Am I a Sugar Baby? Older friend is offering me an "Arrangement"

[ebony_pussy]

You're an incredibly strong girl. Whatever you decide, you got this.

Thank you

 

[ebony_pussy]

Honestly.

I'm like 75-80% there. I think i'm gonna do it

Not 100% yet though

 

[Jaws82]

Or i go up there have a fun weekend he probly buys me a lotta nice stuff

And i say thanks for the weekend, i cant do the "arrangement"and move on

Ive got some restaurant recommendations

 

[ebony_pussy]

Ive got some restaurant recommendations

Ok

But he's a vegas guy he's prolly got it planned

 

[Jaws82]

Ok

But he's a vegas guy he's prolly got it planned

Just remember to blow his...dice

....for good luck

 

[firefox27eros]

I dunno. I think so. But i think we talk about it in Vegas this weekend.

I'm gonna put a fucking on him like he NEVER had before. Gonna bend his cock and his WILL until it snaps

Gonna give him something he gonna feel like he CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT

And THEN we start negotiating

When I saw it I believed you are in the video: https://gifhq.com/post/187921960

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Honestly.

I'm like 75-80% there. I think i'm gonna do it

Not 100% yet though

Look at it taking the money out of it - you have a respectful guy who appears to be good in bed and wants to spend time with you showing off his generosity. There a lot worse ways to spend your time.

If he demands 100% of your attention and complete exclusivity when you don’t want that then the math changes but right now this feels right.

 

[IARainman]

I dunno. I think so. But i think we talk about it in Vegas this weekend.

I'm gonna put a fucking on him like he NEVER had before. Gonna bend his cock and his WILL until it snaps

Gonna give him something he gonna feel like he CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT

And THEN we start negotiating

As an older white guy... I think the whole thing for him is likely more than the sex. Yes, he wants sex, and amazing enthusiastic sex will make it the best experience for both of you. But I think there's a certain GFE element here. He wants a beautiful thing woman on his arm at dinner and an attentive partner when alone , little demonstrations of care, like mixing him a drink.

Rather than thinking about escorting outside this arrangement, think about the rules of engagement that will keep you both happy. Under what terms you can have other playmates, does he get priority if he calls you up Friday night and you already have a date.

Is he into groups or sharing you with his friends, that could be a safe (er) way to additional incremental income....

Just from observing what you've shared, this seems highly more attractive than stripping.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I think you have pretty clearly identified the relevant considerations for you. Its really about how you would feel about yourself if you decide to do this. Having sex with someone you enjoy having sex with, who has money and can afford to make you comfortable materially. Whose company is not creepy. Its really just a question of whether that changes your own idea of who you are.

Ok reality sets in

Sure it sounds like a good idea yeah why not

Gotta lottta encouraging advice

Now getting high and lying here thinkin about it

Back and forth

Getting high is probably not the best way to have reality set in.

Maybe only do it for a few months.

Ok BUT: if i'm willing to do that...

is it really that much worse to fuck a guy i kinda like and be his

SUGAR BABY

What you have to be sure to do, if you decide to go forward, is to make sure you put yourself in a position where you can end it on your terms when you decide to. That means you have to be in a situation where you would not be homeless if it ends. And you need to figure out a way to sock away some money while it is going on, so that, regardless of which of you ends it, you are not desperate for another man to "take care of you."

I don't know. I had really mixed feelings when I stripped before

I felt weird and a little sick but also it was a turn on.

Toward the end i got scared and knew i had to get out. It's ADDICTIVE to have guys wanting you so much they'll drop a lot of money just for you to dance closer or talk to them for awhile

When I did lap dances sometimes I came

You really had orgasms doing lap dances? I used to get a lot of lap dances, and that seems pretty remarkable.


Anyway, if you decide to go forward, make sure you have it clear in your own mind what the terms are to be.
That you will be available to him on some schedule or terms that fit his needs, but that otherwise, you can do as you lke with whomever you like.
That this is just between you and him and not about him sharing you with his buddies.
Whatever else you can think of to ensure that you retain your independence.

 

[ebony_pussy]

Ok so

I think i need to think about what one of my former bosses called "the value proposition."

Who trades what for what.

