Age question for the Guys

[somberReality]

If i may ask, being female and seeing the various answers in this thread, what makes a girl NOT good in bed....or better yet, what makes them GOOD in bed....answering either would be cool. (to go along with the question already here of course)

 

[fathom7]

If i may ask, being female and seeing the various answers in this thread, what makes a girl NOT good in bed....or better yet, what makes them GOOD in bed....answering either would be cool. (to go along with the question already here of course)

The host of answers to this question will likely be diverse. However, here's one response:

What makes a woman "good in bed" is roughly the same thing that makes a man good in bed -- the ability to allow one's self to just BE. Take what is desired -- ask for what they wish to take -- give what they can (even at times if it means giving something they might rather not -- and above all -- just enjoy. Honesty in bed is as important as honesty anywhere else one travels. In the matters of amour in the boudoir -- that honesty has to be honesty with one's own desires as well and the willingness to open yourself to those honest desires.

 

[somberReality]

*adds him to her "to do" list*

 

[fathom7]

*adds him to her "to do" list*

MMM the promise of something to be done.

 

[somberReality]

Yeah. Too bad you're on the wrong coast line for something "personal".

 

[fathom7]

Yeah. Too bad you're on the wrong coast line for something "personal".

My dear -- there is no wrong coast. The thought of your interest makes plane travel worth the effort.

I'll be around -- if for no other reason than bring smiles and light to people like you.

 

[somberReality]

LOL. Wow, didn't see that coming.

Not used to having someone say they'd hop a plane to see me......

Hmmm.

 

[VaGentleOne]

I say the young one for the fun.

I am 37 and with the others, if curious, I will answer why. As many others said, this is a very open ended question that has no short answer, but you cant fake enthusiasm.

 

[wally2450]

If i may ask, being female and seeing the various answers in this thread, what makes a girl NOT good in bed....or better yet, what makes them GOOD in bed....answering either would be cool. (to go along with the question already here of course)

I like a woman who is active and contributes to the experience. Of course if she is too tired then I will do the work.

 

[Dumpling]

`Bumps ya ~ ~ ~

 

[wally2450]

`Bumps ya ~ ~ ~

Doesn't sharing include some give and take?

 

[Dumpling]

Doesn't sharing include some give and take?

so, are you giving or taking? or both?

 

[garbage can]

so, are you giving or taking? or both?

Ling, I'm giving.

A Cheery Monday to you...............

 

[nowgirl]

I'd vote for me. The experienced, wise, witty, comfortable-with-what-I-want (and not afraid to ask for it) 40+ year old.

 

[fathom7]

I'd vote for me. The experienced, wise, witty, comfortable-with-what-I-want (and not afraid to ask for it) 40+ year old.

I'll vote for you too.

 

[nowgirl]

I'll vote for you too.

maybe i'll run for prez...

for the let's enjoy sex party?

thanks...

 

[fathom7]

maybe i'll run for prez...

for the let's enjoy sex party?

thanks...

MMMMMM.

Would love to be a member of your cabinet.

 

[riftheotherone]

I'm 44 and having been on both ends of the spectrum in my dotage I'd have to plump for the older woman in terms of the experience enjoyed.

Having said that everyone's different, I've just found in general the older woman tends to have had that extra level of experience that makes the whole thing so much better from mine. Thats not to say I've not had bad experiences - and who knows maybe I've been described that way too with the older woman nor good experiences with the younger...I've had both.

Now what was I saying...which did I pick...old & confused lol

 

[Dumpling]

Ling, I'm giving.

A Cheery Monday to you...............

mhhhhhhh you are sooooo generous Hun

 

[lovemonster]

It's interesting that many men say that they'd prefer the younger, less experienced woman so they could 'teach' her how they like to do things.

For those of you who have been with younger women, do you find them receptive to being 'taught' how to have sex? By the age of 21, I would have thought they will probably have already had a few partners and will have worked out they way they like to do things.

Just interested to find out whether people's experiences hold up to the theory that 21 year olds can be 'taught'...

 

[studmuffin75]

Got to be the older woman... so much more relaxed.. confident, knows what she wants (has seen the strings) and doesnt f**k about with mind games.. plus they are much more fun to get along with... however... a young 'un can a wild ride!!!

 

[Morrigu]

Hmmmm I fall slap bang in the middle of this.....age wise

I think a woman can have confidence sexually at any age and it really does depend on the individual and, to an extent, their experiences. The same with the enthusiasm of a partner, not all/only 21 year olds pull that off.

Now I'll go and pull the splinters out of my bottom from sitting on the fence

 

[studmuffin75]

I think its about what happens when the fireworks go off!! Not matter what the age... when the passion hits... it explodes!

Need a hand with those splinters!!!

Hmmmm I fall slap bang in the middle of this.....age wise

I think a woman can have confidence sexually at any age and it really does depend on the individual and, to an extent, their experiences. The same with the enthusiasm of a partner, not all/only 21 year olds pull that off.

Now I'll go and pull the splinters out of my bottom from sitting on the fence

 

[Morrigu]

I think its about what happens when the fireworks go off!! Not matter what the age... when the passion hits... it explodes!

Need a hand with those splinters!!!

It surely does.............

Probably could do with some actually I can't quite see properly