All About Small Cocks. What is your experience? Having one, being with one, positive or negative (please no dick pics or rude behavior)

[van_delay]

Downside for me is that some positions just don't work. A longer cock would allow penetration without wide open direct access.

On the plus side, women's underwear fits better.

 

[Olderwiserstillhorny]

I was once told years ago " It's not what you got, but how you use it. "
Many years later it still works for me.

 

[Plasmaball]

To the ladies:
1) What has been your experience with small cocks? I haven’t been with a lot of guys, but my best sex has been with the two guys who were smaller than the others. My ex-husband is very well endowed, but a lazy lover. My most recent ex and my current partner aren’t as genetically “blessed” in penis size, but they are much more attentive, exciting, creative, etc.

Do you think this had to do with the idea that he thought his large dick would do the work for him?
This seems to be a common theme if so

1a) Has it been positive? Why? Yes, as explained above. Plus my mouth doesn’t get tired during oral and anal is nice.
1b) Has it not been negative? Why? This feels like the same question, lol.
2) If you are a woman who prefers a small cock. Why? I don’t have a preference. I care about the man and his brain and who he is.
3) If you would never have sex with a guy who has a small cock. Why? N/A
4) Honestly; you don't care either way. Why? Already answered
5) Are you tired of this discussion? It’s a discussion that will never go away due to insecurities.

 

[bps]

Been with close to 100 different women and am below average. Quite a few repeat encounters also. I am turned on by fun, kind, funny women not a specific body type. I'd imagine there are women out there that have the same turn on.

a great post. That’s a lot of tail, btw

 

[dodgeboy2]

I'd like to have an honest discussion about this. So often this topic is all about "fake" reassurance, crass humor, or guys with big cocks feeling the need to one up. This isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a mature conversation about this topic. I believe an equivalent discussion is body image for women. If people can talk about this subject with respect and dignity I'm sure we can talk about small cocks with dignity and respect. Obviously you don't have to answer all the questions just giving people something to think about and discuss

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

Lets be mature about this conversation.

Ok so I am a guy with a small guy around 4 1/2" on a good day that includes meds to help me out. So here is my input on the.

1) I have been with both men and women before marrying my wife, been together over 40 years, luckily I married a girl much younger than I and one with at the very most a little pool of guys to compare me with. Only one time during my after high school years did I have one issue was one guy whenever he saw it or touched it always said I had a cute little thing there, but it wasn't a turn off for me.

2) Negative experiences were mainly in my late elementary school & high school years, back in the early to mid 70's guys in the showers & locker rooms could be very brutal and aside from the hurtful things that were said the couple of us that were not so well endowed had many towels snapped at us which isn't fun if you know what I mean!

3) I haven't found anyone into or just looking for small cock, I have had a few with some surprised looks on their face but nobody turned away from it.

4) Positives I have never had one of those omg looks when someone sees it like that "I might choke on it look", well guess that could be both a positive and negative LOL.

5) No not just as having a abnormally huge cock has it's place in discussions so should ones that fall below the normal curve too.

 

[IIXIV]

I'd like to have an honest discussion about this. So often this topic is all about "fake" reassurance, crass humor, or guys with big cocks feeling the need to one up. This isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a mature conversation about this topic. I believe an equivalent discussion is body image for women. If people can talk about this subject with respect and dignity I'm sure we can talk about small cocks with dignity and respect. Obviously you don't have to answer all the questions just giving people something to think about and discuss

To the ladies:
1) What has been your experience with small cocks?
1a) Has it been positive? Why?
1b) Has it not been negative? Why?
2) If you are a woman who prefers a small cock. Why?
3) If you would never have sex with a guy who has a small cock. Why?
4) Honestly; you don't care either way. Why?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

Lets be mature about this conversation.

I have a 2.75 inch cock that is 2.25 in circumference hard. The head reaches 7/8ths inch long. You bet I've received the looks and mind changes. And yes I am the best pussy eater.

 

[Domdonordad]

To me, it's about connecting with someone, not necessarily about the specifics of the hardware.

I've been with some smaller sized cocks and still had plenty of fun. Sometimes the mechanics can be a bit different but if you are both into it, you will find a way.

Pro to smaller cocks: easier for blowjobs, especially since I have TMJ and can't open my mouth all the way. I appreciate something a bit smaller.

I think it's worth talking about because many cultures have so many hang-ups about size and performance. We can't really change our automatic thinking unless we challenge it and talk about it.

Well said

 

[IIXIV]

Sometimes it sucks bad. Then I get horny and jerkoff to fantasy of being a cuckold, my gorgeous wife humiliating me with your tiny little dick remarks. Them she opens the door and strides in a tall, big black man totally naked as she tells me no more pussy for me and a chastity cage to shrink my little bitty sick smaller. The she proceeds to slurping and gobbel that giant cock up.