He told me how to look at the apartment. Nice place, nice location, asking rent is $3,000 a month.

My friend who escorts charges $500/hr, no agency or pimp, she keeps it all.

So roughly 6 hrs a month with him for the apartment. Maybe more; my friend's client have to pay for hotel room. So maybe I owe him 8-9 hours. He's not quickie kinda guy, so that's maybe 3-4 sessions a month?

 

[ebony_pussy]

That would be minimal deal, I still gotta work to pay for everything else. So in that case, I gotta have a flexible schedule, so he has to block out a regular time and can't just drop in whenever. And i can see other guys or whatever.

 

[ebony_pussy]

What does the High End deal look like?

Let's say he want exclusivity and wants to be able to call me on short notice and i gotta be there when he wants.

 

[ebony_pussy]

Ok in that case i need most or all of my living expenses covered, right?

so maybe...another $4,000? Just a rough guess. Maybe call it $5,000?

So $8,000/ month, so like 16-24 hours a monrh.

Call it 20 hours.

So 7-10 sessions a month. Like twice a week.

 

[ebony_pussy]

And he's gotta do something extra to spend whole days or nights with me.

Am i looking at this the right way?

Any ideas, guys?

 

[ebony_pussy]

There's another way. I don't take the apartment, or have any other "arrangement" except he pays each time he sees me.

 

[ebony_pussy]

When I saw it I believed you are in the video: https://gifhq.com/post/187921960

Nope not me

 

[firefox27eros]

Nope not me

I knew it.
This couple whom enjoyed the ride and each other's company was resonated with your posts at least for me.

 

[Dill_the_Dog]

@ebony_pussy Send us a postcard from Vegas!

 

[JennyCapricorn]

And he's gotta do something extra to spend whole days or nights with me.

Am i looking at this the right way?

Any ideas, guys?

I think you’re looking at it the right way. I want to add this: if you take the apartment the two of you are making a stronger commitment to each other; moving is a pain in the ass for you and he then has to deal with you having tenant rights. There’s good and bad in that either way.

That he is offering the apartment instead of straight cash also means something. I suspect it’s both easier for him in terms of cash flow and also makes it feel more like generosity rather than payment. Plus if he already has an empty apartment it’s not costing him money out of pocket.

with what you’re thinking? Based on what others have said about him probably wanting a GFE that will likely include dinner out somewhere, time together, etc. it’ll probably be 3 hours? (I chatted with a friend who used to escort and she said figure about that for a “date” that isn’t just fucking)

So weekly would be 12 hours a month weekly, 9 hours for 3 times a month. Does the apartment cover utilities?

 

[Gemini1985]

No I'm pretty much a slut. Oops I mean non-exclusive

Circling back to this....

Sluts are the hottest Just throwing my hat in the ring in case your sugar daddy decides to retire lol

 

[ConsiderateBeast]

By the way I remember reading somewhere that Ava Addams charged $2k/night escorting in NYC, so it looks like you've leapt straight into the elite price band

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Hi friend … what an interesting situation you find yourself in here. This reads like a * goomah situation he’s proposing here to me more so then a sugar daddy arrangement. They are totally different arrangements.

That’s better then a sugar daddy arrangement, imo go you !! Goomah’s get respect, all the going out on dates fun and good times. They basically get treated like sexy arm candy for a man of means who has the ability to have one. Good for him for having good taste in women and the lovers he decides to pursue.

Ride this wave of good fortune and experience it with grace , class and dignity!! Overthinking it just takes the erotica of excitement outta it and makes for mental anxiety that’s not needed really.

Talk about boundaries with him… his and yours. Then you have a complete picture of what your relationship is going to be like.

Best of luck , have fun ,

Fingerfuxs

 

[NOBGE]

Honestly.

I'm like 75-80% there. I think i'm gonna do it

Not 100% yet though

So, way I see it…consenting adults. You’ve got something he wants and he’s willing to help you out.

We’re all curious how the weekend went.

 

[ebony_pussy]

Fucking hell

Wild wet whirlwind of a weekend

 

[ebony_pussy]

I fucked his brains out

I'm moved into the new apartnent.

And i have a sugar daddy now