Advise On Being Agressive Plz

[rallas40]

The girl that i am kinda seeing says she wants me to be a whole hell of alot more agrissive cause she likes that... but i really don't know how to b agrissive, i think maybe cause i love just kissing her and looking into her eyes and i think beyond that kinda destroys it..... I am kinda hopless romantic i guess. So i was just wondering how u GIRLS out there like aggrisiveness and what that intells.

Thank you all that reply.

 

[lovetoread]

I like a man to take charge of me.

Tell me how he wants it, to let me know what,how,where, and when he wants it.

Aggressive is not a bad thing.

The problem I see here is the fact that you already said that you dont want to do it.

Examine that thought closely. You cannot make yourself what you are not.

I dont know how aggressive your girl wants you to be...just a bit of kink or an all out dom, but do what you feel is right.

If you decided that you dont like to play her way,you need to talk to her about it.

 

[digdat]

If she says be agressive, it means she's looking for you to take control over some part of your relationship. This could be emotional or sexual ... just show confidence and openness and you can't go wrong.

 

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[Quimmy]

Maybe she just wants you to take the initiative sometimes. Do you always wait for cues from her to go further, sexually? She might want you to start things up.

A little boldness can be sexy and make you feel wanted/needed/desired.

I sometimes like to come from behind and give my girl a hug, then kiss her neck and slide a hand between her legs, just to be a flirt. The worst thing that can happen is she says "Heeey, behave you." and the best that can happen, well....

That happens a lot while doing dishes together.

 

[lilpriss]

Agressive lovers really get me going! Just reading what quimmy wrote about being spontaneous and coming up behind her... well let's just say I need to go take care of some stuff real quick...

Just the thought of it is arousing!

I love love love to just let things go and be wild... it's a real adrenaline rush too when your man can't get enough!

 

[lovechild27]

Make her feel like a damsel in distress and you cant help but ravish her. Hold her hands down while you lick her body...tear her clothing off...let your passion take you both over. Have fun!