on. Some of you may have noticed that it was becoming difficult for me to be polite or tactful, and I do not care for that, nor for being oppressively silent.

I am grateful for all the good times I’ve had here, and especially for a number of people I’ve come to know as friends or simply learned from or been inspired by. However, it seems that virtual spring is nearly desiccated (for me anyway).

So I wish everyone well and thank you for your time and attention.

Perdita :heart:

Per Please don't go that's all I can say :rose:
 
I hope that Perdita will still return to Yorkshire (and to Venice).

I have the calendar of Venice that she gave me on top of my PC so I will be reminded every day of this year.

Best wishes to her for the future.

Og
 
pop_54 said:
Does this mean that if I get sad, I get to bury my head between your tits and you stroke the back of my head and other things telling me everything will be Ok?

Pops: If you've got your head buried in Lou's tits, then I think telling you that everything's okay is a bit superfluous.

The Earl
 
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