 

[IIXIV]

Ok I’m going to be completely candid and long-winded on this topic, so if you decide to read this entire thing I jovially thank you in advance for joining my “TED” talk. First, regarding cock length, not necessarily width: in my experience with smaller cocks I feel more sexually skilled performing blow jobs on shorter length cocks. It is easier for me to perform the kind of blow jobs that I enjoy when I can physically fit more of a shorter length cock in my mouth and breathe easier through my nose. It makes me feel like I have a better blow job technique. TBH I feel like I’m a bit less sexually coordinated performing blow jobs on thicker and longer cocks. BTW I know my inbox is about to be filled with offers to help me hone my blow job technique. I’ll ask that you only PM me regarding this if you and your cock happen to be in Harrisburg, PA. Please note, I respectfully reserve the right to ignore any PM from anyone who is not able to present their cock to me in person.
Secondly, the negative experience with shorter length cock is that I can’t feel it enter my pussy, which is a major disappointment for me. I personally prefer a longer cock for the sake of my pussy’s need to be filled to my g-spot. However, if my partner with a shorter length cock and I are able to get in a position that allows his cock to reach my g-spot that is preferable, because a shorter cock is less likely to hit my cervix. BTW, please don’t intentionally hit my cervix! A bruised cervix is painful and an immediate turn-off. Also my cervix is where I keep my IUD, thank you.
Thirdly, I would say that I prefer shorter length cock in the context of attempting anal sex. A thicker or longer cock causes me too much physical pain in my ass. BTW, don’t hurt my ass unless I consent to being spanked, thank you. Finally, I would not refuse to have sex with a man based on the single factor of his cock size. The end.

How about one under 3 inches?

 

[AndyJacker]

I'd like to have an honest discussion about this. So often this topic is all about "fake" reassurance, crass humor, or guys with big cocks feeling the need to one up. This isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a mature conversation about this topic. I believe an equivalent discussion is body image for women. If people can talk about this subject with respect and dignity I'm sure we can talk about small cocks with dignity and respect. Obviously you don't have to answer all the questions just giving people something to think about and discuss

To the ladies:
1) What has been your experience with small cocks?
1a) Has it been positive? Why?
1b) Has it not been negative? Why?
2) If you are a woman who prefers a small cock. Why?
3) If you would never have sex with a guy who has a small cock. Why?
4) Honestly; you don't care either way. Why?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

For the men:
1) If you have a small cock what has been your experience?
2) Have you had a really negative experience because of your small penis? (don't be rude)
3) Have you had a partner who was looking for or really into small cocks?
4) What has been the positives about having a small cock?
5) Are you tired of this discussion?

Lets be mature about this conversation.

While I don’t have a small penis, I have had the good fortune to enjoy my cousin’s micro dick. I love talking about my experiences with him, and about how our sessions took me back to the days when my step uncle mentored me.

 

[AndyJacker]

How about one under 3 inches?

I’d love to enjoy one that size …. Yes sir!

 

[TinaCole]

Never was well endowed. was the laughing stock in high school showers after gym class. Wife never complained, she was even relieved, now it's a clitty wrapped in satin.

 

[AndyJacker]

Ok so I am a guy with a small guy around 4 1/2" on a good day that includes meds to help me out. So here is my input on the.

1) I have been with both men and women before marrying my wife, been together over 40 years, luckily I married a girl much younger than I and one with at the very most a little pool of guys to compare me with. Only one time during my after high school years did I have one issue was one guy whenever he saw it or touched it always said I had a cute little thing there, but it wasn't a turn off for me.

2) Negative experiences were mainly in my late elementary school & high school years, back in the early to mid 70's guys in the showers & locker rooms could be very brutal and aside from the hurtful things that were said the couple of us that were not so well endowed had many towels snapped at us which isn't fun if you know what I mean!

3) I haven't found anyone into or just looking for small cock, I have had a few with some surprised looks on their face but nobody turned away from it.

4) Positives I have never had one of those omg looks when someone sees it like that "I might choke on it look", well guess that could be both a positive and negative LOL.

5) No not just as having an abnormally huge cock has it's place in discussions so should ones that fall below the normal curve too.

Well I am someone who would absolutely love to enjoy a small cock.

 

[BenHoping]

I had a very nice and informative exchange about having a micro penis here on LIT lit boards with a man who has one. I didn't even know there was a medical term for it, much less a body of research. I ended up writing a story that more or less mirrored his experience, as told to me. It's in "Romance" and hasn't drawn many readers, but I've gotten some heartfelt thanks from a few. Link, if you'd like to read: https://literotica.com/s/meabh-queen-of-connaught-and-evan

Just stumbled across this thread, but I actually read your story before and yeah--definitely fits the romance category.

Maybe a different title would have helped? I probably would have skipped it just looking at the titles in your stories. I read it because it was linked in another forum post somewhere.

It's a shame it's getting so little attention--it's a tour-de force of the head-space around micro-penis.

By medical definition I escape having one by 1/2", but it's still short enough to make all kinds of things in the story resonate for me!

To this OP's questions: (kinda)
Yeah, I'm short. All the bad locker room experiences are there, compounded by not reaching puberty till I was 17! For a long time that was a deeply buried embarrassment for me.

It was enough. My wife and I got each other's cherries, she never complained, and we made it work.

Yes to "open conversations" that both OP and Valendon get at.